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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need a female's opinion here!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - Ok, i've been seeing this girl on and off for about 2 months now. I haven't gotten any clear signals that she wants to date, although she can get frisky when we're out drinking. Last weekend we went out and ended up hooking up and I stayed over at ...

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do. I've tried almost everything and nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel he has a problem. I'm getting more depressed by the day. All we ever do is sit around and he drinks. I love him with ...

Should I break up with my girlfriend or keep things going...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - So i have this gf i been with for 8 months. I love her so much but its scary at the same time. from the begging i never planeed to stay with her this long. I heard she was real easy and yea she was, but i never been able to break up with her. yea ...

Relationship of three years and finding sexual texting from other women,

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been with my b/f for 3 years, We have been living together for a little bit over a year. Recently (4 1/2 months ago) I found texts from women on his phone to him. One girl wrote " No I wont allow it! Do what you want to do but I...

I really wanted to help my friend but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a friend his name is Ruben, he is just really my ordinary friend but a very close friend. He has before a girlfriend, and i am a witness of their loves. they really love each other that almost got married. suddenly. his gf go abroad for ...

When we are together things are great, but when we are apart I feel like he treats me like a fling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like he doesn't put any effort into our relationship. First off, we have a long distance relationship, we only see each other once or twice a week (I'll spend the night at his place once a ...

Why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - HHhhhmm, i am caught in a serious problem. two weeks ago, i met a guy through my friend..first, i thought my friend n that guy is dating but that was'nt true and suddenly me n that guy got contact, we started texting eachother, and meeting ...

Is his age that bad and am I a bitch for having an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Well people are gonna think I'm a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but ...

How can I get these pictures back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (?) - So I'm almost 16. I'm just under 5'2" about 105lbs. little less at times, really big green eyes and long, naturally straight dark brown hair with black and auburn highlights/lowlights. I usually have pretty high self confidence and carry myself as ...

I pushed my live in boyfriend away, can we salvage this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - So me and my live in boyfriend have been together for roughly a year and a half. He is 29 and I am 25. Me and him were so in love but it seemed that when we moved in with each other (about 6 months ago) our relationship started to crumble. we did ...

I dated a girl in the past that she really hates so she broke up with me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - hi people really hope u can help me out. there's this girl i have been dating for 2 months and she was the only girl that i had ever felt this way about. I loved her with my all and she loves me too. She said i was the greatest and the best boyfrien...

He broke up with me but still loves me (I think) moving out today!! Will we get back together???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

Confusion...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - I'm 20, have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and absolutely adore my girlfriend however she is currently having issues and one minute we're on and the next we're off. I am physically being worried sick because I don't want us to break ...

I want my wife back... it's breaking my heart being apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - Hi there. I have posted on this before, it was about my marriage falling apart. I have been married for 10 months now and the last 6 weeks we have argued constantly. 2 weeks ago i went a bit crazy as we where not managing to resolve the issu...

I thought she was perfect for me... then she broke up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl for a month, she's amazing, she's beautiful, funny and makes me soo happy everything was going great! Then she broke up with me she said I'm an amazing guy and I treated her perfect, I'm the best boyfriend she has ever had! ...

When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling? I wrote earlier but it was far too long. Why do women, who were at one time strong and fierce, allow men to do these things to them: Demanding to see you on webcam while you are i...

How do I tell him I need that I don't feel special without it turning into an argument?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - How do I tell him I need that I don't feel special without it turning into an argument? I dont understand whats going on with my boyfriend. i love him more than anything but im having serious doubts. He started renovating his house before we ...

Help! What do you think he means when he says he still thinks we have a future together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had been ignoring me for a few days, he said at first that has been battling depression, and had problems at work and at home (money issues).. I asked him if there was any reason to it, if he was with another girl or if he didn't care ...

I keep hearing stories about him and other girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I am a lady aged 26 going out with a man aged 38 (he is divorced and has 2 children). I am in love with this man but the problem is I keep hearing stories about him and other girls. Today my good pal told me that a girl went to her to ask if my man ...

We've had a huge argument. How can I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm in need of some help. I have been with a wonderful guy for 6 months and when we started off we saw each other as much as we could and fell in love, problem is i have a job that requires me to work different shift patterns and now...

I'm the love of his life but he won't marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My problem is this. My boyfriend, whom I live with, who says Im the love of his life, will not marry me. I decided to lay off him but the only way to do this is to emotionally disconnect from him so that I can deal. In my eyes, not wanting to marry ...

He won't have a child with me, so I'm refusing to deal with the mother of his children. Am I being terrible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My question could possibly be viewed as spoilt and childish but it matters to me so here goes. For a long time I have wanted a baby with my new husband. He already has three children and doesn't want anymore children. He made this clear prior to...

I can't get over my love affair! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Ok so Ive been with this guy for 7 years. Im 26 and hes 32. Everything has been ok between us. We have our ups and downs. There has always been problems in the communications department. Its like we argue instead of talk all the time. We are like ...

He doesn't trust people and takes it out on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Where do I draw the line? My boyfriend is constantly struggling with his ability to trust people, and unfortunately that is taken out a lot on me. I have never been unfaithful and I have never lied to him - so please do not comment that I a...

No money, too much pride and now no respect for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 35. We both got made redundant in jan 2009. We are currently in big trouble financially, my partner has not found a job since january and is obsessing over the idea of going to college. my partner used to earn £40...

How can I trust a person without honesty?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My BF and have been together for 7 months. I think he may be cheating. He still talks to his ex and doesn't see a problem with it. Some of the messages and calls between them have been very suggestive, I can feel that his ex is still loves him ...

A twin thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - Hi, Please help.. I have been in a loving relationship with my girlfriend for a few years, she is completely different to anyone else I have been with, but I cannot help finding an attraction to her twin sister. I have never been someone to c...

What's wrong with my girlfriend's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - I've been in a terrific relationship for several months, and at this point hope to become engaged and eventually married to my girlfriend. One serious issue, at least for me, is her best friend. Her friend is married, 40, and has a baby. Both of ...

Should I confront him with all these weird happenings that I know about ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I met this man on a singles site, he is 40, I am 26, I don't feel like the age is an issue at all. I have been seeing him for about 2 1/2 months, from the beginning I was very straight forward about the fact that I do not like cheaters, been very ...

If a guy cheats on his glrlfriend every once in a while for six months, does he love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I understand sometimes if a significant other cheats once it can maybe be forgiven in some realtionships--and if he is truly trying to make the relationship work and tries to change his ways... but just curious what others think...If a sig...

He's in jail and could be there for a long time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - heres my story yesterday my bf also my daughters father go put in jail in a holding cell he went to court today and didnt get bail so they trasfered him to the county jail and i dont know when he will get out but i was told in someones appinion that ...

Her past relationship screwed her up mentally, physically and emotionally, so she pushed me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - So here's the deal me and my ex were together for nearly 2 years and throughout those 2 years our relationship was amazing. I must add that we were and still would be long distance (her sf me la) anywho we were really good together.....she shared ...

Paranoia, delusion, intuition or gut feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

22 September 2009 (?) - Hi, Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this bad thought that something will break us up the other day that we will end up with different people...

How do I accept and tolerate the things I don't like about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Some of my partner's behaviors are turn offs to me (his porn subscriptions and very rare pot use). He's a great guy who treats me like gold. But, I can't get past these two issues that really bother me. We have talked about it and he offered to ...

He's amazing but registers on dating sites. How do I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - i've been with this guy for over ayear. he totally shows me that he loves me and my kids. i'm totally inlove with him and would marry him. but he recisters on dating sites. that sems to me like he looking for something better. he says its nothing ...

Help!!! Is he losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - okay..so my boyfriend is the type that needs to talk to me every single day.. and more then once. He always makes sure we communicate one way or another..and he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me everyday. this past week, he was away on ...