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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His reaction to my unintended pregnancy has made me doubt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm not exactly sure what i'm asking for here, but i couldn't find any 'answers' from any other source, so i thought i'd give it a go. I have just experienced a miscarriage. I think the most part came yesterday but i have been having a lot of ...

Pregnant, no job, no money, no home of my own, and no boyfriend... I need advice and support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm in the bigest mess ever and i've never felt so vuerable and helpless in my whole life :-( I'm 32 weeks pregnant leaving me with 8 weeks left until my due date. I'm homeless as iv'e only just plucked up the courage to leave my boyfriend of 6 ...

Does he even love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if its me lately we have been arguing alot we have been together for almost 2 yrs and we live together and we have a child. I love him with all my heart. But he thinks he does'nt need to tell me where he is at all the time. I only ask...

Should I get her back? Or will karma do it for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - This is a bit of a mean one. A girl who is supposed to be a friend slept with my ex within days of us calling quits. I know she had been after him for the entire time of our relationship (3years) even though she had a doting bf. Should I get...

How do I dump him gracefully? Ignore him or tell him straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted this yesterday and got 2 replies I am so thankful for. But I need more advise from our dear aunts. I am still confused... How should I turn down my ex without with grace? Here's the background. I have realized now he has played ...

If he really cares about me and wants to be with me for xmas wouldnt he do anything for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend 21. Its been 1 year and a half we are together but more and more we experience problems and more often we fight. Even if i know it might be early i always keep thinking of the future and imagining my life wit...

We don't spend as much time together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, from the day i met him he has always been very busy with work, and i have always accepted that and more or less taken a back seat to it. i would see him at weekends, sometimes fortnightly if h...

I love him but what can I do to help out our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years now. We've had issues in the past but for the most part get along. He is an alcoholic but I have accepted that. I guess I've come to terms with it because he only drinks excessively at ...

How can I tell if my boyfriend still loves his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend he says he loves me but deep down in side i think he still loves his ex how do i know?...

I never get included in things with "friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I am in my last year at high school. throughout high school I have always hung out with the same group and considered them to be my friends. However, whenever they hang out outside of school they never invite me. They usually go to "Steve's" ...

Why would my ex want to see me this weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - For five years my boyfriend and I were pretty happy. We had a few problems, difference in lifestyles (that i thought could be sorted out) and we eventually split up. We tried to make it work but I think once he planted the seeds of doubt he couldn't ...

Cheating and lying but I'm still drawn into him... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm addicted to a guy who has a past of cheating... I still like him... but he's said I'm boring before and it makes me wonder will I keep him interested in the relationship? I am a virgin.. I have decided to wait until I am married to sleep with ...

Stay Married or Separate - Stepdaughter issues

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I am in my second marriage now for 7 years as of February 2010. I am contemplating separation due to my stepdaughter and I don't feel as if I love my wife. My stepdaughter is 22 now. I came into her life when she was 15 and I sort of knew that this ...

Terrified of losing him... advice needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past year and a half and we have split up a few times but we have said this is the last time we are going to try because its hurting us both to much splitting up all the time but now it just ...

Help?? I am a grumpy snappy cow...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to to with my life. I am a 32 year old mum of 4, my husband and I work and seem to be like ships in the night, now the credit crunch has bitten us and things are tight, so the work arragements has to stay as they are. ...

Why does my boyfriend make me so upset and hurt all the time, while my male best friend does the opposite?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Why does my bf make me so upset, anxious and hurt all the time, where as my best male friend does the opposite? My bf is never there to support me. Whenever I need him, he has always been drinking so he cant be supportive, becuase when he drinks h...

He's addicted to Vicodin, and I don't know what kind of help would be best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm 27, in a good job, have a good social life, me and my fiance are well-liked. We've been engaged 6 months. I found out that my husband was addicted to Vicodin the other day when I found bottles of the stuff hidden behind the breakfast cereal...

I fell in love with a friend that slept with my good guy friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I am really losing my mind here. Here is what's going on with me. I have a girlfriend for about 5 years now but our relationship is extremely dysfunctional and we are never intimate nor have I had sex with her in over a year. She has been ...

My girlfriend is very sexual when it comes to masturbation, but when it comes to me she wont let me get involved!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Sexually my girlfriend and i are having considerable problems due to lack of experience on both our parts and she also has vaginismus (which she is currently seeking ...

I love her, but she is screwing with my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - This week has been so very tough and my story is long one but i shall try and be brief. I meet a girl when i was 18 and it was love at first sight but she was with her childhood love, this eventually ended and we got together when about 24. It was...

Why is he doing this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - i have liked this guy 4 a long time and we recently started dating,we havent been 2gether a month yet,he said hes liked me a while as well..at 1st he would call me every nite and then we started spending alot of time 2gether(hes my neighbor)if he ...

G/f broke up with me because of arguments! I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - so me nd my gf 4 3 nd half weeks got into in argument and she broke up wit me 2day...it started last week i found in her fone tlkn 2one her exs who i thot she had a major problem with.sayin how he controlled her nd played her..sayin i have ...

He's never been good at relationships but what is your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Ive known this guy for 4-5 yrs - Lets call him "Robert".We were friends and some point jumped into intimacy. He was a drinker who expressed his naughty feelings for me and would be touchy feely in public,get jealous when I was w/ other guys.We ...

Should I go back to work with my ex? He'll be my boss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I and my bf (ex now)we used to work in the same company ,he was my boss too ,it was job he offered to me, so I had to resign from my previous job , due to some circumstances in the company , they cancelled my job for sometimes , they send me home , ...

Falling out of love or running out of things to say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have been feeling very disconnected and withdrawn from my partner. Because we are what would be termed as an 'opposites attract' couple, I have found that NOT having certain discussions w/ him is a way for me to avoid - what I feel - are the ...

Am I blowing this out of proportion?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - ok I was here last week asking if i was blowing it out of proportion. With all of your help and friend and family i realized i was not blowing it out of proportion. I decided that i want a divorce and to move back to the place we just left. i have ...

Intimidation for female sexuality!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Sexually my girlfriend and i are having considerable problems due to lack of experience on both our parts and she also has vaginismus (which she is currently seeking help for) so no penetration can take place. We have been together for coming up to ...

He hurt me and I have cut off all contact

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - A business colleague and myself developed a deep friendship where the attraction was very evident. I am married and he is single. However none of us acted on it. We would spend hours talking about our lives and business. At some point I realised ...