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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my BF ashamed of me? He won't hold my hand in public or tell his friends we're dating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My bf won't hold my hand in public! We have been together for two months and last night we went out to the store and I went to grab his hand and he 'acted' like he needed to grab something and let go of my hand. We held hands for less than 30 ...

I tell him that I love him and want to be with him constantly, but it's never enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - okay so im 16 years old, turning 17 soon and im a junior in highschool. iv been in only two serious relationships and iv had my heart broken many times. before me and my ex started dating i would resent it soo much because i afraid of getting hurt ...

Messed up life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - i have been with my husband for 7 years i had left my whole family for him ever since i have been touch with my family on and off for the past few years over the fone iv not seen them i give up for a couple of years then ring them again for ...

How can I stop pushing everybody away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity when I was 12. I had been dating the guy for two years. He was my first everything. First boyfriend, first kiss, first and only partner, first love, even the first person I held hands with. I thought that since he always cheated ...

Should I stay and be with number 2 or go home and be with number 1???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My problem is that, About 4 years ago I was with a great man who adored me. We were together for 2 years but I really wasn't ready for the relationship at the time and made the worst mistake and cheated on him near the end of the relationship (which ...

I am undecided about children, meanwhile he just had a vasectomy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I am in a nearly year long relationship with a man I love. He is absolutely wonderful to me in so many ways, and we seem to click. I am a few years younger than him, just finishing my Master’s degree, and still deciding what I want to do with ...

How can I start a conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: THis is not a question, please just aedd this onto your original post. hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge cruch i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me 2) n i said before i never talked 2 him cause whenevr he tries 2 talk 2 m...

Is he still with his ex? Am I the other woman?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - He told me that him and his ex are over, but they have a kid together. We've been together 6 months, but I've noticed a few things: 1. He told me he doesn't have MySpace page. But I found it- He's logged in very recently, and he's had it for ov...

7 years and now this...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - The major problem i have in my relationship is TRUST and DEPENDABILITY. 2 major problems in my book. I've been with my love for 7 years and I love him. We have gone through some s*#t and we are still together. We have never cheated on one another, ...

Why why why?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Ok I asked a question some hours ago... I'm having so many problems understanding this, and I just feel so bad! The thing is, I had lied to my boyfriend in the beginning of my relationship, and ever since he has judged me for being a liar, but last ...

He didn't really rape me as such... but what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

26 September 2009 (?) - so im going to tell u a rather lengthy story but i REALLY need to vent and get it off my chest and know an outsiders opinion about it before i go telling anyone that could know the people involved: im gona be 16 in less than a month and i went to a ...

Husband's head games...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - please help My husband of 5 years keeps playing head games with me, when he Is not feeling happy for various reasons he starts being weird with me.. He will act like he is having an affair, he has told me he was going out one night and I got a fr...

I feel so guilty for not being able to try again with him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I am in a miserable situation. I have been married for 10 years and have a 9 year old child. For various reasons, I have grown to resent my husband, he has barely shown me attention sexually for years, hasn't bothered to play much with our son, has ...

B/f has alot of female friends and I feel uneasy about his talking/texting/lying about it

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26 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for a 1 1/2 yrs and my problem is he has alot of female friends that he went to college with and still talks to and text they all live out of state and that is not a problem the problem is there is one that he ...

Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult? Is there any way to remove oneself from society so much so that nothing or no one can interfere in our affairs? I feel like people in general hate seeing other people happy, and try t...

My friends smoke weed. How do I tell them I don't toke anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Please i need help, im going to a gig soon with some mates ill be 16 then and basically, my mates are taking weed with them and I dont know what to do. I used to smoke it with me old mates and i really dont wanna get back into it. It messed me up ...

She wants to be with me...minus the sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Really confused here. Basically, me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago due to 2 things really. She completetly lost interest in sex/couply thing. Before you say im shallow blah blah blah im not. Secondly we were constantly fig...

I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far t...

How do I forget this guy and move on?

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26 September 2009 (F) - I really need some help. Its been 4 years, I've been liking this guy.. We'd even been in a relationship..there have been breakups n patch ups often..I've broken up now...I really can't forget him..what do i do to forget him? He's on my mind always...

We agreed to break up because of different views about sex, but he's still messing with my head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My ex bf broke up with me a couple of weeks before he was due to leave for a long overseas holiday. This is how it happened. We had a huge fight one night because I wouldn't have sex with him. I believe in waiting, where as he doesn't view sex...

G/f doesn't want the relationship to go beyond "liking"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I know this is a bit long, but i have to get this off my chest and i want ur opinions..I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months. I am 22 and she is 19. the first five months , the relationship was great, we would spend a lot of time with each ...

26 and tired of my dad butting into my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Im sick and tired of my dad trying to butt his nose into my life. He's forever giving his opinion on the men i choose to date and the friends I have. Im only 26 but he tells me that ive messed my life up just because I havent been to uni or gone ...

Am a lover? Or his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I am sittin here angry....why becoz I have a Man (boy) in my house that thinks he is my boyfriend. However, we have as often a nun and a monk....and he does not work, I cook, I clean, I do it all...as he sits and watches, doing his thing....we use ...

In love with a married woman and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - This is a bit of a long story. We first met in our teens. I had the hots for her in a major way... and she felt the same way for me. The problem, neither of us was brave enough to tell the other how we truly felt inside. We spent many of ou...

Jealous of the time he spends with this pretty popular girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - i think i'm having a real issue with myself. my boyfriend has this one close girl friend, and whenever they are out together i tend to get upset/angry. she is incredibly gorgeous, talented and popular, and this makes me feel really insecure. it's ...

I lied in the past and now he accuses me of lying all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I had lied to my boyfriend about my past and he always accuses me of lying ever since, even though I don't do it anymore. He's always jealous because of my past. And he's always self-righteous about lying and all... I always though he was honest! ...

Sometimes he shows he loves me, sometimes he doesn't even care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I feel so disappointed right now.Me and my boyfriend live together for 2 years. Some time he show me he love me and sometime he don't even care what happen to me. When he don't care about me like that I going crazy. I got mad,(angry extreamly),cry ...

Love/hate relationship with many breakups

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have this love/hate/break-up/make-up relationship, but he is always the one breaking-up with me because I can't "handle my emotions" and "I'm crazy". I'm going through a really rough time ( don't have a car/job/live with my ...

I want to get married but marriage is out of the question for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man for almost seven years now. I am almost 24 and he is 27. i love him very much, but I feel I have given this relationship enough of my time. What I mean by that is that is I want to get married. He loves me very much, ...

My best friend's g/f hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - (Just note, I have asked many questions about this situation on here). Okay, so, my best friend's girlfriend hates me. She doesn't try to deny it (hence, the threatening email. And today, she "bumped" into me and triped me down the stairs at schoo...