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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a r...

Husband doesn't please me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Hello! I have been married three years and I hate my sex life. Back in the days we used to have sex every day or so and I loved it- though i never orgasmed. Now I just got bored. Told my hubby I need oral to get off and he said it's not his thing. ...

Husband's left for Pakistan. I'm in a terrible dilemma

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My husband has decided to return to Pakistan, I know he does miss his country. He knows I do not really want to go there as I am not a family person and he has a large family. He has basically told me that if I do not go with him then he will get...

How can I deal with an over sensitive mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Key Information: 22 years old, currently live with my mother and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. My mother is always under the impression that my boyfriend has a personal issue with her. Whenever I have asked him if he dislikes my moth...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it b...

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tr...

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. ...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

What can I do to make my LDR boyfriend trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I m in a relationship with this guy and it had been 2 years. We love each other More then our lives. This is a long distance relationship. He is really possessive. I don't use any social networking because of him and I m fine with it. I don't talk ...

Heartbroken over silent boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, but recently I've been pushing to see him more. I know i was wrong for being so bossy. He now seems to be backing off. I've hardly seen him and he doesn't put x at the end of texts. He also doesn't repl...

My boyfriend acting strange and evasive while in his hometown, is it his ex? or his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi. Been with bf for five months and he went back home for the holidays for a few days. I didn't expect constant contact and didn't get it either. But after Xmas, two days of no contact at all. I caved and texted him, he called me back. Apparently ...

I feel like she got me to fall in love with her but now she's backing out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (M) - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to eachother that we liked eachother we kissed and things were good. We went out ...

She pushes me away but expects me to stay when shes hurting and says she needs me. What can I do to be more compassionate and understanding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I'm having a dilemma. My girlfriend is an incredible woman....considerate, generous, supportive, affectionate, honest, loyal, hardworking, compassionate, goal orient, intelligent, sensitive. Her amazing side is amazing. Then there is her other ...

I trust him but I don't trust his really attractive female friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship and although we've not been together for very long i love him,but i feel myself getting jealous of other girls already. It all started when he told me about his "good friend", that's like a sister to him. At the time i d...

I just want him to love and care about me but he never shows any emotion

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I'll try and explain this as simple as I can :) Right, am 29 years of age and when I was a little girl, I had a best friend who is a boy and we where the best of friends since the age of 6 up until we where 13, we had sleep overs, we where best fri...

I regret taking my Bf back. I've fallen for one of my other friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year... And we've broken up quite a bit, but we ended up getting back together again. Today was one of those days, and he begged me to take him back. I agreed, which I really regret now. I no longer f...

What are my options? This guy is starting to scare me, but he's a relative of my coworker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - okay so earlier this semester I moved into an apartment with a friend who lives in the dorms with me and also her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend. all of us are really busy with school and work and all three of them are going to be gone until sc...

How do I end this 5 year relationship with the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Finally working up the nerve to end five years relationship. I'm 33, he is 39. I love him, but this cycle of feeling happy then miserable is wearing on me...a lot. Most recent event: he blew me off on Christmas. To help myself move forward wit...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

Am I falling out of love? Four years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, first of all thank you for taking the time to give me advice! Right so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. Bit of background of our relationship.. we met and I was actually with someone else but nothing happened we ...

Why can't I leave this pill popping pot smoking drunk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he's a major pill addict and smokes pot and is an alcoholic. Trust me I had no idea he did all these things when we started dating. We now live together with my ...

How do I stop thinking about this girl and googling her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Apologizes this is so long. I just don't know what to do but tell everything about it: I met someone early in 2014. I only knew her for about a week; we didn't talk much but stayed at the same facility. She had a striking appearance, and ...

I am feeling unease with my relationship and am worried she may drop me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (M) - Hello everyone My question concerns my uneasy feelings about my partner. I have been with this lady for 3 years, and it has been the best relationship I have ever had in my life. She has gone out of my her way in every sense to make me feel l...

Am I jealous? Or am I being disrespected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Okay, i'm not really used to girs being all flirty because my previous relationships didn't have any sort of problems with girls. But this relationship i'm in now all we seem to fight about is this topic. He says "you never want me to talk to any ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

How can I get my husband to realize that his mother is taking advantage of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married 6 and a half years (together 8) and our marriage has been wonderful. He's absolutely my best friend and soul mate! However, his mother has been a real issue.... He was not raised by his mother, nor has he...

How do I attract and choose the right men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I just recently ended my 3rd serious relationship. We were long distance and he was very selfish and emotionally abusive. However, the pattern remains the same. I meet a guy, we get attached very quickly, after a month or so he says he loves me...

What can I say or do? My mother in law is driving me crazy and bankrupting us at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I am a 42 year old male who has been married for more than 20 years. I have always viewed my mother-in-law as meddlesome, but harmless. However, over the last 7 years (she is mid-70s now) she is experiencing signs of dementia. She can't pay ...

What is the likelihood of this working, considering that I wonder if we are intellectually incompatible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This may end up being a bit lengthy so I apologise in advance if there turns out to be a lot of reading to be done. My current significant other and I have been together for 1 year and roughly 3 months, however we have known each other for about ...

Why has my boyfriend suddenly gone nasty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - my boyfriend has been letting me down a lot recently so i told him i was having a week to myself to clear my head he said he was fine with this . i messaged him on facebook today (a week later) and could see he had read the message 2 hours later he...

Was I too pushy and frightened off a good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - My question is about whether or not I might have frightened a good guy off. Male and female answers appreciated as I know we sometimes see things a bit differently! Anyway I will try to be brief. I met a guy at evening class in September and we...

I'm always the one starting the conversations, how do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - I like this boy, but he lives in an another country. My friends all say I'm in love with him, I think they may be right. The boy and I don't talk much, but I think about him constantly. I want to get closer to him, but I'm usually the one starting ...

My mother passed away today, and I feel like a bad son!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

25 December 2015 (M) - My mother past away today, she was 84, she been in bad health all year, she is in a better place now, but am I a bad son, my girlfriend broke up with me , three weeks ago, am thinking about her more, I love my mom, but my heart is broken, over a ...

Falling for guy in long term relationship - don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am falling for a male friend who is in a long term relationship. We met through work (at a social event- we don't work together so that isn't an issue) and have developed a connection which at first I brushed off, knowing he had a girlfriend. We ...

How can I help my Girlfriend to have more confidence in herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - Forgive the long intro, My LDR question at the very end. Please start your response with LDR if you respond to just that so I know. I am your average guy. Called attractive by some, not by others, called smart by some and not by others. Overall ...

I love my husband but I'm thinking of leaving me as his illness is draining me. At the cross roads. Can you please help with advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am seriously thinking about leaving my husband. I wish I could discuss this with my friends, but I can't do it without divulging certain details from my husband's life. Not only I do not want to do it, I firmly believe I don't have the right to do ...

Do I wait this breakup out? Or take a different approach with my ex Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Ex gf will not stop calling and texting. I have been patiently waiting it out thinking and hoping she would see her vain attempts and stop. She has gotten worse. Every other day, and several times a day. I am so tempted to call this harassing c...

Things are awkward now, can I fix it seeing as how we work together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - Hello everyone. This is going to be very long, but please bear with me because this has been troubling me badly for some years. I'll start with a journal entry of mine that explains the basis of the problem at hand. From journal: I feel like I'...

Should I walk away from a man who is 90% perfect for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in the end of October. We were arguing a lot. He says I'm too aggressive. As a native New Yorker I do have an edge. He's from the country with a very carefree laid back attitude. Our lease was up in December. We decided ...

My friends uninvited me for Christmas!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I live alone and I decided to invite a couple (who are friends) to dinner on Christmas Eve. She accepted the invitation and said why didn't I have lunch with them on Christmas Day. I was pleased as I am often alone at Christmas. A few days later ...

Does he love me even if he hasn't taken me to his place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I have bn with my bf for 3 months now and he has a two year old daughter. I jst recently discovered his ex was pregnant and he admited. He stil chose to be with me bcoz of the love we share but my concern is I have never been to his house. He has bn ...

Confrontation. Was it right to not confront him? Does it seem as if I didn't stand up for myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for 2 months then he stopped responding to my messages one day. I didn't confront him about it or anything, I was actually about to be going on a trip so I didn't have time for the drama. 2 weeks later while I'm on my trip he tells me ...

What do I do? Find a passionate partner? Or go for a comfortable existence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - I'm in real trouble, I'm in my mid twenties now and final year of uni, I have a brilliant girlfriend of a year and a half. She's really nice and clever, come from a great family very well raised. We would have a brilliant life together if we ever ...

Am I being disrespected or did I misunderstand him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi to the people of Dear Cupid, I have been seeing a guy for the past 4 years. We are really serious about each other. Around 6 months ago, he moved some 300 miles away for a new job. This was really important for him, as he was unemployed for a...

I'm upset by this situation, why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - I started to see Mr unavailable last year,he did then didn't want a relationship as can't form them due to every night in pub and just too selfish (his words). I told him we can be friends he admitted to loving me. I told him its too confusing and ...

How do I stop being so irritated by my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - I'm getting increasingly irritable with my mother and I don't know what to do. She hasn't done anything bad to me at all and I feel like such a bad person for just getting annoyed by the things she says :( I used to be such a happy and laid b...

He said he'd call but he didn't. Did I do the right thing by not confronting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for 2 months then he stopped responding to my messages one day. I didn't confront him about it or anything, I was actually about to be going on a trip so I didn't have time for the drama. 2 weeks later while I'm on my trip he tells me ...