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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend and I argue all the time, she thinks I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

30 September 2007 (M - hi,me and gf argue all the time recently,she doesnt trust me even tho i am loyal,she threw her engagement ring away and now we cant find it,she got annoyed cos i said i was goin to pick my mum up and stay the night before she lives 250 miles ...

After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ...


   

How do I get my sex drive back after a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - I Am A New Mom And Am Having Trouble Seeing Myself As Anything But A Mother. It's Been 2yrs Since My Baby's Father And I Have Had Sex And It's Hurting Our Relationship. I Don't Know What To Do. How Do I Get My Sex Drive Back?...

Is my guy who's 12 yrs younger than me not ready to settle down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - I feel too jealous and it bothers me. My bf is 12 yrs younger than me, im 33. he has a cute face and there are always girls come to him and he enjoys that feeling being liked by others,he usually doesnt tell them in the first place that he has a ...

Should I stay with my wife or go with the woman who has always been there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

30 September 2007 (M - I have a situation that i think if i talked about it maybe it might help. I got married in 96 to a woman i thought was everything to me,she had a child of her own from a previous relationship. i didn't mind that at all. We had our 1st child a year ...

   

Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...

I've been backstabbed at work. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - This isn't about boyfriends but relationships at work, so i am not sure if it counts. My friends have never had this happen to them though so i dont know who to ask for advice. This is basically my problem... I am finding it hard in my new job. ...

Can a relationship with someone who values their friends over their girlfriend, really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - I have a friend who Im interested in being more with him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, however Im not sure if it would be a good idea because he has this attitude/beleief that friends always come before girls, so 'bros before hoes' type of ...

Please tell me what you would do if in my situation. I really need your advice!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - Can someone tell me what the hell they would do in my situation? I'm 23 years old and live with my parents. I am completely independent and fully pay my way - EXCEPT that if I happen to get home from work and my parents have made some dinner...

He likes motorcycles and the biker girls who hang out with bikers. I am afraid I might lose him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - I have been with the guy I love since the first night I ever hung out with him. We started dating that night and 4 months later, we got engaged. Now, we are 6 months into the relationship. It happened fast, i know, but oh well. He bought one of them ...

He presumes I'm cheating but has allowed himself to be hugged in public by his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

30 September 2007 (F - my boyfriend pressumes im cheating, there is no truth whatsoever in these allegations,yet he allowed himself to receive a hug in public from his ex girlfriend and feels it was ok ...

My bf is so immature and sulks if we disagree, then won't budge, even refuse to go out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - my fiance is so immuture and sulks if we disagree,i make the first move and he continues to behave like a spoilt brat and refuses to budge even declines to take me out,should i just go out with the girls since he doesnt want to know? why should i be ...

She told me he didn't do oral but after our break up she did it with another guy. Now we're in a serious relationship and bittered by this thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - dear cupid, i've been dealing with this female on and off for about ten or eleven years now. when we first started having sex i asked her could we have oral sex, she told me she didn't do that but after she stopped dealing with me she started ...

I find myself feeling pathetic and depressed because of her changeful ways. Her mood changes so easily without explanations.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - hi, ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months. i love her very much but her mood towards me can change soo easily, i dont even have to do anything. one day she can be passionate towards me then the next day she can be incredibly distant like i ...

My gf said her boss would ride her to the airport for a business trip, before leaving she said she'd quit her job because I seemed...jealous. I was not, although having discovered flirtacious texts from him. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - I need some advice about my girlfriend. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes them. For the most part the texts I've ...

We've been going out for 3 years and just moved in together - and he never wants to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - me and my b/f have been going out for 3 yrs just moved in together but he never wants to have sex i'm 21 and hes 35 what should i do...

His ex is putting him in debt and I don't like that. Should I stick this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - Me (in my thirties) and my boyfriend (in his forties) entered into our relationship over three years ago, though we were friends for a few years previous. Before we were together, we were both involved in relationships where we financially supported ...

I helped her with tones of things and we were close. But she came back from vacation as a whole different person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same ...

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...

They broke up a year ago, he's still not over her, should I give up or stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - I have been seeing a wonderfull good man for 5 months now. He is not over his ex. He spent 15 years with her, she was his only other girlfriend other than myself. They have been apart over a year. They have no contact with each other. The ...

Is it fair that he will be leaving me on my own for a month every year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - I moved out to new york to live in new york where he is from and where his business is out of. But now he is going back to colorado every january for a month to rent his houses (his other business). Im basically out of luck because i don't have my ...

I don't know what's going on at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - Hi - my boyfriend has emigrated to Australia (since May) and although he wants me to join him he is currently texting me at 3am, 4am (his time) from bars at least once or twice a week. I have asked him whether he would like it if I went out ...

Is he trying to get out of the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - I think my relationship has run its course, though I'm scared to say it. We're nothing at all like we were when we first started seeing each other- we were spontaneous, amorous, happy- everything lovers should be. We are each other's first ...

Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling ...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

She cheated on me, and I was going to propose! How do I get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?....

Does anyone else think this guy is taking things too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - Hi! Sorry...this may be a bit long but I just want to give everybody a bit of bakground info :) I met this amazing guy over the summer. Let me start by stating that I’m 24 and he’s 22, so this isn’t some high school summer love. He was just pass...

Distance of 300 miles is starting to eat us up. How can we find the common ground??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 September 2007 (F - Hi. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and 9 months. we're very close and very open with eachother.. the down side is that we're long distance. about 300 miles between us..(i'm in the s.f. bay area and she's about an hour from los ...

I've only ever had one relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 September 2007 (M - Very trivial, but I hate how long it's been since I last had sex. It's been.. Almost 5 months. I've only ever had one relationship, and it lasted about a year and a half. I still have a lot of feelings for my ex (and PLEASE don't just assume that...

She's 19, married, and wants to give her husband a 2nd chance.. But I want her to be mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

28 September 2007 (M - Ever have this feeling, if so what'd you do? met a girl, she's everything i'd ever want... our chemistry is amazing, like we were meant for each other... we make each other happy... but she's 19, no kids, married and is gonna give him anot...

Been with the guy I love before, but he's dumped me for stupid reasons in the past... 3rd time lucky?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - hello, i really want someone to help me plz this is the situation i think i still love this guy i have been out with him twice already but they didn` t last long as he keeps dumping me for stupid reasons e.g. once he dumped me because he had a ...

I'm not coping with my past abuse and its affecting my relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (M - Hello, I am a 29 year old male living with my fiancee. I am really struggling with my past abuse, and while she, too was abused, it did not affect her in so many ways as it has with me. I have come to realize that I do not really know what it means ...

I don't know what to do. My guy keeps dumping me because he doesn't like my mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - ok here goes its really weired but i think i still love this guy, i have already been out with him twice and both times he has dumped me for the most stupidest reason e.g. he had a argument with my bestfriend then dumped me for it. i really don` t ...

Someone has txt me telling me my guy doesn't want me anymore. My guy wont talk to me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - hi...i posted questions on here a few times about a boy named "J" well things were going really good. i loved him n i thought he loved me....well we got back together after 1 day of being bronken up. So he was supposed to walk with me like always to ...

What shall I do, I don't love him anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - hi i been going out with this boy 4 5 months now but i have relised that i dont love him any more.when i kiss him i dont feel anythink.plus he been tryin to snog me but i dont let him what shall i do?help plz ...

Shall I plan a romantic night to mend our rocky relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - if our relationship is a little rocky do you think letting my mom watch my son and planning a romantic night is a bad idea ?? ...

Does my girlfriends boss fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (M - Help, I need more advice. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes ...

I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. W...

Do men run to arms of a stranger for the sexual "escape" when they are under stress, instead of being with their partners? Is my bf going to cheat and blame it on the "stress" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - When my b/f is stressed out about work, he tends to not want sex. Okay, I can understand that, I know stress can affect a person's sex drive sometimes, but recently during one of those stressful phases, my b/f e-mailed a female friend and made a r...

In love with my soon to be husband, but can't push away the feelings of lust for other men...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - normally i am the one giving the advice but the tables have turned. i love my man and we are getting married next year and i cant wait but i am lusting after other men. i have 2 really close friends who have said that they love me and if anything ...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

We're on break, but he's still excited to go apartment searching for US! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - So i tried to talk to my boyfriend last night, to have that neutral conversation. So that way he can tell me how he feels annd how i feel. IT backfired! He can never tell me hows hes feeling really. This is what i got from hhim: "I feel rushed with ...

We're on break but he says we're not postponing the holidays together, already reserved. I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - ok I have a gourgeous boyfriend who I thought adored me. We've been arguing over little and big things for a while- not least having to postpone our 2 week holiday to Thialand due to a washed passport. I'm 27, he's 29 and has a 10 year old son. We...

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...

The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always be...

I don't like how my boyfriend talks dirty! Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - my boyfriend talks dirity all the time hes says to ome oh my penis is hurtting do you want to see it i dont know if i should dump him or not cause i like him but i dont want him to say dirty things....

I'm having problems finding a partner who suits me in the bedroom because of my size!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

28 September 2007 (M - i know you might have heard this so many times,but this is true,i am very big downstairs,i have had a lot of problems trying to find a gal who can take me,or give me a good blow job,i do enjoy lots of foreplay and oral so i have no problem getting ...

The guy I'm seeing has been gone for a week, but now he's back in town...and he hasn't called me! What should I say and do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - i started seeing this guy i dont know exactly what it is about him that made me like him a lot. But he's great. i dont know what's been wrong with everything lately. like, i've always given the guy space whenever he needed it. i guess i've always b...

I told my FWB that I'm being tested for cancer and he left! Just how shallow is a FWB situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - Here's one for you women in friends with benefits situations - Guys just how shallow is a FWB situation? I recently told my "good friend" of 9 months that I had to be tested for cancer and he emailed me that it was a good time for him to disappear...

My partner doesn't love me, but I'm hoping his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

28 September 2007 (F - I'm in a relationship with a guy who doesn't love me. He cares for me and how I feel, but he is not emotionally attached to me. This is my first relationship in 10 years, I am hoping that in time his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? ...

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