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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...

Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...

What are the main reasons that would motivate a woman to want to break up with a guy?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

30 April 2016 (M) - I would like the opinion of the lady's an men who write in all the time, my question is what's the main reasons for women to dump the guys? Is it they found some one new, he cheated , he treats her bad, got bored of him, he was to nice, came on ...

He thinks I stole his money! I’m so hurt! Should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I’ve been seeing a man for almost 6 years I’m now living with him he say he lost so I'm money and the first person he blames is me because we are the only 2 people live in the house but his son is always comes in as he please a...

How should I handle this? Is he being thoughtless? Selfish? Or ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend was supposed to be going to a gig with me. The band cancelled the tour due to illness. Instead promised we would go on a weekend getaway and hinted at engagement. We have been together 2 years and have two kids together and liv...

She wants us to start again. What would be the best thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - I have been seeing my girl for nearly a year. My pal is on a dating site POF. He told me my girlfriends photo profile came up in a search, so I checked it out for myself. He wasnt lying. It said she had logged in within the last 24 hours. I ...

Should I just ignore my fiance until I return from my family vacation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I'm getting married to my fiance in October. At the moment I am on holidays with my mother and sister. I have to send the first text to my other half always. It's like "out of sight out of mind". Why? Should I just ignore him now until I get home...

What else has he lied about? It's upsetting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Okay. So I've been with my husband since my junior (his senior) year of high school. Lately, we've fallen on hard times and I've taken a fair amount of emotional abuse. I know that it's not him but the stress of his job. He's taking that stress o...

How can I get out of this abusive relationship? He has everyone fooled into thinking he is a good guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been getting messages from girls he has been with and never tells me about it. Unless I look at his stuff I don't ever know. And only one of the girls has asked him if he was with anyone which he said yes he was. But the others...

I thought we were on the same page about a baby, but now he wants to go travelling.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - A year a go I found out I had pcos and it horrified me that I would never conceive. I spoke with my partner and said I don't really want to wait to try for a baby - I'm 24 so it wasnt unrealistic. A year later and all of a sudden my partner wants to ...

He broke up with me but I believe we will be together again in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I recently was broken up with by my now ex boyfriend, and even though it hurt for days it now hurts less. He told me a lot of things when he broke up with me, which now I am a 100% sure he was telling the truth. He has never lied to me, and I know ...

What other lies is she telling me? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Dear cupid I have a problem with my girlfriend of 5 years whom we once quarelled as she was saying that I don't trust because when I happen to be at her work place people who know that we are an item working around her as she is a street vendor a...

What should I do with my gamer boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - As if my boyfriend didn't play games already enough. Now he wants to play 4 hours straight two nights. While he plays every night for 3 hours. Like is he serious!?!? When were supose to be spending time together. I want to spend time with him, e...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

The 'what if' person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2906 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys! I'm new here but felt like I wanted to share an experience with you which kind of made me lose sight of who I was. So there is a guy who for the past four years has decided to come in and out of my life whenever he fancies. He sav...

Am I alone in having a critical, angry partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - I am at the end of my tether with my partner. He is the most argumentative person ever. I feel like the only thing he offers is criticism. It seems like when we are in the planning stages of just about anything, he does not offer an opinion (desp...

My Bf has secretly been having sex with this woman for more than 6 years. Should he remain friends with her and her partner? I say no.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been friends with this couple for 20 years. They moved states away a long time ago. They email, talk and text Facebook always. I found out recently that he has been having sex with her for like 6+ years and they have secret ...

Please help me! I’m feeling so suffocated by the choices my mother has made!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Hi all, I posted on here before about moving in with my bf and how my mother and stepfather are dependent on me. Well, I made up my mind that I was going to move in with my boyfriend regardless and start planning on our dreams. Come to find out...

Do I stop making our favorite food because it bothers our 80 year old neighbor?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Hello We live in an apartment building and are a mid aged couple. I cook for my husband on daily basis, we are both Canadian. We really enjoy curry and maybe twice a month I will cook it. My neighbour who is in her 80s and frail health mention...

He’s been chatting with women online and now has booked a solo trip to a country where one lives! I need opinions on this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Me and hubby have been together 7yrs and married for 3. We have a 4 yr old daughter..He has been talking to women who he has friended from social media. He doesn't know any of them. But to some he will start talking in a way...

How can someone who claims to love you be so unfeeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I got pretty sick this past week. I was bed ridden for days had no energy throwing up. My husband had it the week before so naturally I was concerned for him took care of his every need and made sure he felt loved and taken care of. Fast forw...

What am I doing wrong? Women seem scared of me. Haven't been able to set up a date in three years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - I have problems with women and I'm taking time away from dating (or trying to date) until I've found myself, developed confidence, and have a proper view of women in general. I've struggled pretty badly for the past 7 years or so. My previous...

He likes to tease me in front of others. What can I try to get him to stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I'm a 27 year old female, and my s/o, *P* is 28. I've been troubled by this for a while, and just tonight we got into an argument about this. Here is my problem...he likes to tease me in front of others.I feel uncomfortable about it, and almost f...

I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend because he keeps rejecting me due to my weight gain of 15 lbs!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3.5 years, during which time I have been enrolled in a rigorous PhD program. I am 5’8 and when he met me, I weighed 155 lbs. A year ago he told me he hadn’t been attracted to me for about 6 months. He had b...

I’m expecting my first child with my boyfriend but he isn’t happy and is calling me a liar!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - I have recently discovered I'm expecting my first child with my boyfriend of 3 years. It seems like it would be great news but he isn't happy at all and keeps calling me a liar as I had always believed that I couldn't have children naturall...

What do I say to my boyfriend about where I and my daughter are on his list of priorities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Hi ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 6 month old daughter the problem is I'm always last on his list of priorities he works all week plans what he will do at the weekend his plans never involve me or his daughter he does nothing to ...

Do I cut all contact with him? He left me feeling disrespected when he took my virginity and then just left.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this boy for just over a year now, for a good 3 months last year we were seeing each other but things just didn't work out. He then had a giflriend and we were like bestfriends but now they've been broken up for a while an...

Can I ever encourage this man to come back? He broke up with me after finding I was once engaged to another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy one (Mr. X) and half years ago but we started dating about eight months ago. before him, I was previously engaged to another man, who called off the wedding just one week before. We had had engagement ceremony, as is custom in my c...

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

I no longer want to see my LDR boyfriend and he's talking about moving in together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I have visited each other on a very regular basis up until the beginning of this year when I took on a new job that doesn't allow much time off. I've only seen him once this year, back in Febru...

My girlfriend suddenly has a fantasy about a MFF threesome and won't let go of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - Hi I have been with my girlfriend and soon to be fiance for 6 years Through out the relationship she has been very possesive and jealous, to the point where if i looked at porn or say another girl in the shopping centre, had pictures of a bi...

My Boyfriend's Doberman comes first. It's making me miserable. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a 1 yr old son. The problem is when me and my boyfriend met he had a Doberman but the problem is he treats the dog better than me. He takes the dog everywhere with me. The dog can do no wrong. T...

Should I stay or should I go? Where Would I fit in elsewhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I am currently working in a small office for a small company.. very small company. I have been here for 8-9 months. I really can't stand the majority of the people here and I know that there will always be those situations in life where you have t...

How can I change my bad attitude towards other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - What is the best thing to do so I can change my attitude towards others. I have a bad attitude and this is towards anyone I have tried changing it but when I was nice and respectful others took advantage and treated me very unfair. I was ...

What do you do for someone who made your life happy again ? my friend helped and supported me after abuse I suffered

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I had a horrible childhood, I was physically and sexually molested and raped by my step father for 7 years. When I was 20, I met a guy on an online adult site . He was 15 years older then me. I was still living at home and my step father cont...

Should I say something to my boss tomorrow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I just got in an argument with my boss well basically his my general manager.And I do not know what to do or if I should do or say anything tomorrow.. He said that I have a nasty attitude and a nasty way of answering his questions. S...

Who is right? Why can't he compromise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - My bf says we always do what I want but that isn't true at all. I want a treadmill, to be able to workout in our apt because I have a lot of anxiety and I also have stomach issues and exercising really helps. So I tried tling him all this, but he ...

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

Does human love really exist? Do you really believe in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - My love life is not exciting at all,all relationships i have been involved they were nothing but heart breaking.I realized that that i was meant to love or dating for that matter. I will never love again. You give your all to your partner,but som...

I feel a lot of resentment for my husband because of the way he has behaved this entire pregnancy and made me feel lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Hello , I'm a 30year old female expecting my first child . It has been a roller coaster ride the last few years . Me and my husband had trouble conceiving and took treatment for 4 yrs . Last year I also suffered an accident and had to have surgery ...

How do I handle this? My friend and I have a problem because of our arguments

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - So I have this 'friend' (we have a very complicated relationship and sleep together), and we have a bit of a problem with arguing. I consider myself to be a very easy person to get along with, and I absolutely despise fighting. Yet for some rea...

He’s stood me up not once, not twice, but three times! Is he just unlucky or is he married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Ok I'm in a little shock right now. I've been stood up not once not twice but three times. I know many will say why would talk to someone who did this to you. Well he was so charming. He would say how beautiful caring I was then ask me out then at ...

How do I get back to an even keel with my longtime manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - Not a love question but I am fighting to understand my current problem and dearcupid has always been useful for this. Now this could be long so bear with me. I've been at my current job for 6 years. My manager has always been a bit of an enig...

He cuts me off in middle of me speaking. He said people do it all the time. Is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I were working in the office yesterday. After a while he had to take over from what I was doing and I sat waiting for him. We were talking a little,but every time I was telling him a story he either wouldn't answer me or he would...

Do I end this friendship with my ex? I'm feeling very hurt and confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I'll start off by saving for the past 5-6 months I have been in an emotional tornado regarding my ex boyfriend. It has been hell for me, seriously. And I'm extremely confused about everything I was with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years, HE broke ...

What can I do? Why does my husband choose to associate with this bad company of friends? I'm feeling uncomfortable with this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - My husband's friends makes me feel uncomfortable. We just hit our 1yr anniversary and it seems throughout it all our major disagreement has been about the company he keeps. Majority of his friends are into fraud and bad business. I have checked...

How do I address this situation and this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I got involved with my friends boyfriend A , we still dating even now behind her back.i always feel awful about it.I tried to break up with him but its not working we always find a way to get back to each other. Now A and my friend S have beautifu...

I believe my sister has Boderline Personality Disorder

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - Hi there, I would love to hear from anyone who either has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or has some understanding of this complex mental illness. My sister suffers from BPD, which seemed to develop around the age of 15. We grew up...

My boyfriend insists on keeping in touch with his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - My fiancée still keeps in contact with his ex girlfriend by sms. He says that it's only messaging not talking and he only answers her messages. When i asked him why he did it he said he liked giving her hope and being a shit to her. Once when i a...