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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We had an affair, he's divorcing his wife but what will others think of us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - In Jan 2009 I moved across Canada to do my student teaching practicum in a small town. for the most part most of the other tacherswere really nice to me and I made alot of great friends. With in a few months of teaaching I started having an affiar ...

My partner sometimes shows no interest and is looking at other women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Iv been with my partner for nearly two years. Sometimes we have such a good time together and really get on! However we have other times when i can get really upset from him either looking at other woman or getting paranoid from his past. Sometimes ...

Is it all in vain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Here goes all on a plate for the last time so I would be greatfull of honest and good advice not told how we done wrong and what we done wrong. So here it is I was seeing someone I was working with, we were so like best friends that much I woul...

How do I accept my boyfriend is a crossdresser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and have lived together for a few months. Recently I found out he was wearing ladies underwear, not because he told me but because I found them. I confronted him about them and he told me h...

I feel like I've ruined his life. Please help -- I need a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi there, i feel so lonely, i have no friends, i feel this is the only place i can turn to. i love my boyfriend so much it hurts! literlly! every time i even think about the lyrics in a love song i get teary eyed. any way we're having lots of ...

What do I do? He won't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had some set backs when it comes to us moving in together, he got drunk made a BIG mistake and slept with another girl, it was hard but we overcame it and got back together and then just a few days ago he started acting meaner, ...

As soon as we got engaged she became distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Im not sure what to do or think any more.... Im engaged to a woman who is my every thing and now it seems to be slipping away. we recently got engaged on august 8 a day before her birthday. Since then she has moved into her own apartment and we live ...

How to get through to financially irresponsible fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I love my "fiance" to death, but since we have been living together, and especially now that I have a ring on my finger, I have been taking our problems more seriously. Here's my thing.. my parents raised me to be responsible. I always keep on t...

After a break up, aren't we supposed to learn from our mistakes? I'm not! What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hey im 17 and am very counfused apparently that after a break up we learn from our mistakes, but I think I haven't or have I? Everytime im with a decent guy I know that treats me right I get scared within the 1st month and start to feel traped a...

Is he too far gone to save this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 years and I seem to be falling apart. He wants to have and open relationship and I am just not up for that. He said a while back that he would attend coucling with me. So I finally looked into it and set ...

I love a cousin 12 years older than me but he lives 15 000kms away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, Over two years ago, I travelled to the States and stayed there for almost a year. I met my cousin there, he is 12 years older than me. We fell in love, in the beginning we did not dare to tell anyone nor each other but for so...

After his dad died our relationship totally changed and now we have broken up, but I still hope we will get back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi,i was going out with my boyfriend for almost a yr and a half when his dad died. this changed everything from the way he looked at life and from the way he acted towards us. he is the nicest person in the world and already in our relationship we ...

I don't keep secrets from him so I expect the same in return, so why is he continuing to lie to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for about 4 years. Two years ago I ran across a few emails between him and his ex girlfriend. If I hadn't seen these I would have never known. I told him how this made me feel and he seemed a little angry with me for ...

I don't want to disown my friend but his obsession with this girl is driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

2 September 2009 (?) - Hi, My friend has been obsessed with a girl he's fancied since 6th form. He's now 21 and insists he's in love with her despite not seeing her in over 2 years. He and the girl were never an item and were barely even friends then, let alone now. W...

I'm dating an overly flirtatous man, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man who constantly is flirting with other women. He has several female friends although I don't think they like him in the physical sense. He thinks that if he keeps it all on the table then there is nothing wrong...

He never listens to me!

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2 September 2009 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for a about 8 months now and we are completely serious and in love with each other. When it comes to arguing, we are both stubborn but here and there we would let down our pride and apologize. Most of the time, my ...

Hopefully we'll get back together, how can we stop falling into the same trap again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Myself and my boyfriend of 2 years split up recently after he kicked me out of my home. He said after a week he had made a huge mistake, but he didnt want to go back to the way it was. After some talking we agreed that after some time to sort ...

After we became sexually active he told me he just wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I just royally screwed up. I started seeing a married man. I told him it was over because I knew it was wrong after we became sexually active. Now the feelings of love wont go away. When I didnt care he did. Now I care and he is distant and ...

How do I get my girlfriend to trust me? And how do I know if she loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - hello people.well im 15 years old.n heres my question how can u get ur gf 2 trust u...well i mess up on her n the firest 2 months i kiss another girl..it took me i say 2 months 2 tell her.but it was the time i statred realizing how much im n love ...

Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other . I am divorced and have known the guy in question for ten years . He helped me emotionally by talking ( no sex !) through the break - up . However now ...

I don't feel like I fit in anywhere

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I thank all who answer here. This may be a hard question to answer but here goes. Most of my life I feel like I do not fit in anywhere. I am fairly self confident, have fairly good social skills but I process things differently than other people and ...

Can stress distort feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - my husband and I are always togetherintimately,socialy fight on ocasion but never lasts long.Lasyt year issues with job changes,menopause lot of arguing them=n. I fear he may have cheated? I know there is a possibility I could have pushed him away. ...

How are things going to be ok if his actions don't follow his words?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and I love him more than anything in the world. The only problem is where he lives. He live 2.5 hours away and we are both in college trying to graduate. I have tried everything to be closer to him but all ...

My heart doesn't flutter anymore for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hiya, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and i'm not sure how i feel about him anymore. We had a bad year as i've had an emotional year due to a house i was living in being terrible with awful people in it, and also my ...