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Archived questions from: November, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I have relationship anxiety?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 877 days ago

30 November 2021 (F) - I am with a partner who I believe is long term. For context: We had a period of long distance, starting around 2016, where we were on again off again, and when he moved to a neighboring state around 2018; I thought it was fully over. In 2020, I took ...

My mother-in-law hates me but we need her help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 875 days ago

29 November 2021 (F) - I need help I got pregnant in 2020 and I was living with my mother in law , brother in law and father in law ( my mil and fil live in separate rooms) From the day I got married I felt like she hates me , She would not eat the food I cook, my broth...

My boyfriend loves drugs and alcohol

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

28 November 2021 (F) - My bf is madly inlove with alcohol and also,takes drugs but at minimal Ive tried talking sense into him He doesn`t care!...

I can't keep up wife my girlfriends entitlement

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

25 November 2021 (M) - Hello My gf and I have been together 2 years. All is well unless money comes up and then arguments begin. She has the tendency of over spending and expects me to cover her bills. Were not married and probably will never be as I see a very gr...

A friend cut me off and now wants back in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

23 November 2021 (F) - A good friend of mine cut me off a few months ago because she didn't like a decision I was making (See previous question for more details). She just texted me apologizing for what she did and hopes I can forgive her. And I'm not sure how to react...

Is my girlfriend using her friends to control and manipulate me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

23 November 2021 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for just under 2 years but she’s letting her friends stick their noses into our relationship and it’s really starting to annoy me. I’m also beginning to think I’m being controlled and manipulated. Am I just ...

Did he e d things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

23 November 2021 (F) - Hello, Aunts. I’m in a relationship since last 2 months and things moved pretty fast with this guy. We are of same age and both financially well off. Since last 2 weeks he is behaving pretty aggressively and responded with cold behaviour post the ...

My husbands children are rude and mean

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

22 November 2021 (F) - I live with my husband My son whose 14 and my husband son who is 12.... my son is severely disabled... My husband has older children in their 20s and they are always crude when we see them we carnt do right for wrong the last meeting we took the...

I feel like I am losing a good friend and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 886 days ago

22 November 2021 (F) - Hi I'm wondering how grief can affect your thinking and maybe make you lose perspective. My friend recently lost a close relative.. Since then he doesn't seem to care about our friendship, starting telling me lies, going to night clubs and gettin...

I can't stand the fighting with him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

21 November 2021 (F) - Ohhh pleeeaaaassseeee help meeeee.... I am really on the point that i wanna leave him... inside of me is already shouting and crying.... my partner for 6 years is soooo much talkactive and he looove discussion sooo much and this turn us almost e...

Do I delete her on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

20 November 2021 (M) - Hi aunts need your help with this one as it’s a strange situation to find myself in. so recently I bumped into a female from school who I’d known and she used to have this crush on me or so she says. we never got together at school, as I did...

I helped my family but now they won't help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

19 November 2021 (F) - Years ago my parents were short on money and i helped them out and paid £500 for washing machine and dishwasher and various things from amazon over the years cds, computer games, chargers, food hampers, hair accessories, food vouchers lots of ...

Why did she act this way? A boyfriend back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

17 November 2021 (M) - Hi everyone I just wonder what people think about a situation I've found myself in as my instincts are telling me one thing and I'd just like to know if anyone comes to the same conclusion. I met a girl a few months ago, we got along really ...

Long distance relationship and I can't keep the closeness feeling

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 887 days ago

17 November 2021 (F) - This is so obvious a problem, that I should know how to deal, but Covid and all the isolation, etc. has so blunted my feelings that I'd like to ask for help. Basically, my boyfriend has been working 1,000 miles away for several years no...

Is My girlfriend taking me for a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

16 November 2021 (M) - Hi guys, you’ll have to bear with me on this one. It’s complicated to say the least. Just before Christmas last year my girlfriend cheated on me with another man. She aborted his baby as well just to add to the mess. I found out back in September ...

I am insecure about mty partner still being close to 2 exs

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

14 November 2021 (F) - How can you tell if you're seeing red flags, or you're just blowing things out of proportion because you're scared... and you've doubted yourself from the very start of your relationship? I've been insecure in my relationship (of approx 2 years a...

How to deal with uncomfortable personal questions at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

13 November 2021 (F) - I am asking for further guidance on a work related situ. I am a 30 year old female who has recently started a new job in the health service, I have an approachable management team. I am saving up to move out of parents household and I desire t...

I am ashamed to admit that I am in an abusive relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

13 November 2021 (F) - I'm ashamed to be in an abusive relationship. It's less the abuse and more keeping the secret that is killing me slowly. I feel that even if I managed to make up my mind and leave, I would wilt under the reactions of my family. For the past couple ...

I am afraid of staying emotionally attached to this man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

10 November 2021 (F) - Hi Folks, So I met this guy like 5 months back. We hit it off really well and have been dating seriously ever since. Both our families underwent a lot of crisis post our meeting. We have been for one another through all this. But post these ...

I want to meet the guy who saved my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 896 days ago

8 November 2021 (F) - I really want to meet up with the guy who saved my life last year but he’s really reluctant and I don’t know why. Is he just shy? Most of all I just want to say thank you to him in person but I have to confess I do have more intentions as well, ...

I've become addicted to alcohol and don't know how to stop

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

7 November 2021 (F) - Hi agony aunts. I really need some help. I am 32, married and a mother of three. My husband was going through a mid-life crisis back in 2018. He hated that he had not accomplished what he wanted to at his age. One of his good friends backstabbed ...

Partner spends all his money then gets nasty if I don't give him money

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

6 November 2021 (F) - my partner spends half or more of his money every payday on weed and takeaways then he runs out of money and has nothing to eat. when he runs out of money he is horrible to me he expects money from me to eat when im struggling on my own paying for ...

Why does he want to be friends after the affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

5 November 2021 (F) - I had an affair that was emotional for years and then physical for months. I ended it pretty quickly knowing how wrong it was - even leaving my job to get away from him all together. For the past couple of years he has continued to reach out, which ...

Don’t feel like family care about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

5 November 2021 (F) - Everything fell apart for me a few years ago. We were living with my in laws and had an unplanned pregnancy. We kept having financial problems and my in laws filed for custody and won. It’s been endless arguing with my husband about each other’s ...

My friend told me we couldn't meet because she was afraid of covid then I see on social media that she was out with friends. Why did she lie to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

3 November 2021 (F) - I’m a little confused and hurt by something that happened last week and need advice please. A friend that I’ve know for over 10 years made a lunch date for us. We used to meet up often prior to covid but with restrictions etc… we have seen mes...