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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is this post-natal depression, or something else?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was ...

I am so unhappy that I drink alcohol and cheat on him..why can't I just leave him? Help.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am 22years old and have been in a relationship now for over 6years but have been unhappy for years. Ive tried dropping hints, didnt work. I told him, he promised that he would change and make me happy, which worked for a week, then he went back to ...

My Mother has said if I don't gain weight I can't see my bf...this is so unfair! Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Ok this a very random question but i need help. My mom and i keep getting into arguements about my weight. Im 20 years of age and i weigh about 107 - 108 pounds. My mom is nagging me about my weight and is constantly telling me that i need to g...

My partner want to give birth without medical help...this is dangerous and I am worried. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - how do i cope with a woman in labour? she's 27, but wants no medical interventions - i told her this was dumb and she could be endangering her and our unborn baby's life but she said that if she went for any checkups or anything then they might ...

I test him to find out what he's up to but its causing problems for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6658 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - for some reason i hate it when my boyfriend spends time with his mates and always text him to see who he with, what he up to and where he is. but for some reason he sees it as a problem that i always have to know where he is. its not a trust thing ...

How can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been spending time apart but i feel i can't trust him. I've spoke to my mum but it not do any work. I planned a night in for us both and he called me and said he's not coming. He was out playing football but what sort of ...

I'm insecure and worry he'll talk to other girls..I need help desperately with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi have im 20 years old and i have dated my bf for about a year. I have an insecurity problem with myself do to the fact that i have been cheated on before. ( I mean don't get me wrong i know im a very pretty girl but there is always that scar...

He asked me...then told me he asked someone else to the prom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hey well this guy that i really like asked me to the prom and of course i said yes but then yesterday he comes to school happy as anyhting and i saif wow your pretty happy and he said no not really n asked wats wrong and he said his dad's an a hole ...

Because she is not my sole beneficiary..she claims I am not making her top priority. Is this reasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have been living together for about a year. We have decided to marry but have NOT set a date. Recently, our plans to marry have run aground when I told her that I had made changes to my ...

He didn't answer my important question...does he really want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - hi there i need advice from people i am in love with this really wonderful man but i asked him the real question " do you really deep down inside want to be with me?" the only reason i did that was because his moods to me lately have changed ...

I blame myself for not doing what he wanted...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - Please help. I am gay and have just split from my boyfriend of six months. He is 21 and I am 33 but our age gap has never been a problem. He chased me from the start. Since the beginning of this year he has not been coming over as usual at weekend...

I hurt him badly and ruined my chances of getting him back! Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have a major problem! My ex boyfriend and I were together nearly 3 years. We both live with parents and I found he was very much under his mother's thumb as she has been divorced from his dad for many years. He lives with her. I live wit...

I'm too sensitive and over-emotional! I'm not the person, I used to be and I dont like the person that I've become.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I need some urgent advice, I'm too emotional for my own good, I'm too sensitive,and get hurt easily, or offended, dependin on the situation, there are days where I'm fine and any critisim i take well because i makes me improve myself, but lately ...

I want to know if he likes me though I'm with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - hi there! it seems that everthings turned out different since i have known this guy.i met this guy where i used to work. we are in one department.the one big problem is i dont know if he likes me or not? i want to know the answer. nahihirapan na ...

My 15 year old son got suspended from school-for fighting..how do I deal with his aggression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I am a father of two. My 15-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he started a fight in the classroom which resulted in an innocent boy going to hospital. He refuses to discuss why he has aggression with us, and we don't kn...

He said awful things to me and times were hard-so why do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - i split up with my ex 3 months ago after being together off and on for 5 years. we had more bad times than good and he did and said some foul things to me. i am so angry with myself though because i still love him and want him back. the good times ...

I'm tired of being in limbo-should I just back off this relationship, once and for all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I split 9 months ago after she said she was confused, spark gone, space etc. Since then we have been every few weeks but only because I initiated the contact, she has never contacted me but never declined my offers to go out ...

I can't seem to get over the hurt of my boyfriend chatting to other girls...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. The problem is, during the first few months of the relationship, I found out that he was talking to a lot of girls online, and not just a friendly chat. Well obviously this hurt me, but he has ...

Something's missing, my boyfriend tells me. He just doesn't know what!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together for the last six months. He is the most amazing person and I love him to bits. We have a wicked time together and he knows I would do anything for him. Recently ...

Her ex bf's made up lies about her and I stupidly believed them-Now we are have broken up! How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - Me (21) and my girlfriend (19) loved each other. She has two ex's who make up alot of stuff about her. At first I stupidly accused her of these. But they are all false. I trust her with my life and have never been so happy with someone, she is ...

He said he loved me...will he come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - We IM'd, talked on phone, and visits to see me. Every morn. as soon as we woke up we had to say "I love you" before the day started. Every night we talked til we fell asleep. This went on for a month and half, then one morning he asked for a break. ...

How do I win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend left me 5 months ago and wouldn't really explain why. I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. We were planning to get married but weren't engaged. After she left me, she didn't want me to call, come over or email her (4 ...

Does physical chemistry have to be mutual to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - A Question in general... On the experience do you think that chemistry between two people can only happen when there is a deep mutual attraction or do you believe in one sided chemistry? Can one individual feel an intense connection and chemis...

I am 15 and my boyfriend of 25 is married but now I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend 25. I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 4 months is married. I saw him with his wife and son but i dont know what to tell him. I am pregnant now with his child. What should i do?...

I'm in a relationship but I'm confused because I feel a strong connection to another woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I'm engaged and I am happy in my relationship, but I recently felt a strong connection with another woman. I think about her and email her alot but I am not sure how to deal with it. I am very confused and any suggestions would help....

If we take a break what might happen as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been togather for a year. He has started college and our relationship has become stressful. We fight constantly about stupid stuff. I cant take this anymore. I love him and he loves me. I have a promise ring from him as well. ...

We're engaged to her but she's pregnant with her ex husband's baby.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - I am in a relationship where my fiance is pregnant with her ex husbands baby. I left town due to her lying to me about talking to him a 8 weeks ago. Now that he knows hes texting her and sending her pictures of himself back when they were married. ...

So mad at my boyfriend for having sex with someone before we were an item. I know it's me with the problem, but what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I need some help getting over something coz I just don't know how to!!! My now-boyfriend slept with someone when we were seeing each other but before it was official. It was a one night stand and he says she meant nothing but I just can't get o...

I just want a second chance...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - just lookin 4 some help on here with my ex weve been goin out quite a long time, it started out perfect and everything but u kno how things go downhill. i made my mistakes but i never cheated on her or hit her but i was just a real asshole alo...

He's on dating sites-he views porn and it's hurting me! He see nothing wrong with this-what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - My partner have had a difficult relationship recently. i found out he'd been looking at porn and going to dating sites. he lied when i confronted him. i thought i had finally got him to understand that he was hurting me because i think he may not ...

I left my wife and kids...and now they won't talk to me! How do I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I am leaving a very unhappy marriage after many years which was very unemotional. I moved out of the family home a few months ago, but have not had the kids staying at my house. I spend all weekend and many nights at the old martial home. I am try...

My boyfriend's getting his life together and getting off drugs, but he doesn't seem to want me, except to move out to where he is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am 43, boyfriend of 8 years is 45. We have a 5 yr old son who lives with me. My boyfriend was on CRACK cocaine for 20 or so years and I learned this 1+ years into our relationship. He is very handsome and I have some crazy attraction to him ...

I'm in a relationship of 10 years...but fell love with a married woman. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 10 years,but in the last 6 months I have met someone else, and I have fallen deeply in love with her. We have started to see each other more regularly..as often as we can..and I believe we want the same thing. She ...

After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...

I made a past mistake and kissed a another man..now my bf doesn't trust me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do about trust issues? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He has always been jealous, fights ensuing everytime I want to have "me" time with my friends. Usually I end up staying home, or driving...

Like a bull in a china shop...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - my husband has a hard time controlling his andger, when he gets to angry he breaks things. how can i hwlp him control himself?...

He has no patience with me... I feel emotionally dead inside. Can we get the love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, we have only lived together for 3 years. Over the las couple of years the passion seems to have gone out our relationship, he says he is still happy and that he loves me, but he doesnt seems to show it, ...

I've had bad relationships in my past. Do I take a risk on this new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Im a single mum and have been on my own for five years with two really awful relationships in between! I have been single for a year now and have just reached a stage where i feel really 'ok' to be on my own. Just me and my kids :) Problem is ...

I am having thoughts of killing people and then myself..I need help desperately. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hi i'm a 23 year old female. In need of some desperate help. I know this has really nothing to do with a relationship or sex for that matter. But i hoping to get some advice . So here's the problem. I have been having some terrible...

I need constant reasurrance from him...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Well where do i begin, iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years we dont live together, but im so paronoid that we are goin to break up or that hes fallin out of love with me that i cont concentrate on anything else,i need constant reasurrance ...

I shouldn't have broken up with her...is there a chance for us now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - I broke up with my ex girlfriend of 3 years towards the end of October last year(complicated reasons). After we broke up she stated that she still thought I was the one. A month or so after we broke up, she admitted that everytime we speak, she ...

She doesn't look as good as I first thought so what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Hi..! I got married around one year ago. We had an arranged marraige. I met my wife just once and she looked very impressive and gud looking to me. Good looks were always a priority for me over anything else. We met around 3 times before formally ...

Is it okay for an egaged man to allow other women to feel his bottom?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Do you think its right for an engaged man to go around and let other women feel his butt? He works out alot, and tries to prove it to other women by letting them cop a feel. I don't think his fiancee' is aware of this....

she got so upset by what someone said and now won't tell me how she feels...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Hi, Heres the story: Last week i was waiting at the bus stop with my girlfriend, after leaving a pub. We are both 19 years old, but my girlfriend looks very young for her age. While we were waiting there, some guys who we were talking to earl...

He hits me, he hurts me but I can't see a future without him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - 6 months relationship, lifetime hell. Need help, advice, anything. I met this perfect guy. Love him to bits, really do. Given up every single thing for him. Stopped being close to people I used to be, willing to move away from my family for ...

I fancy a friend and I can't have her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - I really fancy one of my friends. I dont know how to tell her although she knows im bisexual. It hurts that i cant have her and im getting really upset. What shall i do?...

Since I asked her to marry me, things have gone downhill!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I appreciate the role your site is offering to so many who are faced with problems of their choice. Please i encourage you to keep ahead with the good job. I fell in love with a certain girl in 2002 and we have been going on well e...

He only think sbaout the gym and doesn't care for our children or me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - My partner of 15years is obessed with himself and the gym,Two years back my partner joined the gym and i was happy for him,but he has taken it to far now.He started spending all his free time down there.I was left on my own alot,so i started my own ...

Barbie theme...any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - I'm planing my 17th Birthday party and i want to have a theme party. I thought what about a 'barbie and friends' theme? I know it may seem babyish, but i loved barbie! so she means alot to me and this theme relates to me alot. but one of my friends ...

I didn't actually have sex but should I have told him about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - well me and my boyfriend tell each other everything and lately this has been bugging me ..he hates it that i even had sex with 1 preson (sorta) because he only has with 1 girl too but anyways there were a few guys that i didnt actually have sex with ...