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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why does my bf try to make me feel jealous? He implies that I can't do any better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost 5 years. Things have been so rocky the last month we're hardly communicating. Last night we talked for almost 3 hours, over facebook, about our issues and how we can't seem to make it work. As the conversation wen...

Is this man capable of being faithful? Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with a lovely man for 2 years who has been wonderful to me, including inviting my criminal son to stay with him when he was released from prison. Even when my son stole from him he didn't reject me ( but did quite rightly kick my son out)...

Am I a bad person to feel the need to talk to other men ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - My partner and I have been together for years now but it's always me that puts in effort, including a normal conversation. I get excited to see him after we both work and to share our days with each other but it's always me to ask how was your day? ...

My wedding is a few weeks away and his ex wife and adult daughters are still causing problems.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I have written in before about my fiance's ex wife and 3 adult girls abusive behavior and was given advice that we followed and basically blocked them off of facebook, and just continued living our lives. My fiance was able to reconnect with a ...

Sleeping with the ex but I'm demanding more respect

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Just to start off, I'm a 30 yr old female and single. For the past two years I've been sleeping with my ex (37). He took my virginity exactly 15 yrs ago and we always been hooking up on and off. I have been celibate since 2008 due to low self esteem ...

I'm fine with being friends, but he is sending mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I have had this guy friend for about 4 months. We are just good friends that hangout and have a good time together, and great friends that we have classes together at school (college). I had begin to develops feelings for him because we were ...

My boyfriend of 3 years just now told me he had a child that was put up for adoption

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I feel so shocked and hurt that I don't know what to do or where to turn. I've been in my relationship for three years now. Recently we made a decision to come off birth control and start trying for a family. The decision came after I had a sc...

I feel like my fiance is giving up on me. Will I ever be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I feel like my fiancé is giving up on our relationship. I'm the only one that works and drives. Its a struggle because I work eight hours everyday and when I come home, I'm hoping the house is clean at least and that our daughter is fed and taking ...

What is the right/appropriate way of telling someone to clean up after themselves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - The main question I have is What is the right/appropriate way of telling someone to clean up after themselves? Here's the background: My best friend and I are roommates in an apartment. We get along great, we help out with payments, we split...

He called me stupid and fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. We've been dating two years, see each other over the weekends and communicate a lot by text. Today, my boyfriend was rude to me over the phone, basically hung up on me for no reason, and then ...

I've reconnected with the ex but he's much different now. Will there be a rainbow after the storm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hello and thanks I dated a guy 15 years ago and we reconnected. Our relationship was great back then we got along well, he was very good to me, and we loved eachother very much. He was kind, sweet and funny. WE were both young and we mutually deci...

How can I recover from this, and be friends with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - There is this coworker of mine who I like. We work for a construction company. He's the warehouse manager and I'm a project manager. He's just a nice guy and we have good chemistry. I'm 22 and he's 37. A few weeks ago, I asked him out to lu...

My boyfriend made several comments about another woman which hurt me but he said thats how guys talk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - I want some honest help as to whether im overreacting to something that happened this evening. I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this guy and he's helped me no end overcome some trust issues that were holding me back. I'm only his thi...

I am starting to question how important I may be to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I have been with my bf for 4mths now but we were really good friends for 5yrs before. He says he loves me and I believe he does (in his own way) but I am starting to question how important I may be to him (though he says I am the most important ...

Is it too late to restart my life at 35?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Do you think that at 34 (35 in 2 months) its too late to restart your life? I am living in a country that is not mine... With a man that I no longer love and can't stand him touching me... in a job that sucks... I just have this need to pack and...

Week of partying while telling me he's done with it all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles ... Would anyone be ok with their 47 year old boyfriend of 3 Years going out 6 nights in one week. One night was with me, another was at a local pool hall , other nights were clubs. 2 of those nights were 6AM nights ! I ange...

I found lip gloss in his car and I suspect he is cheating. Should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I had a dream where my boyfriend told me "I'll always be your friend" and it was basically a break up. Lately, things have felt different and I do suspect another woman is in the picture. His behavior has changed and I found lipgloss in his car he ...

They say my appearance is "exotic" I'd rather be ordinary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - So I'm 6'ft ,with very dark skin and slender Lately I've been given the title "exotic" by my friends and even by strangers I meet. I get told I'm beautiful and pretty and so on but every girl gets that. I never take these terms seriously becaus...

This man doesn't want to deal with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...

He has too much baggage but I don't have the courage to break up with him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Well, I'm trying to put an end to my 6 month relationship but I'm having a bit of trouble. I can't quite figure out my feelings towards him. To briefly describe my relationship, I've always had second thoughts about us, but really wanted to try to m...

A three way kiss? Do I tell my Bf? He tends to hurt me when he gets mad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

24 February 2015 (?) - Ok so basically I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. We are happy enough, don't really feel butterflies that much any more but we do love each other and he cares about me dearly as I do him. We have fun together and he is my bes...

He chooses to masturbate while looking at pictures of women. Will this only get worse? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - My partner of seven years just admitted to using pictures of females .. Not porn. Just pictures of their bodies so he can masturbate. So it's not the action of sex - it's strictly their boobs and butts he wants to see. My major concern is that ...

Should I stay with my girlfriend of 6 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Hi, I just wanted to get some advice on my relationship as probably I could do with it. I'm 33 and my girlfriend is five years younger than me. We have been going out for 6-7 years. I’m not sure if I should stay with her. When she has no problem ...

Boyfriend and I are fighting over small things but he doesn't learn from our fights

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot lately. Ridiculous as it may sound, its over small things, like not saying goodnight, not saying I love you, forgetting to say goodmorning, not picking up when calling...frivolous reasons and some ...

My boyfriend remains friends with a girl who froze me out. I am angry that he remains her friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and met most of his friends, co-workers and even his bosses. One of his closest friend had a new gf who I kinda grew close with. I confided in her when things werent good between me and boyfriend, ...

All of my boyfriends new friends are girls! Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend has been befriending/talking with other girls lately? I'm in a serious long term relationship with my boyfriend. We're together every weekend so I notice things here and there., For the past couple of months ...

My uncertainties are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year. We usually only see each other at weekends bbecause of work commitments on both parts but sometimes we get chance through the week, though this is not often. The trouble is, I think I'm obsessed...

I found my partner had been looking at gay men on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I found my partner had been looking at gay men on the internet he said he is not gay but doesn't know why he does it he feels his body is not good and like looking we have great sex life and have been together 5 years i don't know what to do...

How do I explain to his parents why mine wont be at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I haven't ever really been close to my parents, and I left home as soon as I could aged 16. I moved away from my hometown 4 years ago and haven't really seen my parents other then family parties ever since. I guess a lot of it is my bad relations...

Why am I seeing this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3352 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and we live together. We went from fighting all the time to hardly fighting to now we are fighting again. There's three issues that I have with him. The first one being his friends and family live about 45 ...

He gets mad over the small things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I love him dearly but I'm starting to get fed up.. I go home a lot near tears or just in disarray because of his yelling and stuff. An example of this is when he had locked himself in his ...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

How can I get rid of my bad reputation in a small town? My new Gf's father said I should not be dating his daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm 21 and I just started dating an amazing girl. Unfortunately I did a lot of stupid stuff in my past to make fathers not want me near their innocent daughters. She is 18, a senior in high school and lives at home. Her father liked me the fir...

33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...

How do I let him know of my needs? I do worry about him flirting with other girls. And it does upset me that he doesn't compliment me as often as I would like.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - How do I learn to trust my boyfriend? He does go out with his friends. But I'm just worried he is out flirting with women. Its frustrating that at his age he still loves going to clubs and he drinks a lot. I love him but wish he grows more m...

I fejected her friendship after she fejected me first. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - Dear cupids, your valuable opinions help me a lot in the past, so i am here again hoping to get your valuable opinions again. To make it short, a girl who have been a friend for 5 years rejected me 2 months back and i go no contact to heal myself. ...

Am I being defensive about my boyfriends remarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I can't tell if I'm over thinking stuff, and being defensive as he keeps telling me, or I'm sensing mixed signals from him recently. My boyfriend can be quite snobby. But just through insecurity rather than expertise of an area/or wealth. ...

So many broken promises from my Bf. After 4.5 years how do I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Modnote: some graphic language removed from post, without changing the meaning. . . . . . . . . . . I am so sick of the rubbish that comes out of my boyfriend's mouth. I'm at my breaking point and want OUT of this relationship. I'm miserable with h...

He says he'll end it if I abort the pregnancy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - pls guys i need ur help, i am 23 nd my boyfrnd is 27 we have been dating for about 3yrs now, we love each other so much, he has promised to marry me nd we dont have any problem. He is into a very good biznes, nd i am currently working. We both ...

I looked for advice while we were on a break and she seems to resent it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Hi, I was seeing a girl around the end of last year and things were going really well. We would spend a lot of time together and everything gelled really well. She had even said she loved me. Then suddenly within a 24 hour period she cooled off big ...

I told my married lover I am free to see others and he said he wants a future with me. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for 5 years I have divorced my husband but my lover is still with his family, he said he cannot leave his children until they are older and less dependant on him, he does idolise his kids.I said I was free to see ...

I'm about to get married, and my fiancé has started to smoke weed- how do I deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I began dating my now fiancé 7 years ago when we were 18. We both had very strong Catholic morals, including both being extremely against any form of smoking. Well, I found out he has lied to me for over a year and has started to smoke weed on ...

My girlfriend's child is 15 months old and her tantrums are frazzling my nerves!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - So I've recently started dating a woman about 4 months ago. Things between us are fantastic. We get along amazingly and chemistry between us is definitely there. However, there's one thing I'm having a hard time admitting is a problem for me. Her ...

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...

Is wanting some ''space'' a sign that she's not as interested in me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 February 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm writing because my girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and to this day she says there was no "real reason" to break up, she just needed time to think about things, as her grandmother pass...

Am I obsessed because I love her, and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 February 2015 (M) - so lately i have been very very possesive about a girl, we became friends about a year ago ,and i knew we will never get married and also i wasnt lookin for a gf, everything was fine, but after 6 months she told me she had a bf before for 5 years, ...

Did he use me? My married lover just stopped seeing me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - So I know that what I have been doing is wrong. I wholeheartedly know this. I just feel sometimes you cannot help who you have a real connection with. This is my situation in a nut shell; I am now 26. When I was 18/19 I used to work for a l...

Committed or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - I am 27 years old my BF is the Same Age. We have been in this relationship 3 years total and 1 year living together. So far everything is good. I have my doubts. He seems to be prolonging marriage and kids. He tells me on it's time it will come. I ...

After these two incidents years apart, I'm not sure that my B/f's happy and committed. What do you guys think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years was sending flirty text messages with another woman, about how he was going to be in her area soon and how he wanted to see her in a bikini etc. She stopped responding after a few back and forths and so it fizzled out. ...

My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heav...