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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Surely I deserve an apology???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I found suggestive texts between him and her, flirting, goading, and daring one another, sexually explicit inuendoes that really hurt my feelings. Previously asked him to stop her sending innapropriate 'rude' jokes to him, but he chose to...

Sometimes I feel like walking away even though I really do love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - There's probably no way I can post this question without you thinking I'm insecure or irrational. I don't consider myself to be either, in relationships I definately like my space and the biggest problem I have come up against is ex's not giving ...

Why are men so hard to understand!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for around 2 months. I'm 17, he's 22 and he has a 4 year old son. He's happy with how things are between us and doesn't want to change it while I can't stand waiting for something that might not even happen! Because of this ...

I'm having to lie to my parents, how do I get around this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - This Friday my boyfriend wants me to stay round his, he has the house to himself so his parents don't know. The problem is my parents won't let me sleep round his so I have to make up an excuse I've already said my friend is having a sleepover and ...

Opinions needed, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ok so this is what happend This girl and I were friends and this guy she had liked and sort of seen for a while and her sister's best friend got together. I kinda told the sister's best friend some stuff that she said that she wouldn't say to ...

How do I tell all five lads, that they may or may not be the father to my baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - What do I do? I know it sounds bad, so please don't judge me, or leave nasty comments! Well 8 and a half months ago I slept with 5 lads in a period of two weeks, and now im due a little boy any time soon, but all the lads know im pregnant an...

How can we compromise on our introvert/extrovert personality traits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and have been together five months. I am 25 and was in a long-term relationship for three years before. There is a big problem - he is not interested in integrating with my friends a...

He makes me feel so insecure... do I stay with him? What do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Preeti (24) dating a guy (28) for one and a half years. My boyfriend has a really close friend who's a girl and I just feel like I'm no one in his life.... I'm very insecure about him but I love him and he loves me too but I feel he's ...

He won't dump his ex or "put a ring on it", should I move out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Last year I found out he had been emailing his ex the whole 2 years we had been together. I wouldn't have minded if not for the fact that he made me sever ties with all ex's and male friends from my past. He had been accusing me for months of ...

The thought of losing him makes me shudder. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - When i was younger there was a boy i was always close to, we grew up together and was always best mates, we went out when i was like 10 (he was 4yrs older) but our parents stopped us. A few yrs later when i was 14 we went out again, but it was hard ...

He used me and broke my heart twice. How do I finally move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I have been on and off with my ex boyfriend for the past 5 years now, 1 1/2 of which we were seriously involved, but now things have completely ended. I am very hurt and devastated and need lots of advice on how I can move on and let him go already ...

I'm in a wonderful relationship that's lost its spark. He says he doesn't want to marry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for two yrs having been single for most of my life. I love him dearly and he is very loving in return however, he does not believe in marriage and I want to, I've always wanted to. At the moment I'm finding I'm ...

Intimacy has become non-existant in our relationship. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hello... I am seeking an opinion to what I believe I already know within a relationship that I am in. Intimacy has become almost non existent within it and even though I express the need nothing happens. There is no more touch these days and ...

How do you break up with a habitual cheater for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I'm in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a 1 and a half year old son, and live together in a home that we own jointly. He has cheated on me countless times (I've caught him at least 25 tim...

Is snooping ever a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have just come through a very difficult time. I dearly want to believe he has changed like he says he has but he has lied to me a lot and the trust has gone. I know it will take time to get this back and im prepared to work at it ...

Self esteem shot..can it be recovered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Can your self esteem recover from years of being put down by your boyfriend? My boyfreind and i have been together for nearly 3 years. I moved into his house when he asked me to, and things were great. Until small things started to emerge, he sent ...

How could he treat me like that? We've known each other 2 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! So there is this guy i worked with for 2 years and he started the same uni as me a week ago. I always had a crush on him and one night we went for a night out. He was quite drunk (or pretented to be) and we ended up in his place ...

The child will be a constant reminder of his cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I met my fiancé when i was 18 years old.He is the only man i have known.We dated for 2 years but then he got a scholarship to go to america for his post grad.For five years we have been in along distance relationship.He has been coming home each ...

I'm living like a tenant in my own house and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - hi everyone! i've known my husband for 6 years and have been married to him for 3 years. when i first met him he had just moved in with his friend and there was no problem with that as we ...

We fight because I don't like the decisions he makes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hey there, i have a problem that i would really like advice on. My bf and i tend to fight alot and i know why i just dont know how i can fix it, and i take blame for the fights. I try to change him into being the perfect bf that i want, but i kn...

What is the solution for a dramatic relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me two months ago after a relationship of 2 years. She is Canadian studying in Frankfurt, I am Austrian living in Luxembourg. We had a long distance relationship, seeing each other every weekend. When we met, she gave...

At Uni with a jealous possessive bf calling me, all the time! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Right, this might be a bit long but i have two really big problems. I'm currently in university in Cardiff (my first year)and my boyfriend is in Swansea in his second year. Now i love him to pieces and couldnt imagine living my life without him...

How do I ease the pain of heartache after breaking it off with a guy, I adore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - can anyone please help the pain to ease. I have broke up with someone i adore. I may have been a bit needy recently with heart problems. we see each other at the weekend and lately we have been what i would say quiet with each other, i do get ...

I've repeatedly told her I don't love her and don't want children with her but we are still together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about five years and lived with her and I have reapeatedly told her that I don't love her and I don't want her to be the mother of my kids I just don't know what to do. She has lost her job and now has a new job ...

His priorities are all screwed up how can I make him see this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hello. I feel kinda silly asking for advice online, but I am confused and in need of the advice so here it goes... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He just recently moved out into his own place that he shares w...

I hurt her because I told her about my mixed up feelings about my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - First to understand my situation..you have to know what I have been through the last year. For the last 3 years I have been a recreational/serious poker player. I'd go the casino on a decent basis. There was this poker dealer that I slowly ...

My boyfriend thinks he has me in the palm of his hand and I will never leave him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I'm at a point where i'm so confused. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and though the following things I list seem like it would be easier to break up, that is just not what I want at this time. My boyfriend is becomming hard to deal wit...

Am I blowing this out of proportion? I really want to get a divorce because I feel like this is going to be a never ending pattern

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - OK well i have been married for two years in october and total time together will be 3yrs. My husband is a solider and we got married before he went to iraq. After seven month when he got a 2 week break everything was fine and loving but he used my ...

Why do I want my abusive bf to be happy and successful....even "after" he came at me with a knife??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I'm having a really hard time because my boyfriend was arrested yesterday for domestic violence. Yes, there's a big long history, but yesterday was really bad because he came at me with a knife which he was then going to turn on himself (this is ...