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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've like the guy i'm dating for months and just over a month ago we finally got together. everything was going really well till recently he cancels on me without really letting me know. i'll bring up the date we're meant to be meeting and he goes of wait i cant i'm sorry. and i was on his facebook page earlier and read one of his friend's wall post which read "Aww nooo how long have you two been together for?? " so i thought i'd find out why his friend put that, and he had put to get this respond "Yeah i have got a girlfriend but it is detiriating fast, we just dont have anything in common, but hey we have fun ;)" I'm upset because its not like i dont try and have a relationship he doesnt seem to even want to see me. I know it was wrong to facebook stalk him, but now what can i do i'm falling for me and this is the first guy in over a year that i really care about and i dont want to just let it all fall out from beneath me. so what can i do to make it work?
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (10 September 2009):
I hate to sound like a biatch but i gotta say it. He hit it & quit it. In other words the only thing he sees you having in common is in the bed. Hes not feeling you like that. And believe me honey he knows you stalk the facebook & doesnt care. Some guy/girls are jerks. but its the truth. You are getting played. The reason he doesnt want to hangout is because hes over it. He is to much of a coward to be upfront about it sweetheart.Or he wants to hang when the time is convenient for him. You working on his time girl. Why? because he can you let him. Tell him to go kick rocks! If by chance he does call you open your eyes & ears he wants to wet the pole & the next day he will treat you just the way he is now. If by chance you guys havent had sex then that is why hes not interested.Point being your feeling him way more than hes feeling you. So ask you now what is there to work out?
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