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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She doesn't seem that interested in me, what do I say or ask to make this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I have a really big problem this is pretty long but i need help. One of my best friends has a sister that really liked and she liked me to. so we decided to go out and now everyone is cool with it. At first it was great cuz I Love her and shes the...

If she had said very immature things to you, would you consider still liking her? And what should she do to make you like her again?

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3 September 2009 (F) - Hello =] This question is for anyone to answer? If your a guy and you like a girl and she messed up by saying really stupid and immature things would you still consider liking her or not? And by meaning messed up like really emailed emailed y...

Online girl with boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - First of all, I feel stupid for having the feelings I have - it's so easy for me to fall for someone, it's unbelievable but this girl lives about 6 hours from me and has a long term boyfriend. I feel like a fool for the way I feel about her. We h...

Why does he never see it from my point of view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Why is it that he constantly thinks I have something to hide or that I'm not telling the whole truth...then later I find out lil details he's left out and when I point it out; I'm over-reacting??? Or how everytime I just want to vent, he can never ...

Perhaps I'm not such a good judge of character?? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I met a guy who is a friend of friend a few months back. We got on well even though he appeared quiet and reserved initially. Eventually we left the bar together, leaving our friends behind to go to another bar where we chatted for another 4 hours ...

What game is he trying to play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - a guy i liked has told me he likes me whilst he is still with his gf. he then asked if he asked me out would i say yes? i said he needs to be single first. he then said he has left her though i don't think he has. i didn't hear from him for a w...

Heartbroken new mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I recently got married to the father of my 2 month year old son. I thought everything was perfect, but to my surprise... there were many things that I did not know about. We've been together since we were 17 years old, and now we are both 21. ...

Should I put up with the conflict for a while longer so he doesn't leave on deployment on a worse note?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Im was married at 18 and gave everything for my husband. He and I had only been with each other but he wasn't happy married and I knew it. A few years ago my mom passed away and I flipped out. I left him and started just sleeping around. He found ...

How can I take control of this "out of control" situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I feel like my marriage is really in trouble and we have only been married a year. We married later in life and he has grown children from a previous marriage. They are his top priority. He makes sure their needs are met even though they are all ...

Too old for this "Does he love me or doesn't he? routine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - This man is driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!! We get on well. Very well and always have a great time and laugh. He knows I'm strong and I won't put up with crap!!! But this thing of "does he love me does he love not" is getting kind of tiring and boring. ...

Love problems, porn he's not into me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Ok, where do i start? Me and my fiance have been together for about 8 yrs. I'm turning 21, and hes 30. My fiance used to be really interested in me, always touched me, did all the little things that count, like have a romantic song playing when i ...

G/f got fired because her phone kept ringing and I was the one calling her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I have a major problem aunts, i have been dating a girl long distance and everything has been going great because of how much she likes me, i didnt think long distance could work but it is lol. Well we can only really talk most days at 12am till 2am ...

Destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I'm late 20's and never had a girlfriend and don't think I'll ever have one. When I was a child I was often called ugly by girls, this made me resent them, and I never so much as bothered try to talk to a female about going on a date. During my...

Recently separated and in love with friend of 15 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - OK I think my best friend is in love with me. He helps me clean is supportive and loving when he thinks i am in pain. He finds reasons to bring my name into the converstion at social gatherings where i may or may not be present and he has admitted ...

I really like him so why do I blow hot and cold with him?

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3 September 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what I am doing, I keep blowing hot and cold with this guy who I really like. We have known each other for a few years, never dated but we used to work together, we have kissed a few times, he wanted more but I said not at work but ...

What prompted her to cut off all contact with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - A long story short. I met this girl in Germany over the summer (she's 19, I'm 30). Things were great, we really connected and enjoyed each others company. There was without a doubt love coming from both sides. We lived together for about 2 months ...

My girlfriend is very close with her ex's but wont let me meet them! Should this be a warning sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 7 months is very close with her ex husband and ex boyfriend even though they both left her, she considers them "good friends". She keeps her relationship with the both of them very seperate from our relationship and is insistant on ...

Can someone please tell me what's going on in his head??

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3 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been devastated. I really love him, but I read that if I ever wanted him back I should cut all contact, so I did. I heard through the grapevine that he had gotten a new mobile phone number ...

Help!!!! In love with my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm in a serious relationship with a girl, Will have been a year in October, But I think im in love with my best friend. We have knwon each other for about 3 years now, and we first met when I was going out with this guy she was mates wi...

How can I repair my "sister" relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I need help. i have a crush on my step sister, She is older than me and we didnt grow up together, but i also class her as a sister. i enjoy talking to her and asking advice from her, but i decided to tell her my true feelings the other day and now ...

I proposed and now she wont answer my calls!

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3 September 2009 (M) - kindly help me out, am finding it difficult with my relationship.acturally i propose to lady and her reaction has been so bad that she hardly pick my calls.am so worried in that i usually find myself thinking about her,emotionally am not balanced.i ...

My younger lover seems to have gone off sex, has he lost interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid Tell me I am in a relasionship for almost 5 years. My fiance is 10 years younger then me. We have 2 kids together . We use to make love a lot, but 6 months ago things just changed? We havent made love ever since. I did ask him and ...

He says he has women on the side just in case I cheat on him so he wont look like a fool!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and - of 6 yrs. Have our ups and downs. He has cheating on my once in the past about 2 and a half yrs ago. we grew up together. High school sweethearts so technically I have been dealing with him 6 or about 10 yrs. He got me a ring he ...

What does he think of me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Ok I heard this, that words Dont hurt but we all can say that thay do. I been told things that are not always nice all my life. But thats not whats bugging me. I have a friend that a guy and I also have a friend thats a woman I didnt think she ...

The father of my child has left me for another woman, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - i have a question i love this guy very mutch we have a daughter of 3 and wer together for 8 years. his with someone for 3 months now. we had sex 3 times while his with this woman . she dropped him but now his back with her. what do i do now....

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...

I need opinions from married or committed bi-sexual men.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm involved with someone that's bi-sexual. He's 29. On his bi-sexuality: -He does not want relationships with men. -He does not want candle light dinners with men. -When he's out, he's looking at other women. Not men. -There ...

My boyfriend begged me to end things because he has feelings for someone else, but now he wants to give things another go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 14months.we've had our ups and downs like every couple but we both love each other.however he has meet this girl through a friend a couple of times and has admitted that he has started to like her.yesterday ...

Early in relationship shes saying she wants to settle down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - This is the whole story of my last 2 months: It was a girl I knew since high school, but we never kept in touch, and now a couple months back, I met her again for the first time. After the first meeting, we really clicked and our conversations we...

I cannot cope with the guilt I feel of my mother dying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - My mother has just died of lung cancer and I cannot get over the feeling of guilt. I'm absoltely devastated - I loved her so much and she was far too young to die. She has been in pain for many months and has seen the doctor upteen times. Th...

Why after 8 months would be be in touch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I dated a guy back in December...started dating on Dec. 1st and dated for 28 days. We knew each other for two weeks before hand. A friend(Brian) of mine from college set us up,Chris went to another college (actually the one I am at now). They were...

Dating a guy who's got a past of betrayal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I am dating a guy that i really like but I am desperately afraid because of his recent past. His now ex best friend betrayed him with his ex girlfriend of 7 years. I don't know the details of what happened but I am assuming they must have hooked up ...

My GF started crying when I asked her to cut off everything with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - HI EVERYONE, I'M 28 years old I have a sex problem. My fiancé don't like having sex with me, cuz I'm not packing. She cheated on me twice that I know of, I don't know what to do she cheated on me - with her ex boyfriend she still wants to call him....

I offended her over a little thing, now she won't have me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - I was dating this girl for little over a month. She has had guys do some very bad things to her. A year ago her ex husband talked her into an abortion. The day of the abortions he stayed home and got drunk with his friends. That is why he is here ...

He was obsessive about calling but now he's not calling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can ...

Relationship trouble and I'm so hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a nice relationship for eighteen months after coming out of a painful marrage. After two years being single and bad dates, I met this wonderful man through a business associate. The honeymoon stage seemed to have lasted through t...