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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend didn't add me as a friend on FB, but he did add her. It's either her or me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about a year now and at first the relationship was good, but now it's turning sour. I’m having a problem with him emailing his ex girlfriend as well as she emails him and he has her on his face book and I se...

He hates my daughter, I hate his porn, but he does have his good aspects!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I have a real problem!!..I separated from husband of 17 yrs approx 5yrs ago..i then did the 'wild child thing!!' for approx 3 yrs ie. did one night stands etc.. but eventually settled down to just living on my own with my 2 girls and doing 'what was ...

I've tried talking about it, changing myself, personality and everything about 10 times over and nothing seems to work, ever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I use to have the best relationship ever with my boyfreind and now it all seems to have gone wrong. I use to have plans to move in together, get married (well, civil partnership) and all live happily ever after. At 23 these feelings were new to me, ...

My boyfriend cheated on me and I broke up with him, but I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Me and my ex-boyfriend has been with each other for a year and two months. The beginning of out relationship was enjoyable, but before I know it he started being controlling and telling me what I couldn't wear around him and always accusing me of ...

Rejected because she 'doesn't do' commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I have harboured feelings for a girl for over a year and a half and after finally finding enough courage to ask her out, I was rejected because she 'doesn't do commitment.' I'm not angry with her or anything because we've been best friends for two ...

Will he forgive me for my comment about his mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I made a comment about my boyfriend's mom that shes fat. I was so stupid n rude :( now he is mad at me for almost 2 weeks. will he ever forgive me? :cries:...

He kicked me, put his foot on me and now expects me to come back and 'not complain like a typical girl'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I really do not know what to do anymore. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and he suffered a serious stint of depression where he would take things out on me, simply because I was there. I have noticed the effects that his words h...

Everyone expects us to marry, but I can't stand sex with him anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for 15 years, everbody is expecting us to get married, my problem is sex is no longer pleasurable with him, i cant even bear him touching me and am thinking of how to make sex pleasurable....

Too many problems at work and home right now, and I'm tempted to contact my ex for comfort!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I will go crazy if i don't air my feelings right now as no one around me has the time to listen. I feel so down today. The company I work with is giving me a promotion which is a very big responsibility and I feel that I am not ready for it. Th...

He won't give me an orgasm because my semen smells too strongly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm a 22-year-old gay guy, and I have an extremely difficult decision to make. My partner and I are on the verge of breaking up. The reason for our break-up has to do with our sex life. For the two-and-a-half years we've been together, my ...

She says she loves me, but her committment is non-existent...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Give me your thoughts on this one... About 8 months ago, I started dating this girl I have known about 4 years. She gave me the signs she was attracted to me when I first met her. I tried to get her to go out with me at that time, and twice ...

I'm a horrible person to my b/f and need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - HI, here is my dilemna. i think i have trust issues and i cant get over them. the father was a bit of an ass years ago and i suppose even now isnt being the best to me. now i have this great boyfriend who is super is standing by me, wants to be ...

We fight and fight and fight... and love.... and fight, and fight some more - Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, long message coming up. Im feeling quite depressed, so i'm probably going to sound like someone blabbering senselessly. Please read my message and try to make sense. Ive been in a very loving relationship for about a year no...

How to deal with life when you think your mom is having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - i have a very happy family, parents never got into a fight and i know they love each other very much from the way they interacted. i think my mom is having an affair because i don't have a solid evidence on it. i noticed it 3years back. my ...

Our relationship has gone stale after only 4 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together since May. Its not a long time, but we really like each other, have similar personalities and have been spending a lot of time together (4-6 nights a week on average) so it feels like we've been together for much much ...

I'm worried I might be wasting time on this man, I really want to settle down with him but he seems to be unsure of what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34, he is 39. Neither of us has children, although he has been married before when he was in his early twenties. Their breakup was amicable, they had grown apart. At the...

Will the guilt over cheating on my girlfriend ever subside?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years now and I truly love her. She is the girl of my dreams and she feels the same about me. The thing is I cheated on her about 3 years ago with one of her friends. I really don’t know why I did it as I was ...

Will he be back after he calms down?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Have been on and off with a man for the last 6 months, we have been together for little over a year. He kept sporadically breaking up via txt and then he would get lonely and come back to me. Its been like this pattern for quite some time. I am now...

His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...

Should I end my relationship now I know that my partner would leave me if I couldnt have children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (we've been together 4 years) has started mentioning having children together. I am not sure at this stage as we have spent little time together over the last year as he emigrated. As I am due to move out to be with him next month the ...

Am I being unreasonable for not wanting him to stay at this woman's house after she declared her love for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hello. This isn't so much of a question as a need for reassurance. My boyfriend, of 5 and a half years, has been friends with a girl (mainly via the internet) for about 12 years. He has been to stay with her a few times, and she lives far away. When ...

Will relationship doubts go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Okay so, heres my story. Ive been with my girlfriend for 10 months. And about a month ago i litterlly woke up and felt like i lost my feelings for her. One day i was soo in love with her and loved her with all my heart. now i question if i do. i ...

Long Distance Relationship - Girlfriend acting weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship since 3 years and 2 months. In the beginning, everything was so blossomy and absolutely superb. She didn’t have enough very good friends as such, and she always used to come to me, and discuss ...

Girls, do you make eye contact with guys you are not interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - like when you pass some one in a store or at a beach walk also if some one you thought was say ugly or creepy and he started to look you in the eyes would you make eye contact untill he looks away or would you quickly look away first well that's all...

My boyfriend has premature ejaculation problems, and a small penis. Should I break up with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Girls: does your boyfriend have premature ejaculation? Mine (who is 25) only last seconds in bed, in fact sometimes he's cum before I've taken his shorts down (I can feel the wet through his pants) or even as I'm putting it in - its depressing and ...

Communication problems with my ex. Should I contact him or let him contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I am scared to communicate to my ex,coz we never bloke up as per say,it was just my ex just stopped to communicate to me all of a sudden with no explaination,tried to call and sms but he never responded to any of that later I also stopped ...

Why can't he spend his time with me? Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - i have date with this guy for some time. However, he is really lack of time to spend with me. The last time we went out was about 2 weeks ago, and last friday i texted him ask him out on next sunday, but he didnt reply until today (tuesday). For th...

I slept with him, but is he still interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Slept with him, but is he interested? I recently met a guy i get on really well with. I have seen him 3 times over a period of 2 months as he works away a lot. We keep in touch through email and occassional texts, but thats it. I dont want to be ...

Best friend/maid of honor has slept with many of friends and I can't replace her for wedding but its really uncomfortable now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I am getting married in 6 months. I just found out that my maid of honor/best friend has slept with my brother (on my birthday) and she still has not told me after 3 months. She has also slept with several of my good guy friends who no longer want ...

Boyfriend left me at the scene of an accident

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - When you take your boyfriend to do somthing that you didnt want to do in the first place and then you get in an accident that wasnt your fault and then your boyfriend leaves you at the scene of the accident disregarding you your car and the ...

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex wit...

Ladies, do I just not understand how women think? Men, am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Here goes all on a plate for the last time so I would be greatfull of honest and good advice not told how we done wrong and what we done wrong. So here it is I was seeing someone I was working with, we were so like best friends that much I woul...

Falling in and out of love... daily!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Some days I am more in love than words could convey, other guys I could give a shit less. I am clinically bi polar so this may be a factor, but however, I worry that I may be in the wrong situation. please help -iydm...

My girlfriend has a suitor in our long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Should I be concerned with my girlfriend having a guy actively pursuing her? My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I recently started law school, thus making our relationship long distance by 2 hours. This is the week synopsis...