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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend of 4 years doesn't show he cares. Now I'm getting interested in someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I have had a boyfriend for the last 4 years. I love him and he says he loves me. But he never shows me any commitment. He works on the oilrigs so we do not see each other that much. He never rings me when he is away and when he is home he goes str...

She treated me like a boyfriend until she told me, "Sorry, I'm a lesbian!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I've recently been chasing a girl that I met a few months ago in a club. As soon as I met her, there was a connection. I felt a spark whenever we spoke and being around her made me feel so comfortable. We met up casually whilst we were out sepe...

My partner wants to have sex with younger woman-he's feeling like he's missing out on the fun.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - My partner and i have been together for 12 years. Just in the last year he has been saying to me he thinks he should go and have sex with younger woman as he feels he is being done in. He says he is getting older and has not had much fun, he ...

I trusted him to help a friend...then he left me for her! How do I stop the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Make me feel better ! I had been dating my now ex boyfriend for 3 years. One night at his house he recieved a phone call from a female friend who had discovered she was pregnant not by him, being the stupid person that I am and trusting that the...

Does he want me or his ex-girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Who's in love with the guy age 29. we've been together for three year now and we started living together early this year before i got a job. i stated working form april 2005 will i was working that company his boss ask if i'm happy were i was ...

She prefers sex after alcohol...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend prefers to have sex after she has drunk alcohol. she is then quite adventurous. we occasionally have it in the morning when she is sober. she tells me i'm the first person that she has had sober sex with in a long time. I am concerned ...

His ex is playing a part in our lives...should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Iv'e been with my current boyfriend for two months now( nothing really) and things are really good. hes a bit older than me, (im 25 he's 28-9) He first moved out from home when he was 20. He seems to have lived with every one of his serious ...

My bf is physically abusing me and has threatened to kill me. My kids and I need to get away...I am terrified-please help me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my son's dad for almost 4 years now. After we found out that we were having my son, he started getting verbally abusive, and eventually physically abusive. I have tried to leave him but I can't get away. Now that ...

Is she just scared of dating or...way too immature for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - ok im 20 years old and ive known this girl since she was like 13 now shes 17 and we've met up and are now dating i really like her and treat her better than i've treated most girls in the past. we've been together for about 3 weeks and im feeling a ...

We're dating but she's always too busy to get together! Is it time to throw in the towel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past few months. She says I am perfect and she doesn't want to lose me, but wants us to step back. It's been weeks and we still havent gone out together. I get shot down everytime I try to arrange something. ...

She said my bf cheated with her. He denied it... but wouldn't agree to confronting her with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6709 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. I was surfing this website one day and I wanted to see if he was on it too. It turned he was. I clicked on the person he had in his friend's list. While reading the things she posted, I ...

I am involved with someone else...but my ex bf wants me to take him back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I asked a question on what to do when I saw my boyfriend was making life a living hell for me. Now he's back telling me he's sorry and that I should take him back. The problem now is that, I have someone else and I don't know if I still have ...

Two men in my life...which do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I love 2 men and dont know what to do. Mike has been my boyfriend for the past 3 years on and off. There is 16years difference between us and he is an alcoholic. We have been through a lot and he is constantly letting me down. I love him and if he ...

I just want him to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My bf is studying intensely before a major set of exams 2-3 wks from now. My parents are visiting next wk and have wanted to meet him (never have before). Previously, my bf had agreed - even seemed interested to meet my parents. Today I made a...

What signals shows that a girl likes you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - How do you no when a girl likes you? What sort of signals do they give? How can i tel if they are playing or flirting....

I lied about my age...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am engaged to a wonderful 23-year old girl. I was married once before and have two young daughters from that marriage that she has become very close with. Well, at the time that I met her a year ago I was in a semi-successful music group that was ...

We became lovers but then she went back to her boyfriend...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - A friend of mine split with her boyfriend, i was there for her and we became closer, and eventually lovers. Her boyfriend then came back, asked her to marry her and she accepted. I'm very happy for her, but can't get her out of my head - the ...

He is affectionate and touches me...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6709 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - i have started to like my m8s boyfriends brother who is single- we have becum good m8s the last couple of months- we txt sumtimes but he hates the fone he barely uses it- im always the one to txt 1st- wen we see each other the weekend u no when ...

We fight over our collective future. We patch things up, but then we do it all again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I hope someone can help me out. My girl-friend and I have been in a relationship for many years now. A major problem in our relation is that we fight a lot, mainly about the future. She wants to concentrate on marriage etc while I want to ...

Is it right for me to want to get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Hi there, recently my ex, who i had a 2 year relationship with, came back into my life after a year without talking because his girlfriend had ended with him. We had a lovely time and we got on very well, ive offered to be his shoulder to cry on and ...

We had so much fun but then he said he didn't want to be with me...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I was with a guy for just over 2 months, we had the most amazing time together! I knew he felt the same and we laughed, joked, cuddles and kissed whenever we saw eachother. He told me he was falling for me, his parents loved and and his friends ...

Does he want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - hiya i have a problem. im 16 an i asked this other 16 year old boy out and he said no cos he fancied someone else. then a few weeks later he asked me out cos he said he was fed up wiv chasin the other girl around all the time. now we r girl friend a...

Can my dad put my boyfriend in jail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been dating for 3 years ... and i want to move in with him when i am 17..what do i do if my dad says he will put him in jail for me not being a virgin? can he do that if we have been together for 3 y...

My husband spends time with our female friends without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My husband goes out and spends time with our female single friends with out me, at night for hours. I am not a jealous type but they show him the sexy underwear they buy and fawn all over him. Is it fair for me to be upset with them for crossing ...

Does she really care enough to want me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I had a relationship with this girl,she told me one day,its over and i said "cool" even though i was hurt inside.She dated another guy but she has left her recenlty.she is now sending sms's and emails telling me she still cares.i realy still love ...

How do I get my ex-girlfriend to understand that we have a future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Hi. My X-Girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly three years. I was her first boyfriend and she was my second. Our relationship, as it has started when we were rather young (16) has seen both of us change considerably. Over the years, ...

We broke up but can we be together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - About 8 years ago, the father of my youngest son decided that 'there was no future for us together', this was after a 7 year relationship. Since then he has had some serious medical issues that he has been dealing with and i think has now resolved. ...

We aren't ready for children but what if she is pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend was two days late on her period last month, but she did menstruate. This still left me wondering though, because she is on birth control, and we have been able to time her periods almost to the minute. She is very regular. Anyways. She ...

How do I get back with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Im confused. My boyfriend of one year and i recently split. There was no real reason why we broke up - it was more of a spare of the moment decision out of anger over a stupid fight. Trouble is, now i deeply regret breaking up with him. We still see ...

How do I find out if he is committed to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but recently I haven't been happy with the relationship. And recently he cancelled on me to go climbing with a girl who's just a 'good friend' of his. I amn't worried he'll actually cheat, ...

My husband wants a DNA test done on our child-I feel humiliated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - What should I do if my husband goes ahead with a DNA test? Based on a joke years ago, now my husband wants to do a DNA test on our child. I feel a biggest insult/humiliation in my life. I know I can not prevent him to do the test. But if he goes a...

How do I know if my relationship is over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - How do I know if my relationship is really over? Should I just give up?...

How do I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Hi, basically I think I've messed up everything, and need a bit of advice. I've been going out with my gf for nearly 5 1/2 years, and all of a sudden last week she said 'things' were bothering her and needed to chat. She told me some 'home tr...

I want her but she pushes me away...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Hi, i'm Chris (17) an i have a female friend (17)called Sam, we are friends and have become very close lately, she has had a few problems and she pushes people away sometimes because she thinks people don't care about her, she is such a beaut...

I have no feelings for a guy I used to fancy but I can't convince this new guy...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - Dear agony aunt... I'm in need of some serious help,for the past few months i have been working with a new guy at work, i really enjoy his company and he makes me feel special,although i don't know if he feels the same way about me as i do about hi...

I want my ex back-but she's with another guy. Should I leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Any tips? My ex is with another man. I desperately want her back. I've told her this, she's listened to me. She's not told me no or yes. She keeps saying she needs time to live a little. I can't work out whether she's serious with this guy or whet...

Is it okay for your boyfriend to go to a nightclub?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - When a boyfriend takes a "guys night out" and the guys go to a stripclub, do they think any less of their girlfriend when they come back? Do they compare the girls they see to their girlfriend? Is there any good way to suggest to my boyfriend that ...

I poured my heart out - did I blow it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6705 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Everywhere I read it says not to let your ex-girlfriend know how you feel and that you still care. But what do I do if already told her everything and still want her back? Is it to late? Thanks...

My girlfriend hides our relationship at school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. This is my first relationship, my first love that I've ever had. But the problem is, she won't spend time with me at school. She tells me that she doesn't want her cousin (who ...

He doesn't want to know me now...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6722 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - i need help. i have been with my boyfriend for going on two years. we own our on buisness.(bar) we have a four month old daughter together.well since i have had her, he dont want to spend time at home with us he wants to be at the bar. i am very ...

Physically abusive bf wants me to move with him-away from my family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - right now i am really confused with my relationship between my fiance and myself, we have been together for a while now but with alot of problems and alot of arguing,just recently, i had to get a restraining order against him because he started to ...

Is she feeding me a line...to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I'm 26, she's 24. So..My "girlfriend" tells me that she needs to get her own life in order before she can take on the responsibility of a relationship. She says she still wants us to date, has strong feelings for me and that she's doing this to ...

Why doesn't she like to do 'relationship' things with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - Hello, I'll keep this as short as possible. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 16, we've been together about 7 months and things got rocky mid way but have settled. We argue trivially, but get over things quickly. Recently I had finally got her to admit ...

I love him but don't trust him...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Four weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a thid time. Says he didn't have sex with the girl but was wearing a condom. Turns out she said she no longer wanted to have sex with him but he claims that if he really wanted to have sex with ...

I'm not lying, but he won't listen to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I'll try and make this as short as possible, well I am involved with this guy my ex hes such a nice guy and we still love eachother very much, but, i went out last night and ended up out later than planned. Well he turned up and he and my friend ...

I feel disgust-my bf fantasizes about me having sex with an old man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 24. He said to me that he wants me to sleep with an old man 'because it is one of his fantasies'. He said he won't get jealous and that it's good for our relationship. I find his idea slightly creepy to say the least....

Should I wait or walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I am seperated from my husband and i have 2 kids.I have been seeing a man for over 2 years,he hasnt any children and he works away during the week and comes down to see me weekends.I want him to move in with me but he doesnt really want to because ...

I think I love him but its taken him so long to text me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - hi....im sure you dont want to hear this...but this is what the site is for...so this problem all started when i started fancying this boy in the year above from me at school. i fancied him for ages, and then my brother found out somehow and told...

He won't change but wants me to...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Please help. When I first met my boyfriend, it was hearts and flowers. I've since discovered that he can be critical, impatient, judgemental and school teacherish. He has a temper and doesn't cope well with stress. I stand up to him now (didn't ...

How do I make him want me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I want to do something special for my husbands birthday... I can count the number of times that we have had sex on one hand in the last year, and if I use both hands thats about how many times we have in the past 18 months. I'm really confused ...