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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking...

Greiving and my boyfriend is ignoring me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - I hope someone can help. i am greiving for a family member and my boyfriend has, in the last two days, started to totally ignore me. Ive sent him some horrible messages to him today out of desperation for a response and he still will not reply to ...

I'm going on a summer holiday! Or am I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - I have booked a holiday with my boyfriend of 2 years,(it was to be our first together) and was excited about it until he let it slip that the itinerary will consist exclusively of places he visited with his late wife of 17 years (she died 4 years ...

He won't commit! We are stuck in a cycle of breaking up and making up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I met a guy 4 years ago. At the time I was 25 and he was 38. We soon started seeing each other and after 4 months I had met his family. Everything seemed to be going well other than the fact that he started working longer hours and going out salsa ...

My fiancé keeps trying to take nude photos of me without my consent!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Okay, so we were on vacation and hot at it and my significant other (my fiancé) got up from the bed, then all of a sudden I saw a flash in the dark room and he took a picture of me nude and then he wanted to take closer pictures of my body parts. I ...

Am I overreacting or is he just not that into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I feel like he’s just not that into me. He’s been in florida for over 2 weeks now, but I’m always the one calling/texting him. This isn’t the first time that this has happened. He goes down to Florida to ...

What do I do about this tiff between me and my roommates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Right so Agony people.I need some help. A few months ago I moved into a house with some friends for college. A tiff occured between me and two of my housemates. They claimed I said something bad which I didn't. Anyways I fel out with one of them but ...

Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Am I being silly to be upset over the fact my boyfriends mum made a joke over whether I should wear white I get married because I have a child? I know it may seem harmless but it's actually rather hurt me. I was 17 when I had my son, who is now...

He wants to hang out with me but I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'll be starting uni in the fall as an international student, and, as I'm sure most incoming freshmen do, I did a little facebook research on the current students at this university. Of course, I didn't contact any of the guys, and was left just ...

How do I make myself be kinder during our last days together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I think we both know it's over but I'm being just so nasty and I can't seem to stop being so angry and mean. I can't afford to leave right away and he was kind enough to let me stay until I get myself financially sorted out. But I'm not even ...

How do I get my BF to take the next step?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I am caught in limbo and need help. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been stalling for months now about the "next step". When I first brought it up at 8 months, he said he needed a year before he could consider things. At a year and 3 months, ...

Our flatmates only growl at me when he's not there! I suffer from anxiety and depression so this is very difficult for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I don't know what to do. This year I moved from one city to another to live with my long distance boyfriend of 2 years. It's about six months on now. The move was really hard for me cos I'm shy and i left behind my close friends and the place I was ...

I have a gut feeling that something is wrong between her and me. Do you think I am wrong about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for a few months now I just have a gut feeling something is wrong. I do have some trust issues and paranoia from past problems but they aren't as bad as they used to be. She's always getting facebook notifications bu...

He was prosecuted for domestic violence and now lives in a hostel. So why do I still feel so lonely without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for 25 years i have an 18 year old son. When i first got married things were great then about a year into our marriage signs of my husbands bad temper started to show. I didnt worry too much at first. Then he started smas...

I'm in a relationship but it's not feeling like one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - When we first went out 3 years ago, everything was perfect. He tried his best to do what ever he can just to make me happy but because I don't mind anything and he kind of stopped doing because he said I don't really mind anything he does and I'm ...

Have I missed the bus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Have I missed the bus? Hi I'm a fifty year old from rural England who is at the end of a relationship that has not worked for the last few years, the thing is I feel as though I won't find a woman for love at my point in life, I'm getting quite low ...

He put down the booze and picked up the anger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - Last year I was seeing someone for over a year (we were friends for 3 years prior to dating) and we broke it off because he had some issues with alcohol. That issue has become a lot better. We started hanging out again in May and have been trying to ...

The more I talk to her the stronger my feelings grow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3559 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - a girl has come in my life and she is like my best friend.she said we can only be best friends and i respect that and dont have any problems with it. we been talking to each other over phone regularly for past couple of months. i can live as a fri...

I'm the lonliest guy in the world ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

29 July 2014 (M) - Hello everybody, I am a 17 year old guy who is extremely lonely. I am 6'5" tall and I'm not bad looking. I just graduated high school, I have friends, I have family, but I've never had a girlfriend, and I am pretty much the lonliest guy in the w...

Why should I have to pay to have given him a second chance that has crushed me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - I had a boyfriend for ten months that I loved alot, and he said he loved me too. We are in our late 30s. He left me for his ex that he was married too, she didnt want him to move on. She didnt like me, so she said shed give it another try if I was ...

How do I reassure him that I'm here for him but not trying to make him get back together? He broke up with me out of the blue so that's why I'm here this week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Me and my 1.5 year bf just broke up last week. It came out of the blue. We were in a long distance for about 9 months. We always texted each other and try to make skype call everyday. About 2 months ago I suggested him that he should move back...

I don't know how to find out what is bothering him! He won't talk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - I've been with my current bf for nearly 4 years and we've always had great fun together and I know we both feel very strongly about eachother. We moved in together in December and everything has been great, up until three days ago. He came back f...

I know its hypocritical of me, but I am jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi all, So my ex and I broke up a Couple of months ago. We needed the time to resolve some issues and now we have decided to try again. I dated during our break up, and he did too except he went on a dating profile as he's not a big drinker and also...

I really want her to feel appreciated and loved.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Ok. So my girlfriend went to stay with her best friend last week. They have been close for 5 years and it turns out last week he told ger that he was in love with her. We have been together for 7 years and when she came back there was a huge...

My grandparents play favorites and I'm fed up!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - This is very long. It's getting harder for me to hold in my feelings. My family have always had problems. My grandparents always like to play favorites with their grand kids. There were three of us and they treated Emily much better. Babysitting, ...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

I'm gutted that my boyfriend canceled our getaway weekend and went out with friends instead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. Things have always been good. Recently we've both been busy with work but I've found I'm seeing my boyfriend less and less. He plays football for a local club and trains ...

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said ...

I want him to meet my extended family but he says he has to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a football coach in an academy he works 6 days a week which includes every weekend. Is it unreasonable for me to want him to have a Saturday off for my aunt and uncles 40th wedding anniversary so he can meet my extended family? He's ...

I'm worried he is hankering for his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I've known my fiance for 6 years we've been in a relationship for 2 and have 2 month old daughter together. Just recently he started speaking about his ex who is the mother of his other child. He says things like, she's a good actress, she just got ...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

I want a relationship but I cant even talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - I'm desperate for a relationship and need help. Every time I fall for a girl I'm friend zoned. I'm not necessarily good at talking to girls at first and I am always kind of pushed into talking to a girl. I can't even start a decent conversation ...

My boyfriend lied, and I don't know how to approach him about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - So I've just found out, for the 1st time, that my boyfriend has lied to me. We've been together for 3 amazing months, it's left me feeling on top of the world. We had arranged to see each other tonight and tomorrow before he goes away for...

I have to tell him I am moving, but I'm worried he might see it as a big complication!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long post. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and things seem to be working out fine. We haven't yet defined what the relationship is, and I'm afraid of asking, because I don't want to seem desperat...

I am concerned about my job ..... should I mention it to my boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - Hi I am just looking for advice or suggestions- I recently found out that my boss (I am a nanny working in the UK) has just put their house on the market (no sign outside of house) but I saw it in the agency that it is selling with- how do I g...

My friends and family say he will cheat on me because he is in a band!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy Jake for a few months he is 25 and a singer in a band. He also works with a local contracting company. Most of my family and friends say that are relationship wont work because of his "free" behaviour and that he goes out...

I am not thinking straight but I desperately want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I am 29 and my ex boyfriend is 28. We had a very sweet and loving relationship. We had great times together. We would be so happy and sweet just like in the movies. BUT, if we had arguements it always escalated in him breaking up with me. Now I know ...

We are of different faiths and he says I don't appreciate him enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together for about 2.5 yrs now. Im muslim and he's not too religious, but since his father is Jewish, he tends to identify as a Jew. Anyways, we were friends before we began dating, but when we got serious, ...

I've fallen for my mate, but don't want to ruin the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I have strong feelings for my mate and he doesnt know and I don't know if he feels the same should I tell him yes or no if yes should I tell him over internet or face to face I don't want things to be awquard or weird and most of all I don't wanna ...

If this marriage was so important to her, then why didn't she stop contacting her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I got married a few months ago, it was a rushed wedding, after barely knowing each other we married because she told me to get married because I was having trouble with my immigration status and it would give me a green card and working visa ...

Losing boyfriend to world of Warcraft?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - So my boyfriends gotta back into playing Warcraft over the last few months. It's really starting to get on my nerve cause I believe it's starting to affect our relationship. I don't care what he does in his free time when I'm not around, but lately ...

Non stop unresolved arguments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - For the first year or so of our married life was great but now we are plagued by frequent enflamed arguments which cannot be resolved. The rows often come out of the blue and the cause is unknown. I cool down after a few minutes and my feelings are ...

The stress of working a night shift and an uneventful birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Known my boyfriend for almost five years and at times, I feel like he disregards my feelings or things important to me. He's nice and generous but again, I just get frustrated. Like yesterday, I went to his place and had to work the night shift that ...

I am good at giving a good impression but now am afraid I have to tell him the truth about who I was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I've just gotten in a relationship with this friend who I've liked for a long time, and I'm so happy. But. He is so incredibly honest and it's in my nature to be deceitful so people "see" the "best" in "me", but he see's straight past that and insp...

How can I get him to work out problems in our relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm still just as much in love with him as when I first met him. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him and we often talk about having a future together but it's hard to see whenever a ...

I feel like a booty call without the sex! Should I give him a chance or run for the hills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. My issue is for some reason if I plan a date something family related always comes up and he either ends up coming really late or rescheduling. The huge thing is we always end up hanging out ...

Can this relationship be saved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - This page has been so helpful to me before so thought id ask again. Do you think this relationship is salvageable? We started off as friends, friends for 2 years, then got together. Bexause we had been friends we knew so much about each other al...

I'm already prepared to put my marriage on the line, that's how sick of his family I am. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - In a few weeks time I am due to go and stay at my husbands parents house, they are a muslim family. I have not met them before only spoken to them by phone and skype. His mother seems to be boss and interfering and has already made som comments that ...

Not sure what he's doing on this holiday

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I am having some problems with my relationship, and I am hoping someone could help me! My boyfriend and I are 20 and have been dating for almost two years. He has been in Paris for a number of weeks on vacation, and recently we got into an argu...

He seldom tries to see me but he's left stuff at my place ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Im so confused my partner moved due to work in November last yr and this year ive seen him 4 times only for a day never over night, ive asked him many of times if he wanted to b with me or if he liked somebody else or was even with anyone else hes ...