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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ever since we last had sex, he seems distant--help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend right for me? I've been going out with this guy for 3 months now--we have had sex twice; ever since we last had sex, he seems to be growing more distant away from me, but when I see him once a week, (which is not enough for me) h...

I've broken up with my married lover...any help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I know this sounds like the old cliche, I'm going with a married man, and it is but ... how do I deal with this. I'm single\divorced. Ive been seeing a married man for 17 months. I live in London and he lives in Manchester however he lives...

He couldn't get an erection, now I'm afraid to bring it up--help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and are in love with each other. The problem is, each time we have tried to have sex, he couldn't obtain an erection. He said he wanted nothing more than to 'be with me' and I could tell he was ...

My boyfriend hasn't called, but doesn't want me to call...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - The last time I heard from my boyfriend was Thursday night. He said he would call me in the next couple of days. I know he had things on his mind but I am getting worried. I want to call him but he told me he doesn't want to hear from me. I am ...

My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...

He is still on about his ex...does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have two children together. He is a few years older than me and has two children from a past relationship, which he was in for 11 years. They broke up and a couple of years later we met. Ever s...

My boyfriend is always off with friends--should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I've been dating a man for more than 2.5 years, but have known him for more than 3 years. I met him when I was 25 years old, a week or so after I got laid off from my prevous employer. He's 1.5 years younger than me, and was 23 at the time, turning ...

He said it was only a break, but he is telling his friend he no longer loves me--please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and we were very much in love. We planned a whole future together, and no matter how bad things got in the relationship the other would come through for us. Yesterday though, he said he needs "Time ...

I'm sure he's cheating on me but I just can't nail him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend fixes things for a living. I don't wanna get too specific. I recently checked the contacts in his phone and saw a girl's name (and I actually haven't looked in a few weeks and before that it was a long time), a new girl, which I ...

I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

30 June 2007 (M) - This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...

I'm confused and unhappy with the way my life is going

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 June 2007 (M) - I am a MAN, and I have realized how stupid I am! I am married, since 4yrs and I don't know why? I grew up in a single parent home and I am having major challenges in understanding the needs of a home, wife, family, etc. I am a good person. ...

I need the father of my daughter to give me what he's owe for her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - My daughter's father gave me a money order for $19 ($15 for child support, $4 for medical bills). I never felt as insulted in my life. He showed me his pay stub to show me how much he gets paid. Which I could care less. All I want is for him to ...

How can I prove to her I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 June 2007 (M) - Hello, I have a hard question to ask? Me and my (i guess i should say ex-girlfriend) have been going out for almost three years until we just recently broke up 2 weeks ago. The first two years of dating were absolutely great, only a few arguments ...

I can't bring myself to leave my husband but I can't end my affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I am very confused and need help. I have been married for almost ten years. About fours years after we were married I became pregnant and was blessed with a beautiful daughter. Unfortunately, I became very ill during the pregnancy and almost died ...

I can't move on as I feel obligated to help my ex husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - ok, here is the scenerio: I cheated on my ex husband 8 years ago for a year, I told him and we divorced with no children. I cannot seem to seperate from him, we have a special loyal relationship. He has not been able to be in a stable relation...

I want to help him but I can't take much more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - BoyFriend Lives with EX WIFE who cheated while they were married. I know in my heart he has not dealt with these feelings of infidelity and I feel like I am caught in the middle. 1 1/2 ago he introduced me to her as she was a bartender at the time. ...

I don't know what to do, give up on him and move on, or take the lead and nail him down to a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do, give up on him and move on, or take the lead and nail him down to a date? There is a man 10 years younger than me that I was with every day for 10 working weeks in a training class, during that time, he pursued getting to ...

I like this lad but he's my best friends brother...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I was stayin at my best friends house recently when she decided that we should stay in her brother's room because he has a double bed. he came home and was fine with it he said he will just share the bed with us, I was fine because I have grown up ...

I love him but I need some space from him just now... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out 7 months, he loves me to bits (more so than I love him)which is killing me. I wish I loved him more but I dont. He wants to marry me and have kids soon (in the next 2 years) but I want to ...

I can't stop thinking about him. I tell myself, I need to move on. I don't deserve him for all he's done to us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I want to be able to love again and be loved. The father of my child emotionally hurt me after all I've done for us to maintain a stable living situation. Our relationship at that time was rocky because I couldn't trust him (he's cheated on me), ...

I have feelings for both girls and boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm in a real difficult position. I have feelings for both girls and boys, but recently mostly girls. I really like a girl friend, she is bisexual, but she has been hanging out a bit with her ex girlfriend as friends, I really want to be with ...

I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...

If a guy loves you and wants to marry you, is it okay to ask that he not go to a woman's house at night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I have a wonderful guy that still visits a beautiful girl who lives down the street from him once in a while in the evenings. I told him it makes me uncomfortable, and he said they are only friends. I told him, how would I know that. And he said ...

I don't want to push her, but I'm tired of playing the cat and mouse game. I need to find a way to see if she comes to me. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

29 June 2007 (?) - I'm a 46 year old female in love with another female. I am convinced she loves me as well. I told her how I felt about her and she did deny she felt the same way. I am sure that is because she has been married and is confused by her feelings. She ...

I love her but she's left me twice for other men

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - I dated this girl for just under two years, and in that two years we've lived together, shared our lives, and it seemed to be going perfect. Thats about when she left me for another man, for really no absolute reason, hence she came back to me. I...

I just feel like nothing is going right for us. everything we seem to plan we end up cancelling and I can't help but see a bleak future for us both.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, we have been together for just over a year. It is a long distance relationship and I am due to move in with him in the next couple of weeks. I have recently started to feel like this is not what...

He says he can't be with just one woman anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - Very confused asked for space from boyfriend of over 5 years because of commitment issues and him wanting an open relationship (hes 45!!! im 42. we both have been married before and had children from our previous marriages) We are best friends and ...

He's so stubborn when we argue

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 467 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - When my bf and I have an arguement, by the end of it, I say sorry, and he says too but it doesnt feel that he means it since mjority of the time he will try to do something after that just to piss me off..and I just take it in and bottle it inside ...

I miss my ex but still have feeling's for my child's father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I have feelings that're scattered between the father of my child and my ex boyfriend before him. I left my daughter's father last November and my ex boyfriend before him wants me back. My ex boyfriend broke my heart. Things were going great ...

After three years he's still not sure; should I cut my losses and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - okay so i am going on a date with my boyfriend tomorrow night. we have been on a break thing for the past three weeks, he wants some time off to decide if he is ready to move in and go the to the next step. we have been together for three years and ...

He's not interested in sex; is it hopeless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - My bf of three years has had not much interest in sex for the second half of our relationship. For months I didn't say anything as he was busy and tired so just put it down to that. After a long while I raised it and he said was that he didn't know ...

I want to get my life on track and I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - Hi All. I could really do with other people's advise on this. I suffer extreme depression and anxiety. This has got progressively worse over the last 10 years. It got so bad 3 years ago i had to leave my job and i have not been able to work...

I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now! I think we were good mates but found out she really fancies my best mate. My best mate has already got girlfriend and hates her. She's used me a lot to get to him, my friend told me everything ...

I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities, he is entirely blameless for me feeling this way (so he thinks) he won't see anything from my point of view, I was once a cocky confident person, now I'm ...

We're going to sell up, move away and start again, opinions on this would be appreciated.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Hi guys, It would be nice to get some opinions on my situation as it is at the moment please. My husband and I were going through some business and financial difficulties early part of last year and it caused us to lose sight of each other. My ...

We both cheated, but she got pregnant--she was the worst, right?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend has always screwed up things in the relationship and we seperated but still lived together. I cheated a few times and she knew because I stayed out all night. We got back together and started new then we broke up for a week. She ...

My girl wants sex all the time, but I don't--I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - I sometimes wonder if my g/f is really serious about being with me, or just wants me for sex. I don't have a high sex drive much anymore, been there, done that so it's not my driving force like it was in my 20's. But she's always horny for me a...

My boyfriend is all over me in public, but not at home--what is up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is all over me in public and never touches me at home! Why?...

We're always at physical war with eachother... I'm beginning to like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - There's this guy i like a lot. I've told him this but he's taken it as a joke. Recently i've been in a war thing with him where we've mucked each other up. He put toothpaste and shaving gel in my hair and I did other stuff to him. Because we're ...

My girlfriend wont buy my car, but I think she should

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - I recently suggested to my girlfriend that she could buy my car off me in about a year or so when she has passed her test. She hasn't even started learning yet. The car itself is in perfect condition and everyone who sees it wished they had a car ...

My girlfriend never wants to have sex anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. When we first got together it was without a doubt the happiest that I have ever been in my life. But now things have changed and I don´t know what to do. She doesn´t want to have sex with ...

She thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly ...

I have been with my partner for 18 years but she said she doesn't feel the same way about me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 467 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - hi I am in a cohabital relationship with my partner for 18 years we have allways enjoyed a happy relationship together but recently it has all gone wrong. She says that she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore like she did. I have recently ...

How can I keep my boyfriend in a good mood when we're out in public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like advice from guys and girls on this subject: Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. There are so many times when we are falling asleep that he hold me and tells me how much he loves me. He is very ...

He's looking at pics of exes and have also caught him texting them....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I feel so stupid. I am dating someone, and have been with him for a year now. But things are different. He used to tell me that I am beautiful, that he knows I'm meant for him....that the sex was good, etc. But now he doesnt do those things. We ...

She was crazy, but I miss her and my family so much.. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - A couple of years ago I met this gal who was 24 yrs.old (I'm 47) I was working for a band, and she walked right up to me and licked my face. Normally when women are that forward I am turned off, but for some reason this totally blew me away. She ...

He's been chatting online to women with the webcam and even plans to meet someone!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Several months ago, I found out my boyfriend (of 14 months) was using a webcam to chat online with other women while I was gone. I found this out because I came home a little earlier than he'd expected one day and caught him. He told me he wasn't ...

My guy is taken, but is taken with me, but wants to run back to his fiancee

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - i have been friends with my boss for three years now. we started seeing eachother 2 months ago and i am madly in love with him. he says he loves me to. but we have a few problems with our relationship. 1) i am only seventeen and he is thirty 2)...

Update: How do I apologise to my teacher for bullying her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - Hi yet again its me, Im writing about the teacher I bullied again. I was walking down a corridor alone today at lunch time and the teacher was shouting at a pupil for bullying. Suddenly she looked at me turned to the girl n errupted, she sa...

We both love each other, but life situations seemed to have killed the spark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Seven months ago I met the best partner I've ever had- he was cute, smart, professional, established, had a great sense of humor, and we're into similar things. He treats me well too. We fellin love quickly- I think he said it 3 weeks in- and ...