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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Sometimes I feel she see's right through me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I just wish she loved me. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 children. I love her, in love with her, she isn't. It's reaching obsession point now and I'm craving affection and her love. I want to marry her but she won't marry me. I adore her ...

14 year old needs help leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I'm in a abusive relationship and want to get out but i don't know how. I'm 14 and my bf is 18 i have been with him for a year now and have been beaten up 7 times i haven't told anybody about him or what he does and i cant because of a age ...

Is she ignoring me to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I don't know what to do and it has me confused my gf for a few months used to want to talk all the time and now i cant even get hold of her ever. She just went from hot to cold almost over night, i feel like she is ignoring me because as first she ...

Boyfriend went to stripclub without telling me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year. i am a bit of the jealous type but not controlling. basically, i was went through his emails without his permission and i found a trail of emails where he went to a strip club with his friends. ...

My boyfriend is not as affectionate with me as he was with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be roman...

Haven't been attracted to my husband since the baby arrived. But I really like his friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi there I have been married for 3 years my husband and I have known each other as friends for 11 years when we decided to get together in 2005 we moved in together in 1 month got pregnant in 4 months and married in 9 months. Sex was great the best ...

He says to suck it up! am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi,I am simply seeking an outside opinion to a situation with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has a friend that I have yet to meet in person but I have had the opportunity to witness communication via yahoo chat between the two of them and find th...

He needs time, what does he mean?

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14 September 2009 (F) - I had a fight with my boyfriend he broke up with me and he switched off his phone for 2 days. He finally picked up the phone yesterday. I tried to get him back. He wanted to break-up with me. Says he's doing fine without me and doesn't want a ...

I quit my job! Do I have to show someone else how to do things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I have handed my notice in at work having worked there for almsot 8 years as I cannot stand being picked on indirectly-anymore although I havent got another job to go to-unwise I know but I couldnt stand it after the last straw when one of the staff ...

I really believe we are meant to be together; has anyone got any advice on how I can show her how great we can be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - My fiance ended our 3 year relationship last month. We had the most fantastic relationship. Yes, we had little bumps along the way (as everyone does I'm told). However, this year I let her down in areas that are most important to her. I'm talking ...

He called off our wedding, should I give him time to clear his head, or is he stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - My fiance broke up with me 3 months before our wedding. He said 90% of our 3yr relationship is great but there was this 10% of uncertainty. He left the country for 1 month to 'sort out his thoughts'. When he came back,started calling and told me ...

Please help me understand my true feelings...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...

What can I do to overcome this shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - How come when I see girls I wish to go out with, or get to know better, I have trouble talking to them? What can I do to overcome this shyness? ...

My sexual and drinking behavior is out of control and is now frightening me. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hello all. I am an attractive female with a nice ok regular life who does not have sex very much by choice, but then when I do, I tend to go nuts, and am worried about my behaviour, as I am indulging in sporadic risky, drunken threesom...

Anxiety problems...

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14 September 2009 (F) - I suffer from anxiety and have done for the majority of my life, I have spent a lot of time worrying! I have been on anti-depressants for a long time of my life and they have never done me much good, and recently after a relationship break up (4 ...

My passionate feelings are disappearing for her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - How would you act? I have a wonderful woman, lovely, sexy, intelligent. She knows how to please me, she has a lot of love in her, she is honest. We are a few years together and have still an intensive sexlife, what we both need. We have a go...

I was terrible to her and now she wants space but I want to make things right!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - i am a guy who is in a relationship, that is six years old, and recently my girlfriend told me that she had enough of me, she wants to break up with me, because of all the abuse and painfall things that i have said to her in the past, and it is ...

She was hot but now cold and I don't know what happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl Louise 23 for 4 dates. She's a barmaid at our local pub and after chatting to her one night after a lock in we got on really well. I saw her the week after and asked if she wanted to go out sometime and she said yes...

Her past with men I know is ruining us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I work in a small company, with a ration of only eight other men including myself. I met my girlfriend at a work related function, as she herself use to work there until only a few months before I started. I sensed a curious vibe from my male col...

I put so much effort into her because I love her! Should I push through this pain a bit longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with this girl for about 2 years already. I love her to death. I have changed my ways for her to make her happy. My everyday is to make sure she smiles and laughs but at the same time im hurting. I am afraid to talk t...

What to do when you have given it your all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I am a 35yr old women who has always wanted nothing but happiness and I am a true beliver of that god answer all questions but you first have to give him your all. I have prayed for a good man and the whole nine yards so I thought the only way to ...

I left my shy, dull wife for a wildcat. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Left my wife of 15 years because we grew apart and it seemed like we just wanted different things in life. The thing is, my wife has always been painfully shy. Always hates crowds, or parties or bars. I live for the crowds and the parties and the ...

Was he that freaked out that he said this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - so i just turned 16 and my bf is 18. we have an amazing relationship tho it is still in the bieginning stages. only about 3.5 months into it. we are together everyday and are extremely affectionate. the problem is, he is a senior and will be ...

He never says he loves me or does romantic things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I am so discouraged. B/F of 4 years rarely makes me feel special or does romantic things. I've known him for a number of years before we got involved, so I know he's capable of doing sweet things for the other women he's been involved with, but for ...

I feel stuck with an impossible choice: him or friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I am in a long term relationship with an older man. The age hasn't been an issue until recently. I am in my mid 20s and he is in his mid 40s. We had led a quiet life together which we both liked. I had a bit of social anxiety and was unwell for a...

I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice. My b/f never compliments me on how I look. If I get my hair cut. He never says a word. If I come home with a new colour. Nothing. I can ...

How can I regain her trust especially now that the woman I cheated with is pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I am asking this question so some of the viewers would reply, I met this girl in a bar one evening after having 4 long island, I ask her to meet me near the bathroom were it was private, she got up and walk back to the bathroom and I wa...

He'll start an argument over anything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I got with my boyfriend around 9 months ago, We were absolutly amazing, he treated me like a princess and he really did seem special, he wanted to spend every waken moment with me aswell as i did with him. We have now got to the stage of 9 month...

I love my boyfriend but he doesn't make me happy

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14 September 2009 (F) - I need some help. I love my boyfriend very much and been with him for 3 years, but he doesn't make me happy. He has an attitude on him just now where he seems to be negative with me or moaning at me all the time. I dont feel that he treats me ...

I can't cope alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - To make a long story short: I regrett my decision on becoming pregnant. It's been four years now and I continue to suffer my regrett. I am a single mother, went through abandonment when my child was six months old...how could he? Went through a ...

Am I being insane, or is he comparing me to an ideal that I will never be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - So, I recently got engaged to a man that I love so dearly, and I know that he loves me too..Here's the background: it took us around 7 or 8 months before he actually committed, once he did, we were very serious and he has "never looked back"...but ...

How do I get more control in this relationship? Don't tell me to leave him, I love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - im 15 about to be 16 and my bf is 18 turning 19 in a few months. i really do love him. we have been through hell and back twice together. but even since the beginning of our relationship we have brought out the absolute worst in each other. im a ...

I feel restless and want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I recently spent sometime away with my b/f to savage our relationship. Out of the 14 days - I saw him for 3. He has been back 7 days in the UK and I have not seen him. He called and I called back a few days later - he was ill. I feel its time...