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writes:need a litle help, i am 29 my girl is 22 we both are in army, she is at TN i am in AZ, i got very jelous 3 times in the last 5 weeks, she wants to step back i the relation because of this and i dont know if i did a mistake or not, when she is "hanging" out with her friend she wont answer the phone or any text, and i think that if you have a relationship that you care about, i think that you should answer the phone and maybe say "babe i am with my fried xxxx we are hanging out i call you when i am done"supposibly all of her friends know about us, but she still wont comunicate with me, that is why i got jelous, and now she is backing up in the relation, i dont think i ask for much, i just want her to tell me what is going on, and have the confidence of talking to me in front her friends....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI may got my doubt when she decided to spend the night at one of the friends of this guy friend or hers, she did not even know the guy for a week, I may be wrong but, if you are in a serious relationship I think you should not be doing things like that unless you know this person for a while, not just 3 days after meeting someone go for drinks to a house (not a party), and even before going there you have planned to stay overnight, we were talking on the phone quite a few times and this guy calls to ask her to hang out and she did told me hold on I have a call, and answer the call, don’t I deserve the same respect you are talking about? “I am her man” but when this friend calls she leave me, but when they are hanging out, and I call, she can’t answer the phone, that is where my doubt have roots.I love her very much, and I don’t want to make a mistake
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI may got my doubt when she decided to spend the night at one of the friends of this guy friend or hers, she did not even know the guy for a week, I may be wrong but, if you are in a serious relationship I think you should not be doing things like that unless you know this person for a while, not just 3 days after meeting someone go for drinks to a house (not a party), and even before going there you have planned to stay overnight, we were talking on the phone quite a few times and this guy calls to ask her to hang out and she did told me hold on I have a call, and answer the call, don’t I deserve the same respect you are talking about? “I am her man” but when this friend calls she leave me, but when they are hanging out, and I call, she can’t answer the phone, that is where my doubt have roots.
I love her very much, and I don’t want to make a mistake
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI may got my doubt when she decided to spend the night at one of the friends of this guy friend or hers, she did not even know the guy for a week, I may be wrong but, if you are in a serious relationship I think you should not be doing things like that unless you know this person for a while, not just 3 days after meeting someone go for drinks to a house (not a party), and even before going there you have planned to stay overnight, we were talking on the phone quite a few times and this guy calls to ask her to hang out and she did told me hold on I have a call, and answer the call, don’t I deserve the same respect you are talking about? “I am her man” but when this friend calls she leave me, but when they are hanging out, and I call, she can’t answer the phone, that is where my doubt have roots.I love her very much, and I don’t want to make a mistake
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