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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He wants a baby but I dont!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Hi, Recently a couple of my boyfriends friends have become pregnant and had babies and i can see its making him broody. I on the other hand have no interest in children. i find it so hard to feign interest when we meet up with them. I have tol...

Relationship with twin sister is in jeopardy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I have a twin sister and we used to be very close but since my mother passed away January 2008 we have become distant. My sister makes me feel useless and she is controlling. She is the leader and unfortunately I am a follower. I have tried to ...

M I being melodramatic over him not getting me a b-day gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I'm still hurting over something my boyfriend did a few months back, even though i know it will sound trivial. Here goes: on the lead up to my birthday, he said he really wanted to get me something nice, pretty much bombarded me all week for hints ...

My long term partener is in love with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been living together for 13 years. we never married because it didnt seem necessary or fit our lifestyle. he is a great man and i love him very much. he has always been there for me and he is my best friend. we've had our ...

My girlfriemd says she wants to be a one man girl but I don't think I'm that man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been in relationship since 9 months. SHe is the first love of my life and i want her to be the last love and i love her more then anything in the world. so I'm ready to compromise on all fields. but talks about her ...

My mum has poisened my boyfriend against me, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - about 5 months ago me and my mum had a masive fight and she kicked me out, my boyfriend of 4 years still wanted to keep in touch with her, what i was fine about. not too long ago me and my boyfriend had a argument my mum had told him my dad didnt...

After one month apart she got a new boyfriend but I still want to marry her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Me and my ex have been together for 5 years and after a month apart she got a new boyfriend. I had planned to marry her before we broke up and still I want to marry her. What should I do?...

Part of me wants to give up on her but my love for her won't let me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I was married for fourteen years and got a divorce and stayed gone for seven months. So we got back together for another year and a half. I left again due to her going to bars with her girlfriends two to three nights a week. Now we have started ...

How is having sex with me not leading me on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - So my ex and I have started talking again and theres still feelings there on both parts, we talked about taking things slow and seeing what happens. The first night we met up we spent the night together and the same a few days later. She then ...

Size does matter to me! Should I just be honest and tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid,I met this guy last September(2008),and we dated for about 3 months.The first time we got intimate with each other was kinda weird for me.It was unexpected yet great.He performed oral sex on me,he is the pleaser type guy.I was enjoying it ...

How do I stop being so affected by my boyfriend watching porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Okay this is gonna be pretty long so please bear with me! i have been with my boyfreind for 3 years and we're moving in together soon. The other day i borrowed my his laptop and on the visited websites list there was quite a lot of porn. I ...

I found a condom packet in his bag!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Condoms found in the bag I have been with my boyfirend for 9 months in a long distance relationship. we have managed to spend every weekend together for nine months and i love him so much. He is moving here to be with me in three weeks. This week...

B/f wanted to be with his friend and she shot him down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Hi all, I would really love some help on this one please......I recently found out that my Boyfriend of nearly two years is in love with his friend ( has been for 8 years) the things is they are thousands of miles apart. so of course I am very...

My boyfriend told everyone what we did -- how do I deal with the abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I just tryed oral sex with my boyfriend and he told all his friends. now people are calling me a slut, and i have guys from school asking me to "suck them" or "get on your knees for me" any idea's how to stop this or to deal with it. ...

I'm in pain because my true love treats me this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - after break , i stayed with my ex for a while , as we planned to be friends , but didn't work out, so i decided to move out , i started packing my stuff , while i was doing this i had to go out for work , so he came home and he saw that i am planing ...

He makes me feel lonely

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I been with a married man for almost six years. He said he loves me but when we had a chance of being in the same place , i feel invisible ...i tell him what i dont like and he keep doing it , he said i fight too much , but i just want him to ...