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Archived questions from: May, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Sometimes I wish I could just text people and let them know how I feel.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1425 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - Sometimes when I feel sad , its normally when I feel like messaging the people who I wish I could be truthful to or opening up to someone. in situations like this I often feel more inclined to say something I regret as well or do something I regret ...

I'm not happy with my girlfriend's appearance and lack of self care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1422 days ago

31 May 2020 (M) - If I’m not happy with my gfs appearance do I have another choice rather than leaving her? We were both in good shape when we got together few years ago but she is now borderline obese. Also our eating habits are opposite. She has this obsession w...

Are our neighbours taking their stress out on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1425 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I was just wondering if I had made the best decision… Five years ago, my husband and I struck a friendship with a couple that is about 12 years older. They live in the same village where we bought a house, where we hope to...

What should I do about my passive aggressive sister in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1425 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - My husband and I travelled cross country to visit his brother and his brothers family (wife and kids) over Christmas holiday. It was the first time I would really get to spend one on one time with them. I get along very well with all the rest of my ...

My wife says my vest is embarrassing.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1424 days ago

31 May 2020 (M) - There's a TV show about a motorcycle club called Sons of anarchy. I bought a vest like the ones worn on the show by the actors. I have a motorcycle and I'm such a fan of that TV show. My wife says it would be embarrassing to wear it as people w...

I've met a guy I like, but he is friends with my ex baby daddy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - I’m trying to decide if a guy is interested in me. He is a divorced single Dad. The issue is he is friends with my ex baby daddy. We saw each other out with our kids. His daughter is friends with my oldest daughter. So I asked if she could come over ...

Being in lockdown has forced me to see how unhealthy our relationship is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

30 May 2020 (F) - Hi all! I would appreciate some advice on how to handle an issue with my husband or rather a problem hes has that is seriously influencing my life. In a nutshell, he has some problems with relationships with people (I understand WHY). R...

What can I do about my life and wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

29 May 2020 (M) - Over 43 yrs of faithful marriage she requires separate bedrooms handles all financial transactions accumulate over 100,000 dollars in credit card debts that I know of and no sex for 3 years now .... what to do No names please ...

I need tips for dealing with the mother of my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1423 days ago

29 May 2020 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me almost two months ago, and his mom keeps contacting me. Why would she do it? I always had the feeling she didn't like me during the first years we were together as we have very different views ...

The more I try to better myself the nastier my friend becomes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

27 May 2020 (F) - Thanks in advance for answers to my guestion. This is a great site. I have been friends with this paticular friend for about ten years. I cannot say that this is the only friendship I have been evaluating lately. I have a great job and have started ...

My wife and I fight about laundry! I mean REALLY fight about it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

26 May 2020 (M) - My wife doesn't like to do laundry. She says she doesn't like the noise (we have a small house so doing a load of laundry permeates) and apparently doesn't like any other aspect of it either. She will let her laundry pile up until she has nothing ...

I'm mourning a friendship that may have dissolved.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

25 May 2020 (F) - I used to have very regular contact with a female friend whom I will name as "A" who attended the same church as me and we coordinated a youth ministry together with other team members. I was close to A and so were the other team members and ...

Blocked, I'm angry at how all the blame is on me, should I send a letter and a gift?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

24 May 2020 (M) - I was seeing a girl and she has a boyfriend, who she got just a few weeks after we met. Turns out she wanted to see both of us. But recently finally, the boyfriend found out her secret. She was out with me, and he got security to bget into her room ...

Lockdown causing problems in our relationship and I'm not sure how to fix things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

24 May 2020 (F) - Hi all, hope everyone is staying safe and coping well during the pandemic. So I'm in a relatively new relationship, about 6 months with my boyfriend who is 1 year older than me. We met on a dating app. I thought we had got on well when we would me...

How can I do what's right for me knowing my parents won't approve

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - i recently started a job in a care home on a rolling contract so it may come to an end in a few weeks, although It will most likely be extended . im sadly not enjoying it all and it is way more tiring then I thought and the hours I really long an...

My married boyfriend is moving to Panama for 6 months and is leaving me behind. He wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - I know I won't get any sympathy here but I am looking for some advice. Mistresses have nowhere to go. My married lover (he is more like a boyfriend now) is going to Panama with his wife in September to spend 6 months out of the year there, ever...

I feel trapped in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve been in a long term relationship for 8 years we have a coming up 6 year old son my partner 3 years ago suddenly started smoking weed he was good looking and smart when we met the relationship was great we both were working we went on ...

Does this man like me or need space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - This boy told me he likes me n he started holding me n kissing me. He stays the night n hold me. In morning he left early n didn't hear from him in a couple days. He came up to me n I said u didn't say nothing just left. He said I need to get on my ...

Did I emotionally cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1433 days ago

22 May 2020 (F) - Some background. I’m in my mid 20s, my boyfriend is early 30s. I went through a very tough breakup. This was at a time in my life where I was also experiencing four deaths of people close to me. I was an absolute mess to say the least. Throughout ...

Why did he ghost me after acting so insecure ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1431 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , ...

How can I remain upbeat when the father of my child creates conflict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1435 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - Experiencing ongoing conflict with the farther of my child who I left over ten years ago. On yesterday's date, I contacted a helpline for dealing with domesticated issues regards to communication taken place. As a result,they referred me t...

Commitments to my work and my compromised family conflict.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

21 May 2020 (M) - Currently i am trying to juggle my personal life with work. They keep clashing, my boss calls meetings always towards the end of the day which means i am late getting home. I have 3 disabled family members waiting for me to get home, carers help ...

Writing on behalf of my friend about his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

21 May 2020 (?) - Hi everyone, this is my first post so please bare with me. I am writing on behalf of my friend (M 22) who had a situation with his ex (F 21) recently which I am very concerned about. They have known each other for about 8 years so their history is ...

Girlfriend refuses to discuss our relationship.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

21 May 2020 (M) - My girlfriend got drunk one day after an argument. She met up with a friend and they took a guy back to her place. Her friend left but the guy stayed. The next day she said nothing happened and told me they were both naked in the bed. She also told ...

Where did I mess up with the LDR who faded on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

20 May 2020 (M) - This girl and I first met a couple of years ago, casually hanged out a couple of times, then went back to our own countries on the opposite sides of the world. A few months later, we briefly met one more time when I travelled to her country; we had ...

I worry I am just this woman's plaything.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

20 May 2020 (M) - Been seeing someone for about four months for only one day a week, she don't have any more time for me, it's really good that one day a week, I told her I looked her up on Facebook, she got really mad an said not to do that again and block me, am I ...

My feelings have grown since blowing off a girl I met in college.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

19 May 2020 (M) - I always had intense trust issues that lead me to stay away from relationships. In fact I've never been in a relationship till now, perhaps because of that. This also lead me to not make many friends and for some reason I maintained distance from ...

He criticizes my driving and it’s wrecking my confidence and ability!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1436 days ago

18 May 2020 (F) - Heeeellpppp, i am a long time driving vihicles already. Im driving bycicles, real motorbike sometimes with 1 or 2 behind me as passenger plus my baby dog infront basket ( please dont get mad" that is normal in asia, when your small baby dog is train ...

This guy I've met shares a house, and sometimes meals, with his ex wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1441 days ago

14 May 2020 (F) - I have met someone He is divorced and has 3 grown children the youngest is 20 and still in college. The ex wife and he share a house he lives in the basement and she lives on the first floor. They sometimes share meals and when daughter comes home ...

My partner's family never acknowledge my birthday

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

13 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 63 and my guy is 65. We both own our own businesses, both fairly healthy. No children. We got together six years ago and both had no children from before. He lives with me in my house and they have often visited here and spent a ...

I don't understand why my sister needs to make me look bad to elevate herself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

11 May 2020 (F) - Hi there. Thank you to all who respond to this question. I have a sister who is seven years younger than me and a brother some years older. I was very close to my brother growing up...from a military family...starting new school all the time...t...

How can I deal with a negative person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

10 May 2020 (F) - Best way to deal with someone who says things like "I'm not being funny but" "I don't mean to be awful but". A family member is constantly saying these things. She doesn't always refer to me but generally when talking about other people. Like ...

I feel I would be better off staying single and just getting a bed buddy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1446 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - I am a single mom. I have been divorced twice. I attract toxic people. Or people who need fixed. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I feel like I truly know myself now. I am sensitive and an over thinker. I am wondering if I should just ...

I believe my husband married me for convenience.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1443 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm married to my current husband for 2 years and been together for 4 years, (2 years before marriage). I am not sure whether i love my husband or not, reasons below. 1. He never told he loves me even once in this 4 years, his reason...

It feels like a slap in the face to provide everything for this relationship and not even get the respect of an adult conversation.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1448 days ago

5 May 2020 (F) - Hello! I have been in a relationship for over two years. My SO hasn’t worked most of our relationship. I have an apartment that he pretty much stays at unless he goes home after a fight. I am constantly stressed about bills and responsibilities ...

I'm struggling but my partner offers no encouragement or support

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1439 days ago

4 May 2020 (F) - I’ve been feeling really down and low since I gave birth to my little boy (10 months ago). I eventually went to the doctors when my little boy was 5 months old, it helped talking to my doctor though nothing got followed up and I still feel the same ...

Uncomfortable situation with man I am dating and a friend that he slept with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

4 May 2020 (F) - Hello everyone, I met someone on NYEs and we hit it off really well. He is a close friend of my roommate. They have a huge circle of friends from college and have a lot of history together. These group of friends often have parties together...

I've met a girl online and the relationship is hard work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

3 May 2020 (M) - Let me begin by saying I never had a girlfriend. I met this girl online, and we really hit it off. Im going light on the details but thing is, she wants something more, to bee more than friends and I feel something for her. We know each other ...

Why does he keep reminding me that he’s single, is he only looking for something casual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1453 days ago

2 May 2020 (F) - In every conversation I have w/this guy he throws it into the conversation that he's a single man. Or everytime we meet up he reminds me of his relationship status. And he always ask me “when’s the next time you’re coming over?” Or “when will i see ...