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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She slept with someone else while we were on a break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years, recently moved into my own apartment. was feeling very confused and anxious about my life at the time of the move, esp since it was the first time I ever lived alone, and began to doubt my relationship. see a ...

Should I force him to have sex with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - This may sound weird but am I crazy for wanting my fiance to have sex with and date other women before we get married? He hasn't taken me up on the offers and says at most he just wants to feel a large pair of breasts but I feel insecure that I ...

Girlfriend being forced into marriage with her cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I am in need of some serious help. I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years.we love each other so much and really wanted to get married but she was being forced by her family into getting married to her cousin. Her family d...

Did I handle things wrong? I don't want to be labeled as "the crazy bitch"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I would like to get your take on this. I want to apologize but not sure if it’s even worth it. I’ve been dating a guy for about a month ½. Total gentleman, pays all the time, opens doors, can speak for himself and hold a conversation, helps when nee...

I hate my life, I've ruined it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - here goes i hate my life ! why ? well because im a complete and utter idiot ! 6 years ago i made the mistake of leaving my ex fiance. he was a nice person but didnt really show me any love or affection and i found he let me pay for stuff rather ...

He's fine around others so why does he act depressed around me?

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4 September 2009 (F) - my partner is feeling very depressed. I'm struggling. i dont know if its for real or just for my benefit as he seems to be fine with others. he said it because mainly i argue with him but i know its him that turns on me when i ask certain question. ...

One minute she loves me, the next she's breaking up..unending cycle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - I was with Jenny for three months. I really thought Jenny was the one. She couldn't be without me, she told me she'd never loved another man as much as she loved me, she wanted me to move in with her and spend the rest of her life with me! (A bit ...

I feel used all the time, how can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I am dating a man whom i love. He says he feels the same way for me. We have been dating for 3 months now. He at first acted like i was the only woman on earth for him. He treated me so nice, and all that. Now as i know him, his true colors are ...

My boyfriend broke up with me, should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I'm really at a loss right now. My bf has broken up with me, but I'm not sure if it'll be permanent. It all started when we agreed to get an apartment together, so I picked up a second job to pay for school and get ready for the apartment. ...

What's the best way to approach him and why is he behaving like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I really like this guy I’ve been speaking to on the internet for a while. We speak every day online and get on well. I see him a lot more now coz we go to the same college. He’s a really shy guy and he’s told me that he has trouble w...

How can I stop picking fights and holding grudges against him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - this is a very long story n i dont mean to bore anyone so i guess the shortest way of saying it is this: i met a guy 4 years ago, he was a friend from the beginning and the more we hung out the more friends we became, but for some reason i felt th...

How can I show my daughter that her fiance is an ass?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - My daughter is 23 and has been dating "Jason" 25, since high school.I always looked at him as a good kid,a little inmature but figured he would grow up to be a respectful guy. Three weeks ago my daughter came home in tears saying that she she found ...

B/f & I fight all the time, it becomes physical

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I always had a fight because of misunderstandings. We used to yell and speak out harsh words and insults to each other until now. Our relationship stayed long for one year and nine months now, but we still fight ang it seems like ...

Will I be alone for a very long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Hello Well i wrote about m previous experience on here about my first time experience in a brothel (first time ever) and what it taught me.... that i want a slow meaningful relationship with a girl (as i know for sure i dont want just sex as i kn...

I want our relationship to go back to the way it was

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and recently things between us are really confusing. when i call to his we jst sit and watch tv, or eat. we rarely talk and when we do its about nothing, jst basic conversation. when i try talk to him ...

He found out I spoke to his friend and he hates me talking to other people, now he wont call me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - He dont like me talking to anyone apart from him but i spoke with his friend he found it out. Now he is angry on me. He is not calling me now? What to do?...

Can I repair my relationship with my step sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - I have massive feeling of love for my step sister. We didn't grow up together and she is alot older than me. I have recently admited to her that i have a crush on her. She doesn't really seem to mind, but i feel arkward around her and i am scared to ...

How can I solve this? it's very hard for me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - hi I'm having a trouble with my relationship right now.. because we both study at same school..and we're batch mates..but even though the case is like that.we're having lack of communication.we don't talk and everything.we just talk more or les...

Dumped by my bofriend because I slightly lied about my sexual history

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I need men's advices. My boyfriend with whom I have been with for 6 great months dumped me 3 days ago because I decided to be honest and admit I had lied to him regarding my past sexual history (I told him I had slept with 10 guys instead of 13). ...

Do I stay with my fiance or risk everything with the new guy?

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4 September 2009 (F) - Ok I really need some major advice. First things first, I met my currently fiance of 9 years online when I was in my early teens, and we used to have a good relationship, we moved in when I was still young, and now live up north. Well we started ...

It was my boyfriends idea to have a threesome but he flipped out when me and the other guy started having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - My bf of 4 years has been asking me for a 3 sum for a long time, I agreed to have a ffm 3 sum if he would have a mmf 3 sum for me. Since we thought that if we gave in first the other would back out we opted for a group thing with another ...

Should I leave my fiance who treats me badly and give this other guy a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I've been with the same guy since I was 16, I'm 23 now. Were engaged and live together. For the last 9 months he's gone ever night until 3 or 4 in the morning with his friends. I play World of Warcraft online and met a fellow Marine friend of my ...

I feel like I have to choose between my boyfriend and my career!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I feel like I have to choose between my relationship with my bf and my career. Heres the story. Basically I live in one town and my bf lives in another. Im 20 and hes 23. I am currently completeing a degree at university, therefore am...

He's content, I'm confused: how much more should I take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating "Craig" for about a year and 3 months. Things were awesome at first we were crazy about each other, couldn't get enough of each other until one day out of the blue, he changed. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore even if I say it ...

Am I a horrible daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - My mother is insane. She has some serious problems and feels the need to take it out on everyone around her. She is cruel and won't listen to anything I say. She recently screamed in my face as we were driving because I told her some of my frien...

My mom caught us having sex after I told her nothing was going on between us! I'm hiding at a friend's house... help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - PLEASE HELP!!! I am 17 yrs old and my mom just walked in on me having sex with my neighbour, he is 28. She has asked em if anythig was going on between the two of us for the last few weeks and I said no and when I went over today she waited a...

Basically I feel totally unwanted uncared for and hopeless.... yet I love him so madly...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Well, I am hitting severe depression over this problem. So please someone help. today i almost ended my relationship with my boyfriend we have been together almost 2 and half years. Im constantly feeling totally unwanted and uncared ...

He rarely initiates and when he does, it's like a tap here, a touch there. No passion.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm having intimacy problems with my bf. I'm a woman who is very used to have intimate relationships with my partner more than once every 7 days. For the past two months, its been only once every 7 days. I always initiate. Always. ...

I've moved on but his friends haven't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Ok i was dumped by my 1st love about 2 months ago now, it was a traumatic time, expecially when we both decided we must be friends as we hang around in the same group socially. But a week ago a new interest came along, and i decided i would give him ...