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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going ...

NOT in love with him, do it for the sake of two little ones

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my significant other for three and a half years now, we have a two year old and one on the way. I have never been in love with him, it was definitely infatuation and loneliness in the beginning. We have split up several times ...

Getting over a girlfriend's sexual past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 months now, im 19 and she is 21, I live in a small town and she has had sex with a lot of people I know in the past, I accept this as I do live in a small town, anyway I only found out ...

Red flags all around but girlfriend insists that nothing is wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I have a big issue and need alot of help. I would like to say thank you for reading this ahead of time as it will quite long but required in order to understand the issue. So, thank you. I have been seeing my gf for 5yrs or so, granted within ...

My wedding was supposed to be in 2 weeks but fiance has walked out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I have been engaged to a wonderful man, we made a year this past Sunday. We were having some issues-arguments-but eventually it calmed down and we've been fine. Kisses, hugs, and love making included. Even cuddling at night. He woke up a few days ...

Boyfriend said all his exs were better looking than me +im not beauty queen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 7years and when we first started dating he made me feel so sexy and desired I knew that his past gfs had been skinny and stuff and everyone said I wasn't his type he likes barbies but we ended up together and he ...

I was trying to leave my BF, and now he seems to be behaving, but I don;t trust it is genuine? What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hi all. Thanks for stopping by!! your opinions would be most welcome. I have been with my BF for 16 months, It has been a very hardwork relastionship, as he is moody and has alot on his plate, but I always loved him no matter what, and tried ...

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...

What would I need to do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - So I'm 16... There's this girl that I have known since first grade. This is a long story, but I really need to know what my chances are with her, and what I need to do to get her back. Story: When we were in first grade, she liked me... alot, and I ...

Is he in love with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I need some advice badly. My boyfriend was very sexualy active with me when we got together, we held hand, hugged all the time, kissed all the time. all the things that lovers do, in the begining, but There a side to this, when we got together I was ...

I want him to realize how bad his current relationship is, if nothing else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Ok. So when I was about 13, I met a guy. I thought he was around my age...but as it turned out he was 22. So, I didn't think of him in that fashion. BUT he was still a cool guy, so I continued to hang out with him. He quickly became the best friend ...

He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has ...

Was it such a big deal that I lied to my b/f's mom about a job interview?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Just recently I was supposed to go to an interview for a retail department store, but I cancelled it because I was too lazy.. : Anyways my boyfriend's mom asked me how it went and...

I'm pregnant, b/f on other side of the world and I'm worried he's seeing his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys...i am desperate... I am with my boyfriend for a year now and we love eachother alot although we had problems in the start as he had a girlfriend when we met and had to break up with her. Well we fell so deeply in love that 2 months a...

My ex and I keep arguing and then making up with sex. Would this work in a marriage?

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30 May 2012 (M) - Am been for this relationship for more than 3 years,..but recently, after having sex, I always find one way or the other to have a misunderstanding with her , or she having a mis understanding with me., we quarrel for up to 1 week, then we make up ...

When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

Am I right to be upset with my boyfriend for masturbating 3 times a week when we only have sex once or twice a week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to masterbate 3 times a week even tho he has a girlfriend? And say your having sex once maybe twice a week. Does the girlfriend have a right to upset with him? ...

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ...

My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ...

Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really ...

He sent a text saying 'sweet dreams to the sexy one'. What would you make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and i always txt each other good nite and it's usually cute and personal,but last nite he texts nite nite sweet dreams he always says those words first, but then he added, to the sexy one. Maybe i'm being silly but that t...

Terrible relationship with my mother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Im 16 years old and I really hate my mother. Me and her constantly argue and she makes me feel like shit. I am the baby of the family and have triplet girl sisters who are 24 and a brother thats 36. My parents are both 57. Me and my mother really ...

I want to escape my abusive, drug addicted brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I can't take it anymore, I hate coming home.. My brother is a drug attict, thief and a liar. All he ever does is hurt me. He steals my money, takes my things, does drug deals infront of me. Im only 16, i shouldnt have seen any of this. i see his ...

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known eachother for years. We finally started a relationship that was almost 2 years now. I took a break I wanted it. It didn't feel like a break at all. We were still sleeping together. He wasn't giving me space. So I ...

He blames me for all of our relationship troubles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Well here goes it all started in march 2011 I met this truly wonderful guy well at least at that time I thought he was. we first slept together when I was 17 then by june of that year we split up I saw a dramatic change in him. he was very bad temp...

Do I take a risk and do what he is asking me to do? Or do I follow my head and my heart and not move in for a while longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to approach the issue of 'progressing' in a relationship with my bf. He's nagging me to move in with him, and I don't want to yet. We've been together 20 months, and have been pretty happy the whole way through ...

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big d...

Is my boyfriend controlling or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend acts like my father... if we spend time apart, he will often ask a lot of questions. I think he worries about me more than he should, because he is insecure and because I am so much younger than him. If I go ...

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to ...

B/f has asked me to leave him alone because he has thinking to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has asked me to leave him alone as he has some thinking to do? I'm not really sure what is going on with him at all. He has gone quite funny since we had a bust up a few weeks ago and I am wondering if he is trying to break...

I already have a partner but have a friend who wants a friends with benefits relationship with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. i need some help. I am a mother of two, in a great relationship with a guy i adore. we have been together 8 years, and the kids are from a previous relationship. so heres where my problem begins, we have a mutual friend and recent...

Have I got a problem with commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I was in a terrible relationship which ended years ago. It was traumatic but I thought I had moved on. Since then I've dated lots of people. I've always said "yes" to any date just to spread my net wide and make sure I don't turn into a recluse b...

Should I be Jelous of my Girlfriends clients ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My Girlfriend of 1yr is a cute and attractive Asian woman and is in a field of work that is 95% Male dominated. She is in business for her self and meets male clients/business owners on a regular bases. Most of the time she meets during day time...

I don't want my boyfriend to be insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I don't usually ask advice to people I don't know, but this is the exception because I really need help on this. It's gonna be long and I'm writing this from my iPod so ya...okay so the thing is, I've been going out with this guy for two months, and ...

The ultimate "one-sided relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - I'm a 35 year old male and Financial consultant. My girlfriend is 25. We have a beautiful two year old daughter and have been dating and living together for the past three years. She traveled to NY three times since we began dating. Hasn't worked ...

My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and ...

We both want to get married one day, but I'm worried that if I move in with him he will become too comfortable and never marry me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So I have this question about marriage. I have been with my bf for 2 years. We love each other and get along pretty well. We decided we wanted to move in together and are actively looking for a place together. It is all extremely ex...

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...

Should I stay in this sexless relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years and we have a 5 month old baby. We also haven't had sex since I was about 6 months pregnant making it 8-9 months total with no intimacy excluding greeting hugs and kisses. While pregnant he said he wanted to ...

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I ...

Should I believe my girlfriend when she says she 'loves me forever'? I'm worried she is still in love with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My gf says she loves me 'forever' LOL, not sure if i should believe it or not. Reason i ask is beacuse she just got out of a 4 year relationship, APROX 1 YEAR AGO, and we got togather about 7 months ago, she thinks her ex was just a lust ...

Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...

I'd love to win my ex back, but then part of me would love to move on from her once and for all. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Ok, I'll start with one thing: it was a long distance relationship. We met on the Saint Valentine's day in 2011 and had some amazing time together. She's from Canada and she was amazed by Russia, and I happened to be from Russia. It was all nice ...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard tim...

My husband's adult son's treat him terribly, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My husband's two adult sons treat him horrible. They're spoiled and abusive. For years I've made excuses for them because their mother committed suicide the year before I met him. I feel like I've helped them work through some of their grief but ...

She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. ...

I'm in love with my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 May 2012 (?) - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...