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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His extreme jealousy is straining our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and everything between us is great apart from the fact whenever I am near another guy, he goes off on one and tells the guy to save anyway from me. It doesn't happen all the time, but in the past ...

How can I learn to not react? Should I continue to put up with his actions? My bf is neglecting me and pushing me for a reaction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I can't take being neglected anymore. My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We've hit a rough patch and things have been horrible. He ignores me knowing, full well, how I feel about it. Then I get mad and start bitching and he laughs at me....

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has...

How do I back off in a LDR? How can I encourage him to chase me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I am the female, 23, and lately boyfriend, 21, has been acting distant. We've been together for a year. He would text me good morning beautiful and all those things but for the past couple of weeks or so, they are nonexistent. Whenever we te...

Should I agree that it's OK? My Girlfriend wants to wear transparent clothing that will allow her breasts to be seen to others in public.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Should I let my girlfriend to go braless in public? Will it be okay to allow her? she wants to wear very short dresses, and dresses that allow her breasts to be seen through the fabric and be transparent and be viewable in public. She says she wan...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends...

My mom has cancelled plans to come see me but expects my husband and I to travel to see her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I've been living abroad, half way across the world for 5 years now. I only have my mum pretty much left family wise, and we get along great, even if it is mostly on skype (i have been back twice, she's been to my new country once). Recent...

Boyfriend has went no contact should I pay for his car insurance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - For a while now I've thought may bf of 4th has been seeing somebody else, he wworks away and I don't really see him anymore, we spoke on the phone or via txt most days,anyway 2weeks ago was the last I spoke to hihim, we spoke about him coming bk ...

Why guys act so weird around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - Theres this one guy, hes an athlete and yeah which girl doesnt like athlete guys right? To me he is so wweirddd like seriously, he would stare at me in the physic class or any other subject in the classroom and I noticed it each time he would turn ...

My boyfriend doesn't want sex anymore, and I want it more than ever. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend works a lot, and is often very tired when he gets home from work. He used to want sex every time we spent time together, but since he has moved in with me, he has become apathetic. I am currently unemployed, and I know that is stressing ...

How do I assure my girlfriend that I'm not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend constantly accuse me of cheating. It started a year ago, when we split for a few months. I dated another girl and she and I hung out often. I genuinely liked her, but never planned on settling down with her. Fast forward, my gir...

Do all romatic relationships end in breakup eventually? If we lived long enough could we tolerate our partner for eighty years? What happens over time that causes the breakup? Is it inevitable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - After two long-term relationship failed, im beginning to wonder am I at all the cause. Im lesbian for starters, and I connect really well with females. Obviously somewhere I lost connection. My first relationship was 3 years... it ended bc my ex ...

My friend bailed out on me, is it wrong that I am annoyed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I know I might be just asking this out of annoyance, since this just recently happened, but I have a question regarding my friend bailing on me. So we're in college, and we decided to take a weight training class together. In this class, it's pret...

All my friends have said to ditch him but I'm genuinely in love with him. I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy. We started off as friends, but one night we got very drunk and slept together. We carried on sleeping together every time we got drunk. But then we started doing more, so he'd ask me if i wanted to go for lunch or to the ...

My boyfriend doesn't support my passion for competing in beauty pageants!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - So my BF has recently told me that competing in beauty pageants is a complete waste of my time. That I need to focus on career and becoming a wife and having more kids. I'm 30 and recently auditioned for a pageant and got in. It's coming up in a few ...

How do I fight to keep this woman in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - She was married to her second husband for 18 years. She loved him deeply. She is a sensitive woman whom loves with all her heart. During their union, she had a rare liver disease and underwent 2 liver transplants. The first was rejected. Afterwards, ...

Can our relationship survive his family crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some advice on my selfish personality traits. My partner has a very large family and whilst I get on with them I wouldnt say I was extremely close to anyone but his mother. I wouldn't exactly say they were a close family but...

Blowjobs, snapchats, and exes! All are causing me to unhappy in our 6 month relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. When we first started dating she spilled her sexual past with me despite my reservations. Initially I hated hearing it because it was much more than my own but I grew to love her and respect her past. ...

I am seriously thinking about putting my 2 year old up for adoption! Advice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Hi please don't judge me for this : I am seriously thinking about putting my 2 year old up for adoption. I love her but I am not the mother I hoped to be or she deserves. I cry on a daily basis, find myself snapping at her. The burst into tea...

We've been together for 7 months yet he rarely wants sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - We have been together 7 months, and have just started living together. I'm 42 and he's 38. From the start we saw a lot of each other but he would only stay over at weekends, so we would have sex then and sometimes during the week. I thought once...

Why is it hard to meet somebody you fancy and get on with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - This is something that I cant shake . I can not seem to meet a girl of which I both find attractive and also get on with. I tend to meet a girl now and then and maybe think this one is one I like , but then something will put me off and I will ...

His parents don't approve of me, a single mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - So here is the situation and I will try to keep this as short as possible so thanks for bearing with me. At the age of 22 I started dating this 25 year old man and we became "official" in August of 2014 after 2 months of dating. He says ...

Husband continues to swing, refuses to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Ok long story short... we started swinging about a year into our marriage. He did tell me, prior to our marriage, he was a swinger in his past relationships but led me to believe he could be happy without it. I am an open minded person so I agreed ...

I get attached and invest too much too soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with getting too attached too quickly. No matter what kind of guy I am dating, whether he's a great guy or one who doesn't treat me well, I still really want it to work out. I settle for guys who treat me poorly just because I don't ...

He just doesn't get it so I ended it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend over an argument that started 2 weeks ago. We were in a restaurant having a conversation and we started disagreeing on something. He started "calling bullshit" on what I was saying and when I tried to explain what I ...

He is an Australian, and only here for another month and I will never leave America

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Major Agony ?? I met a wonderful boy 2 months ago and we hit it off very well. We like sane things he is kind and hardworking. Good guy. We waited a few weeks before sleeping together but that hasn't changed him or us he's still great The...

He is never on time, the compliments have stopped. Is he losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 months. Everything was going smoothly, we both agreed to take things slow as we both have difficulty opening up to new people. He always complimented me, he was always punctual. Lately this has changed along wi...

He's too independent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Hello, I´ve got this boyfriend for almost 4 years..we love each other, but I´m starting to feel we are different, event when I thought we are the same.. We fight in the recent time almost every day and I´m tired of it, he´s tired of it, we just don...

Is my 61-year-old husband fooling around inside the health club? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - My 61 year-old-husband has a health club membership to use the sauna/shower/steam room. He does not go there to exercise. He is there a few times a week to shower after work before coming home. Is there cause for me to be concerned?? Is it p...

How do you get your confidence back after being in a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I went out with my friends last night and ended up taking some guy home. I've never really liked one night stands and I don't know what I was thinking doing it. I'm feeling pretty bad about myself and kind of like a slut. But on top of that I ha...

My boyfriend is not passionate or sexual

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 43 but he has an incredibly low sex drive. He says he just doesn't think about it much. He's definitely not gay or sexually frustrated or confused. He doesn't like lingerie or porn and is not visual with women and doesn't ...

My boyfriend of one year, is addicted to skype sex chat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for lil over one year, we spent alot of time to gether, went on trips, had a very fun snd relaxed relationship. Im 28 years old and he just turned 27. He had girl friends before me but never had sexual relationship. ...

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months a...

Is my friend too busy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have a friend who I have known for approximately 5 years and every time we get together it's always a good time and we have a lot of laughs. We had drifted apart for about a year and it was mainly over her trying to talk to someone I was dating.. ...

My boyfriend doesn't understand that clinginess turns me off!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Hey, so, I've been having doubts about my current relationship. We met on a dating website 5 months ago, and started dating 3 days after we met... In all honesty, I only accepted going out with him because we had sex, and I then felt obligated to. ...

Dating a month he has to go away. At first he was ok and now he's pulled back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website and we've been dating for a month. We both felt an instant connection and it's something I havent experienced before. We click really well, we share the same sense of humor and really enjoy spending time together. ...

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Go with another guy? Or become single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I am in a long-term, long-distance relationship for almost 6 years. I am finishing college this june and don't know what path to take next. I am very ambitious and have big career goals. My boyfriend has a well-paid but unstable job that requires ...

Why is he sort of giving me the cold shoulder now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I were kind of seeing each other for about 3 months. He introduced me to his family and friends. We used to speak every day, and he would also call. He would ask to see me basically every weekend and invite me to events. Due to my busy ...

He comments on other women all the time but never compliments me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. When we first got together he didn't make many comments about the way I look which I didn't really notice until I discovered he'll be very flattering to other women. Like he'll rave about the ...

Does it mean that I have low self-esteem because I'm more concerned about his feelings than my own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I am very attractive, but I think I have low self esteem. This guy I like has rejected me several times. It started a few years back when he told me that he was separated, but wanted to pursue a friendship with me. Since, then we have dated off and ...

My best friend is dating someone horrible from my past! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hey your answers in the past have helped me a lot so I'm here again with something new that I'd love your feedback on. When I was 15 I started dating a guy and he treated me badly over the 4 years we were seeing each other. He cheated on me wi...

My marriage was broken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3373 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I finally found the courage to leave my abusive husband for the last time.God gave me the strength to open my heart ? eye's and ears to others going through a similar situation in their lives hopefully my heart ? breaking tonight will make at least ...

Am I wasting my time trying to change him?`

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I work in a clinical setting and I like to be organised,clean and tidy. My boyfriend of a year is scruffy and doesn't make himself tidy or presentable to see me. He works on his car and house a lot. We talked and csne up with a compromise. In ...

I need a break from him but we live together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I need space from my boyfriend, but we live together. We've been together over 4 years and moved in together almost a year ago. For the first time in a while, I worked some overtime over the past weekend and have had to work a little later than ...

Lack of conversation with my girlfriend makes me wonder if its time to leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a year now, but the lack of conversation between us is starting to make me consider whether or not to take the relationship any further. To add to this a girl at my works party, but who I don't work directly with, ...

Motorcycle Picture on Facebook ask to be removed caused a breakup

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 20 months. Both of us are twice married. Her second relationship was very, very bad. It hurts her badly to think of it. It damaged her emotionally and if she could, she has said it was the worse mistake she ...

How do you stop yourself from missing someone that you shouldnt be missing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I've just split up with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do with myself. Since I was 16 I've always had a boyfriend, it's only been a few days and I feel lonely and bored and I miss him. I know I sound pathetic needing to have somebody in my ...

My girlfriend won't let go of her old FWBs and it's very hurtful. Do I need to let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl, its been almost 6 years together, she's lied to me about serious stuff like old " f and @k buddies" she so claims them to be.. Which are dudes.. Our relationship there's no sex I'm lucky if I get any twice a ...

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other an...