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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I think I need an intervention to leave him. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) - My boyfriend moved into my house almost four years ago. He has a verified history of keeping outside "relationships" with other women. Last June I caught him in a heated romance with a co-worker, Stacy which he denied, but then suddenly to...

Why does he need to text other women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I have been married to my Hubby for 5 years, I met him when he was married but he left his wife, before the relationship became sexual.. He is everything a women could want and we have the best time and life together, we have now Bern blessed with a ...

That lie really hurt me and my self esteem what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - My very first boyfriend... from high school broke up with me after two months... he lied about me around school nothing to serious... then we played games back and forth for a whole year...we then graduated but kept in contact.. we decided to meet ...

Help I'm lost and confused... torn in between what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - help.. I'm love with a guy that has a history of cheating he cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and and cheated on her with a mutual friend from before... Im wondering am i just another pawn in his belt buckle i am a virgin he knows that and...

My husband doesn't LIKE me - What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - History: Married 4 years, 2 children ages 2 and 6 months, own house, I'm a stay at home mom, he has a good job with promising promotion capabilities, we are financially stable but not rich :) Problem: He is a very loyal person who believes tha...

Was he just toying with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - well,i liked a boy a lot for two years.he was my first love. I was sure he liked me as well and everybody thought the same. he was always after me, showed all the possible signs that he was into me, but as time passed by he never really asked me ...

He broke up with me, now he wants a second chance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I have a major dilemma. I was dating a guy for two years. After a year of dating, I moved to his city and we got a place together, where we lived for a year. We had discussed marriage, kids, etc. Well back in December his mother suffered a stroke ...

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I recently ran into a guy that a year ago I had a relationship with for about 6 months and I thought we could become more. We spent 4 days out of 7 together usually on a weekly basis and he called me everyday. He was married for 6 years and just ...

My girlfriend teases me about how small my penis is!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) - my penis doenst erect properly it is only 4 inches while erecting my gf makes fun that it is very small in parties i cant speak out all make fun of me please give suggestion one of her friends told me why dont you use Viagra i am helpless ...

Will my breasts be a turn-off for all men or is it just bad luck that I'm with a guy who doesn't like them!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I had previously asked a question regarding the fact that my breasts have started sagging as a result of weight loss and my boyfriend hates them and wants me to have surgery. I want to know if d cup but saggy breasts will be a turn off for all men ...

Emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - hi, i desperately need some advice, i have been with my partner for over 3 years now and then i found out that before i met him he used to download illegal porn and sell for money, as he said he needed the money. I found out that he lied on a few ...

How do I break up with him without totally crushing his heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years and it's been a good relationship. He's 25 and I'm 22 and we live together. The problem is that I love him but I'm no longer in love with him. I've been thinking for the last 5 or six months ...

I need opinions from others. What's he playing at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hi This is a long story so hear goes... Well there was this guy I met at a club. He saved me from another guy who was trying to basically attack me. We hung out for the night swapped numbers. He contacted me we would talk on the phone for hours,...

How can somebody live a lie forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I am a married man who has been happily married for 12 years. I recently met a married woman who has been with her partner for the same amount of time. We started as friends but the relationship quickly grew into love. Just love, not sex. ...

I cheated on my girlfriend, it was a huge mistake. I don't know whether to tell

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year now. 2 months ago she left to go overseas on exchange but I'm going to see her in 2 months and stay with her for 3months. I love her enormously and we've had an amazing relationship. 2 week...

A little help for the guy stuck in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I'm a guy that always has girl-friends but never in a relationship I'm starting to believe I'm every girls straight gay friend you know. I can talk to a girl for weeks or months and go slow find out more about them and try to show them that I'm ...

Why do I keep pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Help! I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and I keep pushing him away. We have a very loving relationship and life would be perfect if I didn't keep getting paeranoid that he was going to dump me! I struggle not to ask if we're ok all the...

How can I deal with this situation without seeming clingy and insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I usually spend every night together and most of the day. This just works well for us. It's been going on for 8 months now and we haven't gotten tired of it. We both agree that we have something wonderful and special and are ...

My boyfriend tells me that I'm ugly and I look anorexic with no boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend tells me that im ugly have no boobs and that im starting to look like im anorexic. i have already tried splitting up with him that lasted about 6 months and now i been with him over 2 years all together and i cant get over him. Please ...

The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...

How can I get over my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I cannot get over my ex and its been more than a year. The last time I ever saw him him beat me including a punch in the face. I was with him for 3 years and so deeply in love. I feel like such a pathetic loser for loving someone that treated me ...

I don’t know whose right or if we’re both right or anything about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I haven’t talked to my boyfriend in a day and a half because I left my phone home so I won’t constantly look at it wishing he would call more. He’s been calling me a lot and I call him back when I get home which is pretty late because of classes. So ...

Will a puppy heal my loneliness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hey.. umm I have a question. Im 18 years old, i just started college and im about to go away to school next semester. i met this boy in school, and we got together. i fell in love with him and as my first love, i lost my virginity to him. when i was ...

Am I just over sexed or is sex just over rated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - im 21, multiracial, mostly black female and my fiance is 31yrs white male we been together going on 3 and a half years and im frusrated because i just want him to have sex with me am i just a hornball because im young or is he just not into my sex i...

We fight all the time and there's abusive language...help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship for the past four yeras and the guy does mean a lot to me.Though he loves me a lot,there's no proper understanding between us and every other day there's a fight and he can get really angry and use an abusive ...

I crave being wanted but then feel I don't deserve it! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship question, although I'm quite sure my relationship (or lack thereof) with my father affects my relationships with men. I've hardly had any contact with my dad for my whole life. He hasn't wanted much to do with ...

Should I leave her to experience and learn for herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - so i have a good friend and she started going out with this guy about 3 months ago who is an absolute arsehole.. he actually reminds me a lot of my exboyfriend whom i was with for 3 years which only ended in heartbreak... its so hard seeing her put ...

What should I do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - hi i am a 20 year old female and have been seeing my boyfriend for four years. we broke up about 11 months ago and things got a little crazy between us with fighting and that but about two months ago we ended up what i thought was patching things ...

He said "if we do break up it's eventual," what on earth does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems to really like me, texts or calls me whenever i don't see him, hadn't seen him for a week, he came over and wouldn't let me go, asked what id been up to that kind of thing then made me promise that if i get fed up or want to leave ...