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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm struggling to see if this could progress into anything further!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 42 and I've been in an intimate relationship with a 43 year old man for 3 months now. He lives an hour from me and I rarely see him. He only comes to me if I invite him for a reason, such as a firework display etc. I go to his place most ...

Who do I believe... friend or boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - If your friend for about 1 year said that she slept with your boyfriend and your boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months swears he didn't, who would you believe?...

I feel cheated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have been married for 28 years to my spanish husband. His parents lives in Oklahoma. He goes out there and leaves me at home at least 2 times a year. I know they are getting on up in age but, we need a vacation together sometimes. Is it wrong ...

How can I get my mom to agree to me going on birth control?

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9 September 2009 (F) - So, I've been trying my best to have my mom get me on Birth Control... I called up to the help department and they said I could come in there by myself but you know a young girl always wants her mom there with her... I dont know why she is being so ...

My dad wants me out of "his house" should I fail any subjects.

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9 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, I am 17 years old. I have a little problem with my parents, I hope someone out there could advise or make a reasonable comment. I know my parents love me. I know I love them but, today, something really.. disappointing happened,...

I'm not really comfortable with having an open relationship, but I just don't want to lose her

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9 September 2009 (M) - Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now, im 18 and she is 17. She as recently entered that phase in life where she wants to go out and have fun with other guys, but she also wants to stay with me. More to the point, she has ...

My girlfriend has just disappeared! It's been a week now, how long should I wait before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has dropped off the map for a week now and i have sent online messages, texts, and left voice messages, but she did not respond to any of them what so ever. I did however get a response from her cousin that said that she had left the...

I need advice help with my long distance relationship.

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9 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a month, now. We were together in Arcata, CA for my sophomore year (her freshman year) in high school; but my father's in the Army, so I got transferred to A...

I'm making myself sick over this... please help!

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9 September 2009 (F) - I'm new here so hope I don't sound toO crazy. I do love my husband but the things I have found out and the lies ARE about toO much, my first marriage I put up with more than I should have and said I would never let another man hurt me again and I ...

We fight so often about the dumbest things!

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9 September 2009 (F) - We fight so often about the dumbest things! First of all, the things he has to say about me and how im messing up our relationship is myspace he wants my password to see who i talk to blah blah blah this and that cause according to him i have a ...

2 months pregnant; scared and confused!

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9 September 2009 (F) - In July I found out that I was pregnant for the second time from my boyfriend of 4 years. The first pregnancy was twins and I terminated it, against his wishes because I didn’t feel like we were ready or mature enough for them. I’m 21 and a senior ...

Should I give up on her? We were getting on so well but suddenly she has gone cold on me!

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9 September 2009 (M) - So, I started to become interested in this girl in my class. We got on really well for a few months, and she became the person I texted the most at that point in time. Then the rumors started, and though I am not much of a well-known perso...

Am I pushing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hey world, Well my name is angel and ive been talking to this guy and it seemed as if we were getting closer and atuff but now i dont know.We have fight now like couples i talk to him about everything,and anything on my mind.Well yesterday i texted...

Should I tell my ex boyfriend I am having worries after we slept together or should I just ignore them?

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9 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years split up around 3 weeks ago due to stupid things and my boyfriend feeling like he was under pressure from other sources. We have stayed in contact and over various discussions he has told me that what he did was a ...

I have a terrible sister, should I kick her out or give her a second chance?

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9 September 2009 (M) - I could use advice my sister is driving me nutts, she leaves and 12am in the morning and goes to who knows where shes brought a guy home at 2Am when i asked her whats with this guy she told him not to worry about me im just her brother. shes doing ...

I want him to WANT to spend time with me, not because I forced him to do it

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9 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now. once the end of the year comes, we'll be going to different countries to study uni and we have both decided that we have to go our seperate ways. we're both 18. the problem is, i ...

Life is nothing but disappointments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I am a 28 year old female. I have 2 children and 1 on the way. I have lived such a chaotic life. When i was 4 i was molested by an uncle until the age of about 11. He died about 4 years ago, without confessing a thing. He also let my family ...

We planned to have this baby and try to make things work, but all of a sudden he wants me to have an abortion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, Just want some outside opinion on a tricky situation. I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and last week we found out I am pregnant. I know it is iresponsible, but I don't want a lecture! We talked about it, and even though w...

Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?

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9 September 2009 (M) - Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...

Every kind of relationship I have FAILS! Should I give up now, or could there still be hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - dear cupid, i am a complete and utter failure at every attemp of relationship i shoot for. whether that is a geunine relationship, fling, one night stand, or any thing not mentioned i crash and burn like the hindenburg and titanics bastard love ...

Is is common in a relationship to not have balance?

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9 September 2009 (F) - my current boyfriend said this to me in a fight "You don't care for me as much as i care you you, why can'y you return the feelings i give to you" When he says this I defend myself asking on what basis does he use to judge how much I love him. It's ...

We fight sooo much!

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9 September 2009 (F) - Okay, im really torn. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him very much, but we fight soo much that it makes me crazy! Its little stuff that it is dumb to fight over, but we constantly are arguing or pushing each others buttons. idk why. ...

Worried that relationship with teacher will be found out by police!

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9 September 2009 (F) - I'm worried that my relationship with a Teacher will be found out by police. We are no long in the relationship. But I had talked about it via phone/text messaging to a very good close trustworthy friend of mine. Even though I haven't talked about ...

I don't want to work so hard in this relationship anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. I've always enjoyed spending time with him and fell in love with him only about three months into the relationship, but it seemed like I was always the one expressing my love to him in all ...

B/f says to delete myspace or he won't take me seriously

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9 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend tells me to delete my myspace or else his not guna take me surious!! ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years. he tells me he loves me an cares for me, and i belive him i know he does i love him too and really care. ...

Family put my b/f in jail and will pursue it if I continue to see him

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9 September 2009 (F) - i had a boyfriend twice my age... i'm only 17 and he's in his late 30's... he has a wife and two kids... wev'e been together for almost 7 months... now the problem is my parents are really against in our relationship and he also wants to leave his ...

I was raped and my boyfriend says "its really nothing to cry over"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) - ok so i was raped 3 months ago by a guy ive known for a while. it hurt me so so much and i am definately not over it yet. but 2 months ago my current boyfriend came into my life and has made me really happy. until the subject of sex came up. we ...