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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to be just a bed mate for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hello Everyone. Any advice or similar experiences would be most welcome! And if there are any guys out there - I would so love your take on everything as my male friends don't seem to be much help at the moment!! I met this guy a month ago - grea...

I'm seen as the quiet kid who never talks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - When I was a little kid I had many friends and always talked to other kids. Around grade 4 my parents split up and I moved in with my mom and sister into an apartment. When we moved in I made friends with other kids in the building, but there were ...

Do you just run out of love after just 3 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have gone through a lot. He was there trying to be with me, a year ago, when I was having a hard time trying to choose between him and my ex-boyfriend. Well, I finally got my ex out of my life in may of 2009 and my current ...

I'm dependent on him, but he cheats on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - ive been in dysfunctional relationship. the problem is with myself already. i am financially dependent on my partner. he always betray me, he always cheated on me. i cant move forward or i cant get out in this relationship. i always tried to escape ...

He turned off his phone and wouldn't tell me where he was -- did he cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years but he recently went out and didnt turn up until the early hours of the morning, he loves me but do u think hes cheatd on me ? (he turnd his fone off and wouldnt tell me were he was)...

She cut me off a year ago, and I'm getting tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - OK, so I have made a complete mess of my relationship with a woman I have been 'cohabitating' with for 23 years... I have made a complete mess with our finances (I would say mainly due to my selfishness but there are other issues involved like ...

I want him to be part of our daughter's life after he gets out of jail ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My daughters father was brought up in an insane household.. honestly his mother believes in all types of religions and his father would cheat. when i found out that i was pregnant with my daughter he left and started dating numerous other girls. i ...

It appears to be over, but I have no closure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Okay, so a beautiful relationship I was in ended badly. We were together for a little over two months, but I poured my heart and soul into the realationship during that time. After she did many hurtful things to me in the last few weeks, she call...

He cheated on me. He doesn't know I cheated on him too. Should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has cheated on me twice and I've forgiven him both times because he came out and told me I didnt have to find out or any other immature things involved. While he was cheating on me I kinda felt that something was going on so I cheated ...

How long to wait around before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for about 7 months, the last 2 months has been less and less...I don't get return phone calls for days, we rarely see each other. We have never argued, when we are together we get along well, although there is a bit of ...

My boyfriend is torn between his wife and me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I first met it was love at first sight. Not something I had ever believed in before especially at 28. After having our 1st date, he called and told me that he was separated with a daughter and going through a divorce. Not ...

My boyfriend said that if I loved him I would have sex with him! Why cant he respect my wishes and wait?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My bf said if I loved him, if I cared about him and if I wanted to make him happy, then I would have sex with him. Why would he say this? It really hurts for him to say this to me because I DO care, and I do love him and I so badly want to ma...

I cant stand his accusations any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if this is abuse or not. I have been dating my boyfriend (he is from Europe) for almost a year and a half. It started a year ago when he would tell me that I am looking at other men (when I don't) and that I wanted to be with other men ...

Feeling ignored

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Im 37 and my girlfriend is 41. We have been dating for about 5 months and get along fine. However, I have noticed that her home life kind of distracts us from developing a solid relationship. She has two kids 17 and 20 who live with her (i dont have ...

Is he still in love with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for 2years now i love him alot but i sometimes feel realy small.last year i found out he was cheating on me and confronted him but then he droped the girl and thing slowly started mending.today i was with him then he said he ...

Three way relationships. Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 5-6 months now and we have been getting on really well untill recently. My boyfriend once lived with his (ex) girlfriend and when they split up she moved out and she is still paying half the mortgage ...

6 month anniversary, what do you make of it?

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11 September 2009 (M) - hi, i have recently had an upset with my lovely gf of 6 months, we just had out 6 month anniversary on thursday. the sunday before i asked her if she wanted to do anything for it n she said she didnt mind, so i assumed that she would keep it free ...

How do I deal with my bf's friend flirting with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - can someone please help me. im having a little issue with my bf. hes recently became friends with another girl, and i wasnt bothered until, i undoubtably noticed them flirting. iv never herd of her before, but since shes been around weve had ...

I feel uneasy about my girlfriend's behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Basically my girlfriend is making me uneasy all the time. First it started with her getting drunk and wrestling, biting, and rolling around with my friend on her bed (she said it was nothing).. Then she lies about where she is (acting innocent and ...

I've been with my partner for nearly a decade, but I cant help fantasizing about men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I have a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend, except that I frequently fantasize about men. We have been together for nearly a decade, but I can't seem to stop wondering what it would be like to be with a man. I once broke up with her to be ...

My boyfriend wasnt paying me any attention when we had a threesome but now I think I want to try another one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - so I'm bisexual female and Ive had the same boyfriend for over a year now. a threesome came up in our conversation about four months ago and we'd thought it be fun to try it with one of my friends thats a girl whos also a bisexual, we asked and she ...

I made up my mind that I want to marry him, but he is "forcing" me to have more time! Has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) - I have been dating this guy for about three months. He is wonderful, we are so much compatible and am in love with him (he tells me he is too) We we disscussed our future together and agreed that we would get married sometime. After a while, i...

He doesn't pay me much attention, do you think he is giving it to another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - am 19 and am dating a 30 years old guy. he works and i go to the university , the thing is am worried whether he really loves me or he is just having fun with my heart. we met through a friend and he told my friend that he wants a gal with a vision ...

I told my boyfriend I want to stop having sex for a month and he said he would get his pleasure elsewhere!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - ugh ok so obviously alot of people have read my questions now let me ask you this. I told my boyfriend that I feel like I'm in a more physical relationship than an emotional one. he never kisses me unless i do it first and when i do its onl for like ...

Stuck in between a rock and a hard place because I still love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - hi‚ i,ve been this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together .I was in an accident 4 yrs ago ,i almost lost my life she's been helping me with everything because i'm in a wheelchair ,I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me.She ...

My boyfriend wont spend the time on foreplay and sex is getting painful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I enjoy sex together a lot. But lately things have been horrible. We both kinda like our sex rough and never had a problem. However, he just started graduate school and is working full time so he feels crushed for time. I like to ...

Am I stupid for thinking he will leave his long term girlfriend and get back with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i have only been together for about 5 months... then about 4 months ago we broke up and he started dating his ex girlfriend he was with for about 3 years before me...even though he did not admit it to me until i found out from ...

He was running hot and cold -- should I give him a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - After seeing the guy for 2 months and telling him I would move at the end of the summer (mere 30 min. from him) he told me: well i guess this summer fling is over. Then a week later his ex magically came into the picture. A month after that, I ran ...

What did he mean by wanting me to be submissive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - My question is, what are dominant male and submissive female relationships all about. I was dating a dominant male who says I wasn't submissive enough and that I always had something to say. What did he mean? We hung out for 6 weeks and when I ...