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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and this is by far the best relationship I have ever had (and that includes two failed marriages). We are very much in love. The problem is she has gone away for a skiing holiday with her girlfriends for a ...

Bury 6 ft under or go another 6 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. This past year has been long distance (2 states over). I feel like he does not care about our relationship. He calls once a day normally when he's off work and about to head home so those conversations last ...

Cheating girlfriend what do I do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - i recently completly broke up with my son's mother that was with for about 3 years. i found out she cheated on me. i had a feeling something was going wrong with our relationship when she started going out to the bars with her single friends. i ...

Future baby daddy drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - hello world !please help me .i just found out I'm pregnant and ever since I told my bf I was he has been acting shady ,playing his game allday, nt getting into any convo about our future he dosent help me out around the house knowing I must take ...

He was unsatisfied now I'm unsatisfied what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. about 6 months ago he sat me down and we had a discussion about how our sex life was unsatisfying to him. he told me that he wasnt questioning our relasionship he just wanted to improve our sex life ...

Confused, upset and desperate for answers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I posted a question earlier on but I didn't get any replies so I'm trying again and really hoping someone can help me! My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago after 7 months together. We are both in our early twenties and we were ...

My boyfriend is manipulative and talks badly of me to friends. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - ok so i dont know what to do. Everytime me and my boyrfriend fight he always turns it around on me...he is very munipulative.We fight all the time and we live together. he tells me if i move out then he will break up with me. He says that all the ...

Should I confront him about my suspicions or am I just overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - Lately my boyfriend has been really moody and becoming more and more aggressive towards me. He says things like "I just want to fight you sometimes" and "do you always have to ask questions? you're so f*ing dumb." a friend pointed out to me that ...

It's heartbreaking thinking my son could be growing up around another man and thinking he's the dad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hi, Basically I'm going through a really tough time at the moment, I have been on and off with my partner over the past few months and I don't see us working any more even though I want us to be together. She is about 6 months pregnant and it ...

I need some help sorting out this friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hey I need some help sorting out this friendship...to make it work like it should be. Well we've been friends for nearly 2 years at first we were great but then things got weird. I dont quite understand but I feel im being treated very diffe...

Is my ex just trying to be my friend or is he crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am married and have two children. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Our marriage is great but can be a little better. Before I met my husband, I was with a man that was a cheat and very dominating. Beside all the flaws, he was great ...

Is he trying to break it off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I posted a question earlier but did not recieve any replies so I'm going to try again and make it more concise I'll start by saying that I'm 31 yrs old and basically in my first "real" relationship. I should also mention that I suffer from ext...

Help, I'm a sex addict and I think it's ruining me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Iv'e always had a high sex drive but it's getting ridiculous. I have been with my girl for 10 years now. We used to have more sex in the begining and it was great but now that she doesn't want so much anymore, I find myself turning to porn and i'm ...

Am I wrong for being happy that my daughter has a good relationship with her father?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I have been with the man I'm with now for 2 years and our relationship is ready to crumble. I have a daughter with my ex that I was with for 12 years and my current man can not handle our friend relationship. It hurts me deeply that he can't see ...

I have no idea how to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am in a serious dilehma. I haven't slept more than three hours a day for what seems ages, and I think about it every single waking moment and it's eating a lot of my energy and leaves me exchausted everytime. The problem is, I have been thinki...

My boyfriend has unresolved issues with his ex-fiancee!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for six months and I really love him. He's been hesitant to fully commit to me so I confronted him about it. He always tells me he loves me and cares about me a lot. He said he hasn't been able to commit because he has ...

My pregnant partner and I keep rowing. Could it be down to her hormones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Good morning, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in 7 months time. We are going through a rocky patch at the moment, maybe its her hormones I'm not sure. We nearly broke up last night because things are getting in our way. She thinks e...

My ex wanted me to make more effort to contact him so I did, now I havent heard back from him in 3 days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Help:( My ex boyfriend who i love so so much recently got back in contact with me. I cut contact with him because I really wanted him back,and I still do. He initiates all the contact that has taken place over the last few weeks...phonecalls, texts, ...

I don't think my girlfriend is ready to commit to this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and its been the best 10 months of my life. I am 18 years old and she is 17. The problem is, for the past 5 weeks she has been burying underlying problematic thoughts in her ...

What did I do to make this guy back away? Everything seemed so perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I was in a bad car wreck in April i had just broke up with my ex boyfriend about three weeks later. The relationship i was in before was horrible very abusive. I almost died thats how bad the wreck was. Once i was able to see my friends, i met ...

Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...

I still have strong feelings for my boyfriend but all this family drama is too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - This summer has been a lot of fun with my boyfriend but now that we have been spending "too much" time with one another, according to the adult they are very agitated. Now neither his parents nor my parents are cool about our relationship and caused ...

He has always kept his ex as an easy backup..this worries me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I'm sorry if this question is long... Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this... I've been in a committed relationship with a man for about 3 months now. I have tried to avoid the "ex" conversation up until recently, becaus...

What are the chances hes seeing me just to get back at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I went on a few dates with a guy and then decided I couldn't pursue things with him as my ex had come back and started causing me problems (I never got back with him, touched him or invested time in him - he was just harrassing me and wanted to ...

I feel really ugly and can't make my boyfriend understand

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Ok, I apologise beforehand because I truly need to rant, I've been having an awful week regarding this problem! I hate it when people say to ugly people "just accept yourself, love yourself... if you don't feel it, just fake confidence!". IT...

I'm doubting myself. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Need more advice after another question asked here... I'll sum that up. I had a one-night stand kind of thing with someone. It was an accident. I tried to stop things but he was pretty pushy and each times things progressed it kind of felt too...

Is this just a nice way of him breaking up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to break up for now. Here is the deal. We went to the same college for one semester and it was amazing. We did everything together. Then I transfered to a school about 2 hours away and the first semester was hard but it work...

Do I stay or do I leave? I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi All, Well im a young sixteen year old girl. I have (well, had) in my opinion a pretty amazing boyfriend. We broke up the end of July because of a few problems. He's done some things that I was not happy with, It wasnt the fact that he did thos...

We met last week, and now suddenly she's single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hey everyone! Thanks for the reply from a 'male reader'. This follows... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-she-didnt-say-im-meeting-my-boyfriend.html I've just heard that she's broken up with her bf, I'm not being up my own,or for 1sec...

Was this verbal abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I have been married for about one year, and we went out for about one year, so we have been together for two years. I have been depressed anyways, Idk why maybe because I am going to be graduating soon and this is a life change for me, graduati...

He's perfect for me apart from the sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I had been dating and intimate with the same man for over a year. He is quite a bit older than me. The sex is over-the-top, yet I backed out of our engagement due to some issues of his that seem to be unresolvable (financial, family, baggage, etc). ...