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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Shall I tell the girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so my sister (30ish) met a guy (30ish) on a two week business trip. They had a couple of brief encounters but it was essentially a friendship. Anyway she has recently found out that she is pregnant. The guy has a girlfriend of a year and a hal...

How can we learn to fight fair? He says mean things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - okay well I've been having a problem with my boyfriend. Well yesterday we got into a very heated fight, that lead to him twisting my words around completely and sccusing me of breaking up with him. I tried to explain to him what I meant but it was ...

Am I being unreasonable in asking him to stop this behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I have an issue with my boyfriend who gives a light kiss on the lips of a married woman every time he passes her. He said it was just a game that they played before he started dating me. This has been over a year and he continues to do this. I ...

When you are in NC is it possible to block 'the ex' from IM's or does that just end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I would like to get back with my ex however since he is the one that has slowed things down without explanation I decided to let him make the effort. The problem is we share the same IM's and it hurts my feelings to see him online but we aren't ...

Am I going crazy here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - This is the first time I've posted anything like this, but I'm in desperate need of advice. Here is the situation: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We were engaged at one point, but we called it off in order to try working through ...

I don't wanna lose him forever but I know I will if I leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Hey cupids, i hope someone can help me. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm afraid I've just fallen out of love with him. I still love him, but I'm not in love with him.And its really difficult because recently ...

Why can't he quit smoking???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - So heres the thing. I've been with my now ex boyfriend,TJ, for almost 2 years. I really do love him. Honestly, I do. But he has a huge problem with lying, usually about the smallest things! I went out with a guy last year, after breaking up with TJ. ...

I don't want to make J jealous and don't want to quit spending time with my friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Got a situation that's been nagging me for a while now, but first, let me give some backstory. About a year ago, some of my friends introduced me to their other group of friends. I hit it off with them immediately, and very quickly became good fri...

I feel my girlfriend treats me like shit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - hey whats up guys and girls i need help i dont know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when im not going to be around and she never wears nice things when i am does she have something on the side, is she cheating on me is she going to ...

Married for 8 years, and I don't love him any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I've been married for 8 years but I am no longer in love with my husband I love him but only as the father of my son and has been this way for some time, I always felt we are two very different people and we never seem to agree in any issue, he ...

B/f is battling depression so we talk rarely, what can I do for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has stopped talking to me, it has been 2 weeks. He talks to me one day and then the next he dissapears. I asked him what was going on, why was he ignoring me all these days and he said it's because he is battling depression. I know that ...

Do you think my ex still loves me and is he playing a cruel game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up after two months of dating, we had been trying to be together for a year, but I was having a hard time leaving my current boyfriend at that time. Well, we get together, and I was still going through issues from my last ...

My fling gave me the ax, need some advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Need advice on a recent relationship. I've been seeing this guy for three months, he's in a relationship going on 2 1/2 years, I am single. We have had the best times, here recently I visited him for two days and during my stay he told me he ...

Should I walk away, or hope that things can go back to how they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Its my first relationship and I came to find out 25 days back that my gf of 9 months cheated me in starting months, with her ex. i got disturbed and still continued with the relationship. but last night, we had a disscussion about this cheating.. ...

Suggestive text messaging...is it an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - My husband has a female friend whom he often goes out runing with. They have been exchanging dirty texts and jokes for the past year which I have expressed my disatisafction over however my husband continues to send and receive such texts. Rece...

B/f stayed in the car with a girl from 4 AM to 7 AM, what should I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - okay, I have a severe proble, well in my case it is. I have a boyfriend Named *chris and we have been going out, or together for a lil' over a year now, and we have grown close, like I have a deep attachment to him after living with him, him being ...

I miss him so much now that we've broken up... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - The point is why I miss my ex? its more than 2 months and I cant get him out of my mind. Every song, street, place, smell, reminds me of him. And why? was he something good . he was the most bad thing in my life This man, lied on me, promised...

Help! What do you do when you are in love with 2 men and a 2 year old is involved?

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19 September 2009 (F) - Hi there I'm 23 years old and I've pretty much made a complete mess of my life. I currently live with my boyfriend who I have been with since I was 16 but we were broken up for a year until just a few months ago. We have a beautiful little girl who ...

Insensitive girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I am in relatively new relationship. It has been a month since we told each other how we felt. We had two great weeks were I have been floating on a cloud of happiness. Then things started going south since. She stopped sending me any "I miss u" ...

Boyfriend's personality completely changes online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating a man for about six months, and things between us are fine when we're speaking to each other in person. He acts like a gentleman, and we get along wonderfully. The problems surface whenever we're speaking online, a different side of ...

I want to settle down but g/f is still running around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I'm 24 yo and my girlfriend of over 4 years isn't into me anymore; we first met at school fell in love and had a wonderful first 2 years together. Both of us are our first relationship. She then continued her education and met new friends. She'd ...

My girlfriend refuses to wax her upper lip hair, and it is my one major turn off. Now I don't feel attracted to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years now, and I love her deeply. She has always gotten a lot of upper lip hair, but she usually will wax it over time. Now however, she said she's done waxing and doesn't feel like she needs to. I kno...

I cannot stand my brother in-law's girlfriend...HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been married to my husband now for about 2 years and have experienced my brother in-laws relationship with his girlfriend..might I add she is by far the most rude person I have ever met! Long story very long but kinda short: S...

Did this guy ever like me? Is he using my friend as a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Dear ,cupid I recently met a guy and he an I were kicking it off really well We got to point of where we can tell each other anything in just one month. But he lives 5000 miles away and when visited him on vacation he offered to take me out t...

She is always hiding her past and lying. Can we survive this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 3yrs with whom i have a son of 1yrs old constantly accuses me of chat sex and other things like lying ect. i confronted her on numerous occations that its all made up in her head but she persists. on numerous occations i-ve caught ...

Should I break up with her? I feel like it's now or never.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Me and my gf been together for 8 months. very wierd relationship, it was rocky from the start but I decided to move away about 3months into it and broke up with her. we started going out again 3 days later and the relationship has never been better. ...

Am I being needy or is she just a lousy girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - Okay, in a nut shell... My cousin set me up with her best friends sister, which I went to highschool with and knew of but had never actually met. I am now three years out of highschool and in University(21) She is also at the same university a...