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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I saw my ex kissing someone else and it's hurting me like hell...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm Marco, this is what happened to me. This saturday I found my ex in a bar, I said hi to him and he said hi to me with an attitude, I was with my best friend and my ex hates him, I really don't know why, when we were dancing he was even ...

He won't give me his phone number but calls me his property...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - 4 months ago, a much younger man I met in real life came after me full guns. He won't give me his phone number, but doesn't call me either. We mostly communicate by chat or email. He claims he is divorced with shared custody. He claims he...

He likes to cuddle but not have sex. What's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Long story short... 34 year old attractive female, divorced with kids got into an amazing relationship with an incredibly attractive 37 year old man over 2 years ago. Amazing sparks in EVERY area and life was great....no, no...PERFECT. We are now ...

Does her story make sense?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend who I have been dating for over a year came into town this weekend. We have not seen each other for over a month. She came into town with her friend a gay guy I have never met. She told me she would call me when they got into town and ...

Is this man trying to be my friend or is he just crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I am married and have two children. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Our marriage is great but can be a little better. Before I met my husband, I was with a man that was a cheat and very dominating. Beside all the flaws, he was ...

My husband will be having a baby with the woman he cheated on me with! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband since we were sophomores in high school. We married after he graduated college (I never got the chance to go to college because I was busy working so I could keep a roof over our heads). Neither of us were kicked out of our ...

Men: Would you feel justified feeling the same way I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - So I just recently found out that I could be the father of a 5 year old little girl from a 5 year old ex relationship. She dropped said bomshell on me several days ago, just bringing it up in our convo. She's on her way to my location soon so a ...

My husband tells his family every detail about our private life. Should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - My husband of 26 years ago continuously tells everything to his family what happens in our life. Then the family becomes judgmental of our life. This is very humiliating for me. And we don't even live in the same country. They never tell their own ...

His family hates me, is the only solution for him never to see them again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We had both filed for divorces prior to meeting each other due to our spouses infidelity. He has 2 children w/ his ex and had been w/ her since high school (almost 15 years). My ex is ...

Why doesn't she want anyone to see us being affectionate in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - I have been dating a woman for over a year, she is a mom of three. Her kids are 17, 20, 25. In the beginning, she would show affection in public, in the car, anywhere with no mind to anyone, thing etc. We even got busy outside her oldest daughters ...

He's got feelings for another girl, but wants to take things slow with me... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. We've had a good relationship, had our ups and downs, but that's normal. Recently he became all distant and after I continuously asked him what was wrong he admitted hes got feeling for ...

I think I love my boyfriend, but I'm dying to experiment with a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and just about to move away to university and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 21. The thing is i'm very confused at the minute. I think i love my boyfriend - but i don't think i'm completely happy with ...

Is he ending it? Very confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I got an email from a guy I have been seeing briefly saying that bad things have happened to him lately with his job and other things. He didnt go into detail. I have only seen him 3 times (the last time we had sex), we both are in other relation...

Is it worth contacting him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - My b/f and me split up 5 months ago after 3 years. He said he 'couldn't do this anymore' and I was so hurt. I still love him and he was also a big part of my 8 year old daughter's life. I received a parcel last week with a few objects that I left ...

Can anyone tell me what he wants? (Guys opinions especially needed)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hi guys. So I really need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been distraught without him. I cut contact owever, because I read it was the best thing to do if I ever wanted to get him back. He got back in contact ...

I've found pictures and messages on his mobile but I cant confront him because I was sneaky about checking his phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - my partner has an ex which he is in touch with as they have a daughter together .. i have been into his mobile phone without him knowing and found a pic of a female ... why ?.. i also found a message from another female . i dont think he is cheating ...

Will my girlfriend and I ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I have a question to ask. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We were best friends for 2 years before we got together. She said she liked me as soon as she set her eye on me but overall we were best friends first. Talked about eve...

Will he ever speak to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Will he ever speak to me again? Was with a man for over a year - on and off for the last 6 months. A year and a bit. Recently found out I am pregnant in July. He didn't take the news well at first and freaked out via txt. I found that weird and s...

Is he worth waiting around for to see if our relationship will work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Recently, as in 2 days ago, my boyfriend and i had a massive fight, because he keeps calling chicks names like "hun" and "babe" on his bebo, and he was mad at me for bringing it up again because we once had an argument about the same thing. He ...

Does he regret breaking up with me in the heat of the moment?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - My ex bf broke up with me a month ago. Since then he has been messaging me quite a few times throughout the week, calling me etc, saying how he I am beautiful and how he still cares about me and that he is wanting to see how I am etc. And just ma...

The lack of quality time is putting strain on our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I am 25, my boyfriend 27. We've known each other 20 months, lived together 10 months. Recently he has been very depressed - unhappy in his job and feeling, in his own words, he lives "a hollow existence". Both his birthday and the death of one of ...

The father of my children doesn't understand why I'm so hurt by his behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Right this is going to be a lil long and I do apologise. Basically ive been with my man for years we have three beautifull babies together but I dont know what to do next. This relationship has been anything but easy but I love him dearly and know ...

Am I right not to want her at my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hi I am getting married next may. Next week we are having our engagement party. We have been together for 2 yrs. I have not met his 2 best friends yet as they live interstate. They will be coming to the engagement party. One is his best mate who...

Old issues still have me trapped

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now, been "together" for longer. Whilst I love him, there are issues about him that bug me. I need to confront him about old issues. Stuff that doesn't happen anymore, but that I am af...

I just want to try and understand my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I guess I should start with a bit of background. . . I am rather new to published material forums etc relating to relationships. I used to think therapy, counseling, etc, was for people who could not handle things themselves, but now ...

I feel like a slut after a one-nighter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Just recently I had a one-night stand kind of situation. But it was somewhat tangled. I went out with some people I know from high school because I'd been a homebody with no friends. When I went out the other person and I ended up alone and we were ...

Should I marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, Been in a relationship with a woman now for about 10 months. Everything up until now has been pretty fantastic in the relationship. We both seem to give each other all the love we need. For me personally, i feel she constantly meets...

I thought he really liked me but then I found out he has a wife and kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - i have felt so empty lately i guess. the reason is because i like this guy named Kent. Kent is 28 years old. I am 18 years old. Kent used to work at my school as a security guard. when i was in 9th grade i saw him but never paid any attention to ...

Do you think the relationship might not be progressing because he is inexperienced with women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I had given up on this guy liking me, but now I find out he hasn't dated anyone before, it may throw new light on things. I thought he wasn't that interested because: - he sometimes wouldn't reply to texts or call me for a week or more, then he'd ...

I don't want to be unhappy in my life, nor do I want to lose the "one"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, Please help me. I have been having serious doubts about my relationship for some time, but instead of acting on these feelings and breaking off the relationship I worry that perhaps I'm giving up the love of my life....

He took me to prom and he seemed to really like me, but ever since he has been acting really distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hey, guys; I met him at my mom’s job a year ago. From the beginning he would make conversation and smile and look at me a lot. Sometimes I wouldn’t talk much and he would as my mom if it was cause I didn’t like him. Time went by and I had to go to...