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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My sister wants to go back to this horrible man and I'm terrified for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My sister moved to the another country many months ago where she met her current boyfriend and I recently went to visit for a week. In my time spent there I quickly realised that she was in an abusive relationship. My sister is only seventeen and it ...

I feel so lost and don't know what to do is he acting different because his friend is there or is it because he is actually leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - So, my boyfriend of two and a half years is in the military and we have a long distance relationship. We had relationship problems before because we have been apart for one year and we both have trust issues. Recently, he has met a friend and I am s...

How do I earn his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I 've dumped my ex-boyfriend twice within a two month period. Honestly, the first time I dumped him was because he hadn't contacted me in three whole days. So I returned his belongings, and I when I did his mother answered the door. He ended up ...

I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so ...

I cant continue this LDR but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi After ten months of a long distance relationship, I can't go on. I love her, love my time with her, but the relationship model is all wrong, it's not working. We have just done the "time to think" thing, I know we are finished, so does she, we ...

8 years, 1 child, another on the way..how do I get him to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are both 28 and have been together for eight years. We have a three year old son and I'm currently 8.5 months pregnant with another boy; we even have three fur babies (a dog and two cats)! We've talked about it several times when we ...

Can we work this out?

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31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We recently got into a huge fight, because I feel that our relationship has become boring because we never go out or do anything anymore. He often makes plans for us and then breaks them, saying ...

Who lies more? Girls? or guys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (?) - do girls lie more then guys? If so, explain in detail. Why do girls lie to guys and why do guys lie to girls?...

I'm falling deeper in love with a woman 26 years my junior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the...

I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry....

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

Its stupid to say I'm sorry when I'm wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Why do people say I'm mean because I dont apologize and feel bad when Im wrong? I talk to them after a little while so shouldnt they know Im over it and they should be happy I talk to them again? Why all the drama and stuff? It's stupid. Why they ...

Girlfriend is emotionally blackmailing me unless I agree with her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I’ve been with my gf for almost 11 months, and we just had a conversation that severely divides and strains us. She’s 25. I’m 26. We’re both Asians. My mom had wanted me to clean her dryer front trapped lint for some time at her home. While cleaning ...

My mom treats me like crap and I just want to leave home but I have nowhere to go.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi. So this is my story, i'm 18 years old. I live with my parents and my older brother but it hasn't always been like this. When i was a baby my mom couldn't take care of me because she worked and she didn't want to leave it so her sister took ...

Boyfriend can't stop flirting behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. He's really amazing, he always puts me first and acts like a perfect gentleman and he's very sweet and forgiving. But he can't stop flirting behind my back. He doesn't do it in person, only on texts an...

If a man loves you, would he call you a bitch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly ...

Low libido or unsatisfied? She loves me but shes tired!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - She says she loves me! She says she's attracted to me. She says shes tired. Ive been living with my gf for about a year over seas. We live together and work for the same company, we share the same dreams and get along very well. we are both at...

Emotional rollercoaster. Help me get off!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - How do I control my anger and not put a strain on the relationship? I'm going through tough times right now. Mostly in the financial department. I have a job, but my hours are slipping. I've been applying for jobs, but hearing back from potential ...

Suddenly developing feelings for someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I am experiencing something new and confusing to me and thought I might seek out some advice from strangers who can perhaps more clearly judge the situation without being biased. I've been with my current partner for nearly 4 years. We live t...

Big boys do cry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - So a while back in my relationship I was chatting with an exboyfriend on facebook....mainly because my mate and I were going through some hard times. I have never cheated nor have I thought about it, nor do I desire to.....even on our worst of ...

How can he think the world of me and then treat me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.I was seeing this guy recently who is a nice guy in some ways, but he gets in moods sometimes. He walked out of a bar once and left me in there on my own because he was in a mood because i had arranged to go and see a show, and he ...

Should I leave him? Or am I blinded by the stupid things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, everything was perfect. I have the perfect boyfriend, really, but I feel, and have been feeling like breaking up because little things DO GET ON MY NERVES. Here's the problem : - H...

I cheated on my long term boyfriend, but I don't feel guilty at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - well... i've been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and so far, it's been ok... Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly beacuse, even though we've been together for a really long time, he doesn't trust me. Sometimes it seems like he's the on...

How can I cut ties with this amazing man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, hope you are all well. I need advice on best way to cut ties from a guy. As I'm not liking the person I'm becoming. Ok, so I'm 30 and I met guy who's 27, about 3 months ago. We met in a bar. I'd just moved back to the big city and moved to ...

How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...

I think he loves me, but I feel like I'm just a replacement for his crippled wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I am married for 4yrs now, my husband works 800km away from home and occasionally comes home for a day or two, we have been friends with our neighbours for 2yrs. My neighbour and myself have grown close because he keeps an eye on me (safety sake) ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

I'm upset about not celebrating my birthday with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i have my birthday coming up very soon, i dont particularly like doing things for my birthday, but i do not mind doing something which may pleasantly surprise me. But anyway, my partner didnt cancel work in retaliation of me booking work, but ...

Ex has just broken up with his girlfriend. How can I get him back without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I ...

Can an abusive person change their ways?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. ...

How do I tell my best mate I'm in love with his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - im with my best mates sister and we have been together for about 3 months but known each other for a few years, my question is that none of her family want us sleeping together but we have and we had great sex but i dont know how to tell her brother ...

10 years no sex, engagement ring I've never given to her..what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I am 38. My girlfriend is 40. We have been together since 1992. When we first met I was almost (but not quite) totally inexperienced with women and my girlfriend, although having had sex with maybe 5-6 guys was inexperienced with relationships. S...

23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact w...

My ex wants us to get back together. I want to have a longer break, but I'm also scared of losing the one I love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - My first boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. Within that time he has asked me to think about getting back together with him, even though at the time of the break up it was 'years' until he said we could get back together. I agreed we could tr...

He's slowly pulling away from me and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. My best friend (who I happen to have a crush on) isn't talking to me much these past few days. He used to talk to me everyday for hours non stop and he would call and text me.. then he stopped calling and now he won't even ...

My boyfriend can't support himself, doesn't seek out jobs, is a druggie, can't drive, wont educate himself, is overweight, and wants to marry me! Do I stick to it and try to find him a job, again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hello, are u ready to read?? I don't know what to do anymore, we've been going out for more than 3 years now and he has never got a job. We are 25 years old, i'm a university student and i work and live with my parents, so i do have a little i...

How do we mend our suddenly strained longterm relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey there, I need your advice. (Sorry in advance if I add a bunch of random details.) My boyfriend and I have been having a pretty rough few weeks. We just haven't been getting along. We've been together for almost two years, and we've only ever ...

On-line friend suddenly cut contact, but I'm still talking to her brother and want to visit their family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So i'm in a little bit of a pickle. I am nearly 17 years old in July and i need support on an idea/decision i have made. I have been friends with my "online friends" for about 2 years. I live in Scotland, "tamara" lives in London and "Suzi" lives...

Help me, what should I do with this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i m in LDR for the last three years..... we deeply madly inlove with eachother.... sumthing happened 2 years ago that created lots n lots of troubles for both of us ... and eventually we had to get departed cuz NOW our families would nt let us get ...

How I got out of an abusive relationship!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I have noticed so many woman suffer abuse at the hands of there partners and as somone who has suffered a really abbusive realtionship and come out the oher side i want to say how i did it! Firstly if you have a freind that is in a abusive relation...

The guy I dated briefly said that I scared him with my questions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I dated this great guy for a month. He said on the third date that he like me very much, we also had such a great time togheter, lots of laugh,and a great chemistry. We were also very attracted to eachoter, even though we didnt have sex (he said it ...

Should I forgive my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I want some advice, my mother and i have always had a strained relationship, she made me live with my grandparents as a child and then would up and move me every time she found a new boyfreind, then as i got older she would help me get a car etc and ...

My insecurity is starting to affect my way of living and my relationship with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - im a very insecure person, i dont like the way i look at all and unfortunately its started to effect my way of living. to make things slightly worse, i have a very good looking boyfriend. he knows it and so does everyone else. i always get 'you're ...

Disastrous visit to best friend and a hurtful remark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (?) - My best friend and I live about 1300 miles apart. I went to visit her in Florida for a weeks vacation. Things didn't go as well as I would have hoped. The problem was her husband hung on us every minute. I could tell she was uncomfortable and I was ...

Is this just a glitch in our relationship or should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some help to work out how I feel about my bf - when I'm not with him, I miss him, and think how much I love him; but lately, when I spend time with him, I find myself getting bored and irritated, and I'm not sure if this is normal or if ...

How can she love me but still have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Here's my dilemma.. I have been with this girl for two years.. We net at our old job. She has been wonderful to me, and we were very much in love, to the point we had a child together who is now 9 months old. Just recently she broke it off with me, ...

I think my boyfriend is losing interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys, quick question. Lately I've feel that my bf has been growing distant and he tells me that when I am away he's indifferent to the relationship but when I am with him he loves me. well lately he's been (I feel) not treating me with respect ...

He patronizes me, and doesn't take it seriously when I try to talk to him about it! Is the respect gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So I'll give you the background, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half and for the most part everything has been great, it's been since we've started our GCSE's that problems have been arising, mostly because of my absolute ...