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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Wife lied, she wasn't a virgin. What do you think? What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1685 days ago

28 August 2019 (M) - Ever since my wife and i met she has always been a very conservative virgin girl, her choice and she was very string that it was important to her. I knew she had a BF before me but she insisted she was a virgin and it was very important to her. This ...

My husband says my parents control me because I let them. They say I dishonor them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1705 days ago

24 August 2019 (F) - I love my parents and I know that my parents want the best for me but they are so controlling and it is annoying. I posted a couple days ago about being 30 years old without a career. I was not doing well in my previous job in insurance sales so I ...

When a woman gets older does she just need to accept that her partner doesn't find her hot?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1644 days ago

24 August 2019 (F) - I’m around 50 and try to take good care of my appearance . My partner seems pretty disinterested in me yet is very interested and turned on by women in porn in their 20s. I understand that self esteem in an internal thing and that’s not really what ...

I'm tired of catty woman drama at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

23 August 2019 (F) - I have a coworker (coworker 1)on my team that always seems to get very close with one other person and then becomes exclusive with others. I used to work with her years ago but on separate teams and saw similar behavior. I am trying to avoid ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that I want more from the LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

23 August 2019 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since two years. It is mostly a long distance thing. Previously, like every relationship it used to be very romantic, but now it seems the spark is gone. He is no longer romantic, he no longer ...

He's ready to settle, but I love having my own life. What can I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

21 August 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 years. We met at uni. When I met him, I had just come home from New Zealand. It was the 3rd country I’d worked in in three years, and I was ready to settle in one place for a while and study. We were ...

He made out that I was punishing him when I asked him to sleep on the sofa

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1696 days ago

19 August 2019 (F) - hi I have a quick question if anyone has any helpful opinions it would be much appreciated. myself and my boyfriend recently relocated countries for work. my boyfriend originally came out 3 months ahead of me and had already a small support sy...

I feel like my boyfriend is forcing me into going on a trip with his friends. We were supposed to go alone. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

18 August 2019 (F) - I have a hard dilemma! My boyfriend and I were supposed to be taking a week vacation together, just him and I. But he just went ahead and changed those plans on me. Apparently his friends are going to be at this resort where we were planning to go. ...

Feel like I'm wasting my life but my reasons for wanting to leave seem petty

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

17 August 2019 (F) - I have being in my current relationship for the past 8 years and at the moment I am questioning whether it is what I want for the long-term. I feel that after 8 years together, we should be living together or at least have a clear plan for the fut...

I left, he wants me back. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1711 days ago

16 August 2019 (F) - Hi Friends, I have two kids almost 3 and almost 2. I was engaged with their father for almost 3years.He was very sweet when we first met but after my first pregnancy he started changing more argument about financial.He was upset with one night I...

My husband has completely changed after marriage and I feel exploited

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1714 days ago

16 August 2019 (F) - Hello and thanks! Me and my husband have been together almost 3 years. Before our marriage he was mind, sweet, loving. He seemed to be the most charming man I've ever met. He would look after me if I was sick, once I passed out from heat exhaus...

Will he come back to me again after taking space?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

15 August 2019 (F) - I met a wonderful guy a few months ago and we hit it off immediately. He told me that I was everything he ever wanted in a relationship and I felt the same. He has a young son (3) with his ex girlfriend and I was introduced to him a couple weeks ago ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1716 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

Is what is happening to me financial abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1713 days ago

13 August 2019 (F) - Would you call this financial abuse? I go to work and support my husband who has little respect for me anyway. He also pressures me to sometimes support his parents as he so desperately wants to please them, even though they are just using him and ...

Is my boyfriend just going through a phase? Trying to impress a friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

11 August 2019 (F) - Im in this relationship for like about 2 years now and things have changed somuch recently. At first my BF was super nice to me and all was working out. We used to go out sometimes to places and have fun and he was like always very kind and sweet. ...

How do you get over a secret broken heart? How do I fall out of love with someone I don't want to, and still see all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

11 August 2019 (F) - I fell in love with someone from work and now iv got my heart broken and i dont know how to deal with this. There is no way to tell this story that paints me in a good light, and im aware of that, and i guess whats happened to me is Karma for bein...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's interactions with our mutual friend/coworker

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1718 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - Part of me just wants to vent my feelings to people who don't know my situation, but also, I just don't know what to do. (Sorry, this will be long) The situation between my boyfriend and I has been up and down. Not like big arguments or any...

How do I come back from being the bad guy in the marriage? Its affecting me both mentally and physically

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1715 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - I’ll just dive right in since I don’t really know how to begin. My husband and I separated for a while for many reasons, two of the biggest being he neglected and ignored me for two years and I ended up having an emotional affair with one person for ...

He's coming on way too strong but I can't decide if he's genuine or manipulative?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1719 days ago

9 August 2019 (F) - Me and this man have been dating for 6 months, but we have been having alot of arguments the past 3 months it's almost a weekly thing. I do like him but i don't want to make it as an official 'relationship' till i make sure he's the right man, ...

My best friend is mad at me for not telling him I dated someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - About a year ago I asked a question regarding dating my best friend after my divorce . To give people a general background I’m divorced I’ve been friends over 13 years with an American man we started as pen pals. We have been there for eac...

I regret my decision to have an abortion and now I want another baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

8 August 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, So I had an abortion at Christmas. My boyfriend and I were only together for 6 months, we have no money and we live in my flat. At the time it seemed like the sensible decision. However 8 months later, I'm regretting the decisi...

Why does my stepfather treat me better than my own mother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1715 days ago

7 August 2019 (M) - I don't know my biological dad and I have never been really close to my mother, she doesn't seem to care about me a lot. She does the basic parental obligations - feeding me, etc.- but she doesn't care much what's going on in my life and how I feel. ...

My wife and I are sexually incompatible and I'd like to know how I can kill my libido

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

6 August 2019 (M) - I am 30 years old and married. I love my wife very much but we have never had the best sex life. I knew from the beginning that we weren't a perfect match sexually but, when we talked about it, she always said that she thought she would get more ...

I think my girlfriend is bored and prefers living away from me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1721 days ago

5 August 2019 (M) - I'm worried my girlfriend is getting bored with our relationship. We've been together nearly 4 years. She keeps asking questions like "Do you ever feel like we're more like friends than a couple?" or "Do you ever wonder if we're a normal couple?". ...

Do I give my ex extra time to pay me back or go to court?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

5 August 2019 (F) - I was dating a guy for almost a year, he had had a very bad time with his health and wasnt working. He slowly got better and the doctor signed him off sick so he could work. In the time he wasnt working i offered to lend him a bit of money which he ...

I still find it difficult to feel worthy of being loved or at least, to give love. How do I overcome this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1724 days ago

4 August 2019 (F) - I've lived in a very unstable family. Basically, my dad was emotionally and physically abusive with me and my mom, I've grown up in family problems and abuse for years, also my dad being a cheater (cheating 5 times on my mom) and being greedy and ...

I don't feel the love anymore and wonder if he is cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

4 August 2019 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me but I have no proof. We have been together for 2.5 years. Probably within the past 5-6 months our relationship has changed drastically and it hasn't gotten any better. I am feeling so unwanted and alone. I feel ...

My b/f found out I texted my ex to make sure he no longer contacted me. My b/f hit me but I want to make things right with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

2 August 2019 (F) - Me and my bf were in good relationship but I messed up everything . We loved each other alot . I used to hide things and our relationship become worse than anything. Day before yesterday we decided to forgot the past and started a fresh ...