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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel like everyone hates me and that I just don't matter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi All, My life feels so weird lately, I have friends on Facebook that take their friendship away without giving a reason, I get ignored on Facebook, anything I post doesnt even get a response! I feel like I dont exist, at a works party recently...

Since moving in together he is not the same person I fell in love with...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now and we've been living together for about 2 months. It was nice in the beginning when i first moved in, but now i feel horrible. He is not the same person i fell in love with. He calls me name and ...

Should I cut my mother out of my life for ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have a really hard life, including kids problems, health problems and all other aspects. Seemingly unrelated and I blamed it on bad fortune. As there is things I have done wrong, but nothing to deserve this outcome.... I cant get into details,...

Do you think once he sees my bump he might change his mind and stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but not children. He does not have either but said that want a family and kids. We have been dating for 7 months and by accident I got pregnant. He was furious and wants me to terminate it. I ...

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it ...

Opinions. If he wanted to break up he'd tell me, ignore me or be slightly rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I've posted before.. but i cant seem to relax.. im constantly thinking. I realized when guys are sick theyre big babies (well some). I'm used to being needed when a bf is sick but because my bf has his mom nearby/her friends to get him things.. he ...

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or ...

He needs time... all the while I am unravelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hello friends, I need some advice. My bf and I had a big blowout a few weeks ago, it was my fault, I lied to him about a few things and he found out. The lies were white and small and didn't hurt anyone but still, I lied. After trying to reconcile ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

I'm too much of a people pleaser and not true to myself! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - i need advice because im sure theres something wrong with me. it sounds silly but noone really likes me. this isnt about feeling sorry for myself but im convinced theres something wrong with me. when i was younger my dad left my mum for his sister ...

Did it happen or not? How do I explain this one to my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f***...

Sometimes I feel like I'm tired off him and immediately I think I can't live without him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for a bit now. I chased him around a bit and he's very shy but after a couple of months of being really good friends we started going out and he's madly in love with me (like I am with him) Now that he's equally in ...

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

Girlfriend flirts online -can I still trust her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up for 10 days then got back together. A few months later, I found messages from a sexual conversation she was having with a guy online. When I confronted her, she said she was just talking trash and that it happened while ...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

I broke up with this strange girl, now she's stalking me, what can I do ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi ,i have a issue almost a 1 year now, i had a relationship with 2 year younger girl when i was 16 and we were together for 1 and a half week , i was not attracted to her at all ,but it impressed me that she asked me out and i said she seemed nice ...

My husband has cheated in the past, being dishonest now, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his ...

I'm starting to resent her and her ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Okay, i have a girlfriend that i love to death, but sometimes i have some problems that i dont really know the names for. To start off, shes has a troubled past of family problems, drug problems, and boyfriend problems. I, myself, have self-esteem ...

We dated for 2 years, broke up and are now together but she's unsure of us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. just after our 2 year anniversary she dumped me. She had a list of things that i did wrong during our relationship. And she was right. i took a lot for granted. didnt respect her feelings. I never ch...

I hate my boyfriends friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We have made it through long distance and everything. He is back for the summer and has to leave soon to go back to school. We all went to school together i'm 2 years younger than the...

We are having an affair and she feels guilty for cheating on her hubby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I am 24 and she is 28 and married. We had a strong relationship and her husband works out of country. She hasn't met him in two years. We started as friends and became very close. It all happened on our road trip to another city while returning. S...

Do you women think this could have happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...

I'm worried my g/f might like her friend more than she likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - hey all, i'm a 19 year old gay female living in the uk. currently have a gf who i've been with a few months. we are in a long distance relationship and although its sometimes hard being apart, its a great relationship for the most part. we have a ...

Un motivated boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Okay so i am almost 16 years old with a 19 and a half boyfriend. We have been going out for a year and a half. Last year he enrolled in a college thirty minutes from the town we live in and he lived in a dorm. His parents have insisted on paying his ...

My fiance just feels like an excellent roommate, nothing else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 yrs, and 7 months. And, We keep arguing, like, coming back to the same argument, over and over again. He expects me to change my whole personality for him. Because, I am a quiet person, but he wants me to be ...

I like him but he never wants to go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend never wants to go out with me. He says it's becasue he doesnt have much money, which he doesnt, as he doesnt have a job, is on Income Support, which are benefits that he gets from the government here in the U.K, and he ...

I am sooooo trying to give her her space but I'm also a bit confused here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hi Firstly I would like to apologise for the length of my post, I wanted to give you as much information as possible so you could make an informed decision I was dating someone for 4 months and it was going along very well without any hiccups...

I have met the man of my dreams but I have gone off sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am a 22 female and finally met the man of my dreams. When I see him I think how gorgeous he is, he treats me like an absolute princess, hes kind to me, caring, helpful, thoughtful...basically as if sent from heaven. BUT...I have COMPLETELY lost my ...

Should I confront my friend or would I just be lowering myself to her level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I need advice cause I'm going mad. I have been friends with this girl for over 10 years and I have helped and been there for her no matter what. She was with this fella for a few years until he cheated on her with a man, I told her get rid whic...

Here are three of us in this relationship! Me, my boyfreind, and my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi All, Wondered if you could advise me on the following plase. !! I have been in a relationship for two months. For the last month it as been rocky for various reasons, but I have realised that alot of that is to do with my anxiety, and am working ...

Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had ...

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...

Should I even stay with him through all of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years, and I found out he cheated on me. I asked him plenty of times if he had cheated, or if he ever would; and he just kept denying. Finally a couple days ago I confronted him with actual proof, ...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...

My boyfriend cheated now I don't know what to do ? Please help..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me ...

Who should I be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that ...

When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...

This random girl claims my boyfriend got her pregnant, and there is lots of evidence to prove she is lying, so why do I still think about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Recently a girl tried adding my boyfriend on facebook but as he didnt know her he ignored it, she also added my friend and started messaging her saying that my boyfriend got her pregnant and she really needed to talk to him. He thought it was a joke ...

He has a girl and I need to forget him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Dam I just need help in fergetting This guy I heka like .. Ever since I know him I like him, and this is like 3years all ready and I just cant leave him in the past.. A year ago we went out for a month but something stupid happend that caused us ...

My past is haunting me to the point where I can't sleep

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 9 months. I love him to much and he loves me too. Lately I've been having anxiety and I have not been able to sleep because I feel so guilty about my past. I have never had sex before but I have kissed other ...

How can I show my boyfriend that my male friends are ONLY friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - How can I convince my boyfriend that my boy friends are just that, my boy FRIENDS? I offer to have him hang out with me when i'm with them but he always bails and I can't get them all to meet... ...

I did so much for her, yet when I decided to stop receiving her abuse all she did was get mad at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - After college, I continued on with my education while my friend "X" had her plans not go according to the way she wanted them to. (She didn't get accepted to grad school and didn't get a high paying job she wanted.) Over time we saw less of each ...

Should I give up on love? Everytime I like someone it seems they don't like me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I have a brother and he is on a team for baseball. My brother is also on a travel team. There is a guy that is on his normal team and travel team. Ever since about four months ago I have liked him. He is a year younger than me. Before I liked ...

Why does my ex hate me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I ended a relaionship with an ex. And he hated me right after. Im not really sure why, there was never a reason. i was good to him. We never fought until the last day we broke up. he hates my guys now and is constantly talking bad about me. Idk why ...

Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to ...

I'm sure my straight girlfriend likes me too but she is cooling off our relationship, what should I do?

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30 July 2010 (F) - Im jess, Im a lesbian..i seek help from all of you...im got relationship with a straight girl for 1 year..however this girl oledi live in with her bf for 4 years..recently she so cool to me..ask us stop relationship..but i feel she like me too....

Guy keeps trying to contact my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Hey people, So me and my gf been back together for almost 2 months after a breakup and things are so far going okay. But the guy she was talking to during the breakup still from time to time tries to call and text her. An...

Dont want to be his fwb, I want all or nothing, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I don't get him at all! I've been talking to this guys for over a year now. Sometimes we'd be on and off because I wanted to get rid of him but it looks that won't happen anytime soon. So I text'd him last night actually, just to see what was up. ...

Can someone explain this cheater to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...