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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want to lose him but should we go on break for a month?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together very nearly 3 years. We went through a very bad patch, involving heavy arguments, often about petty things, but sometimes about my paranoid thoughts regarding him and other women. I'd often get ve...

My girlfriend is trying to control me and it's getting old.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Okay, so I have an amazing girlfriend... she is gorgeous, nice, and funny... but there is one thing that really gets on my nerves and I'm about sick of it. She is extremely controlling. I am in college, and she is still in high school and she sounds ...

What is going on with him? He's been very distant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I am in a dilemma. A guy I dated 15 years ago and I have reconnected. We ran into each other about six months ago. He said he and his wife were separated after seven years of marriage. We exchanged numbers and he would call me about once every ...

He wants to know every single thing I do and if I don't tell him he goes in a mood...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I need some help, my husband seems to want to know every little thing I am doing and when I don't tell him as I am busy doing something he will go out in a mood. He has been known to go to my mum and say all sorts so she rings me having a go at me. ...

I'm so confused about my feelings towards her and need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - I'm in a confusion since 8 months regarding whether I love this girl... I dunno from where I should start as a thousand things have messed up badly into each other. In short, I dumped her 5 months back as I wasn't sure about my feelings, I mean I d...

Do you think my boyfriend has a drink problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Do you think my bf has a drinking problem? I am quite worried about him for his own health, as well as our relationship because his drinking habits is placing alot of stress on it. We have been in a relationship for 5 months, and I...

Bisexual with both girlfriend & boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Ok... I'm a bisexual guy and though I have a girlfriend, I've also had a boyfriend for the past 4 months. They both knew about and were fine about each other, so that wasn't a problem and so for a while it all worked out well. I really liked ...

Can we just stay friends or it is always going to be "more thant that"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I have a massive prob which I really need help with please, please, please. Ok - this is long so I apologise. My marriage is ending cos of various reasons - but about 2 months ago, I got back in touch with an old friend who I haven't spoken t...

Still numb from past, don't know how to go on in the present or future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - hi im back. ive been on here before. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-lost-and-numb-to-the-massive-pain.html that is my last question and this is a update of sorts. i took everything i got out of that and just bottled it up. now i seem to act ...

Should I ask her out anyway after what she even told me tonight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - :RECAP: - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-ask-her-out-again-after-all.html Last week I asked if I should ask out an EX after 8 years of not seeing other and divorces on both sides. We have been talking for the last week and a half and...

I'm desperate! I don't want to lose her...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - I just joined this site, out of desperation. I really need help on this issue. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years now. I have always been jealous and a bit insecure, because she is very attractive and i'm not all that. Deep inside ...

How are we supposed to make ends meet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I have 3 boys 11,14,17..they are all good boys..but i cant feed them..they eat to much and me and my husband cant support them..we rent a home and work work work to feed and cloth them and provide for them but they are always hungry and need stuff ...

She questioned if I liked anyone else/I've probably been clingy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - So I've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. We hit it off right away but then one day during lunch at school i talked about a girl that i previously dated shortly with but many months ago. (Both of them know each other since middle-school.) ...

After being rejected how are you supposed to act like it doesn't hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - When you get rejected by someone. Someone that doesn't feel the same way for you. How are you supposed to act like it doesn't bother you? How are you supposed to act like nothing ever happened? God, I have been praying forever and talking to him to ...

Why is she not taking my calls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - There is this girl that i love, I Knew her for about 1 year but we are not very close or intimate because she lives in the boarden school, but when she completed her secondary education i started communication with her through phone only, this is ...

Not cheating but the handwriting is on the wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I need clarity, My b/f says he is not cheating but is the writing on the wall? Please PLEASE help!???!!? OK I have posted before but I can't seem to find clarity. My b/f who I have been with for 3 months and I have known him for 2 years. He moved in...

I feel like he's playing with my emotions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Here's what's happening... I really like this one guy. He's sweet and doesn't go after looks like most other guys I know. I first met him two years ago when I was upset and he gave me tissue to wipe my eyes with, I thought it was sweet of him. E...

She won't be with me because of my self destructiveness. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - me n my ex broke up a month ago cuz i become mentally adicted to aerosol cans after awhile we hung out again n we told eachother we loved eachother we had sex a few times and all the feelings came back but her parents hate me and wouldnt let her be ...

Can good looking women make men insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Everyone tells me that i am a very beautiful women and i have a good personality. I was in an abusive relationship for many years, but finally got out. My ex even used to worry about other men looking at me whilst we were out shopping! I am not a ...

Should I never speak to him? I've put up with enough of his mistreatment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do... I went out with a guy for 2 and a half years from the age of 16 until almost 19. He was 4 years older so 20 when we met. In short- i got kicked out of home a week after we got together and he had just been kicked out a ...

I just don't think he cares about me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Please help me with this because i feel so lost and hurt and the worst thing is i cant even talk to this guy about it. Thing is hes one of my best friends yet i really think he doesnt give a toss about me whats so ever! I may be taking this abit far ...

Am I a bad husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - I've been married for two months (too young to be having problems, no?). She's 32 and I'm 36. I consider myself a laid back kinda guy - so I really assess my position before I blow my cool. We have a 6 month old who we both love dearly. Before we ...