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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't know how to handle my short tempered partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

31 October 2021 (F) - I'm 26 and live at home with my partner and our two year old son. I am currently studying an access course (3 A-Level subjects rolled into 10 months) and constantly feel guilty for leaving my little boy (in the supervision of his father or my auntie ...

My partner cannot handle his guilt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

26 October 2021 (F) - My partner and I are so deeply in Love. We fell in love and we left our spouses without having an affair and were honest with them. My marraige had been over for 4ish years although his only 1 year. This was in March (8 months ago) He has so much...

I'm sick and tired of his treatment towards me. It's always about his friends and weed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

25 October 2021 (F) - Hi and thanks alot So my bf can be very abusive. Verbally abusive. Resorts to name calling at the slightest things. He wasn't like that in the beginning at first he was calm and sweet then he changed alot. Maybe the true colors appeared. ...

My husband and I are going away for Christmas and its really upsetting my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 891 days ago

25 October 2021 (F) - I’ve made the decision to go away to Barbados with my husband for Christmas this year and it’s gone down like a lead balloon with my family. But the truth is every year something always kicks off in my family which spoils the whole holiday and I ...

How do I create an excitement in the initial phase of living together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 857 days ago

24 October 2021 (F) - Hi! Thanks in advance for reading and giving your valuable inputs. I am getting married in a couple of months and I think I'm going through some kind of anxiety- about the wedding, about my decision to marry him (this is crazy and completely unnec...

I am unsure what to do with my longterm partner and daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

23 October 2021 (M) - I care about my partner but Ive felt like I have always carried her, striving for more in our relationship. Fitness, finances, education, her medical issues. She has suffered depression, anxiety, I am suspecting social anxiety now. I have trie...

Am I crazy for thinking this way about my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

23 October 2021 (M) - Hello, I have had this question on my mind for a long time and I have never really discussed it with anyone. I wanted to see what other people thought. I am a son in a family of five. My relationship with my family is not the best. ...

Feel Like A Toy Should I Leave Him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 October 2021 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, we made our relationship "official" a few months ago. We are in a long distance relationship, living in separate countries. He's never really planned anything for us to do together, like w...

Am I a narcissist or do these girls just really not like me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

21 October 2021 (F) - I just recently moved to college and I made some friends. We all live next-door to each other so it’s really hard to avoid them consistently which is why I’ve been trying to salvage our friendship over and over and over again. There’s three of them ...

My husband's friend uninvited him from a trip because they didn't warm up to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 920 days ago

18 October 2021 (F) - Dear Cupid I am an extreme introvert person, always enjoyed being along than in groups. I do not have any problem talking to people one-one but have issues in groups, so mostly I listen while in groups and may be ask one/two open ended questions,...

How can I convince him that a single bed for both of us is not okay ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

18 October 2021 (F) - Me and my boyfriend live together and he impulsively threw away our king size bed where we could fit with our children. We can't afford a new bed and ended up sleeping in a single bed which is very uncomfortable. The kids still get in at night and I ...

Am I wrong or overreacting or should I leave

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

12 October 2021 (F) - I’m 29 yr old female from Ga and me and my gf have been together for almost 3years now, She has kids but that’s not the issue… She also has this ex who keeps hitting her up and randomly sending how much she still loves her and misses the kids, she ...

He shared my intimate photo with somebody else. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 919 days ago

10 October 2021 (F) - I sent an intimate photo to the guy I’m dating. You can’t see my face and there’s no full nudity, but it’s implied. Anyway, he was at a bar the other night and he told me this woman kept hitting on him. She wouldn’t leave him alone even thoug...

My girlfriend in the hospital were the nurses talking to her in a sexual manner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

4 October 2021 (M) - Do u think my gf saying that in front of me was meaning it w a sexual undertone. She been in hospital for a week from the covid vaccine bs that gave her blood infection and she about died. But she almost done recovering. Or am I being paranoid...

How do I deal with a neighbor who fixes things asks for gifts instead of money but then when the works is done wants the money too

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

4 October 2021 (F) - 16 months ago when I move in to my home I met my neighbor who is a nice friendly guy. We have a shared drive and some tiles were coming loose. He told me he would fix them. I thanked him and asked him to let me know how much he wanted for it. ...

relationships take two and he is doing absolutely nothing to help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

3 October 2021 (F) - Hi Cupid’s, Wanting some relationship advice about me and my partner. We have a loving relationship and respectful of each other. We have been together 3 years now and it’s going good. My friends always ask me if he is ‘the one’ but I’m unsure. ...

Girlfriend preoccupied with hobbies neglecting other things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

3 October 2021 (M) - I just moved in with my girfriend and this is what i observe: she spends most hers days gardening or doing craft then doing nessesary everyday things like making dinner or cleaning. This is the situation: I moved into her house, i pay her ...

M I wrong to worry about dad and think this could be related to dementia, or is he just being a huge jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

2 October 2021 (F) - My mum told me yesterday she's planning to leave dad because of his obsession with "hotwifing", i.e. a woman who has multiple sexual partners with her husband's consent. She's told him he's gone fucking crazy, but he won't accept it, insists "you...

I think my partner prefers men. How do I approach this with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

1 October 2021 (F) - I think my partner is gay. Bold statement I know but please hear me out, I might him 4 years ago and tbh when wee first met I thought he was fully gay and thought wee would just be friends but one night after drinks wee ended up in bed. The next...

IF he didnt want me why is he acting like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

1 October 2021 (F) - I really like a neighbour he did show a bit of interest but has now backed off and nothing ever developed. however i have recently been seeing someone just for mutual benefit only- i came out of this persons place and someone said hello i turned ...

My fiance left and took my twin sons with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

1 October 2021 (M) - I'm a dad to a 9-year-old son and his twin brother, (non-identical twins). My fiancee cheated on me with a transman who's now detransitioning back to female, and took the kids with him. I don't know what the full story is, and it's ambiguous i...