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I want him to care about me too not just flirt with me.

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Question - (10 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't know what to do? My guy friend shows that he likes me but he talks to his friends who are girls more than he does me. I don't get it! What if I tell him that I like him and he says no or what if he likes one of his other friends. How would I know if he liked his other friend more than me? He comments on her notes including him and says nice to know i'm loved. I'm a little jealous! His other friend S said to him thanks for being there. He's never there for me and he never talks to online when I try and talk to him. Yet he misses me when I'm not there and he trys and makes me laugh. he treats me totally differently but I want him to care about me too not just flirt with me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009):

ok first thnx for reading my question thing. I really suggest making sure that he knows how you like him- not as a friend but as a boyfriend. It's so difficult to know if they do really like you when they're good friends, or whatever, with other girls.

Also don't let him think your jealous of these other girls or anything like that, k.

If you have anyadvice for me I'd love to hear it and I hope my advice works for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

i feel really sorry for you coz that's quite a hard position to be in and it's nearly impossible to tell if he really likes you or not. All i can suggest is that if you like him enough then you should ask him because you could probably stay friends with him after.

I really suggest that you read this persons question. She's asking whether she should go out with this boy who has been flirting a lot with her too but she doesn't know if he still likes his ex, etc. You might want to leave a comment coz she would probably like to talk to you (she's my friend so i would know)

Good luck!

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-wait-for-him-to-get-over.html

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