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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend traveling abroad is posting on Facebook but hasn't called me like he promised!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I am writing for help because I have never been so confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with a lovely man for just over a year and we have both said how happy we are together, we get on perfectly, do great things to...

Found old love letters in my partner's sex drawer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - This morning I discovered old love letters from my partner's ex-girlfriend from over two years ago-- they dated for about 6 months. I don't care about him still having them-- we all keep mementos from the past-- but I discovered them in the "sex ...

Ashamed I wasted 18 months with someone who puts me down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Yet again my boyfriend of 18 months has ruined another special occasion. Yesterday I left work early and made a real effort to make his birthday special. I bought him lovely gifts, dressed up and booked a table at his favourite restaurant. We w...

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend adding a woman on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I'm so upset. I noticed that my boyfriend has added a woman on his Facebook page. She lives in another country. There are photos on there of her dressed in revealing clothes. The clothes aren't revealing on all the photos, but she is dressed up on ...

Was this man just using me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi I'd like your opinion. I was going out with my ex from March 2013 to Nov 2013, he called a halt to our relationship after I text him asking what was up and not to shut me out. I was right, there was something up, but he called it all off. In...

Having doubts about starting a relationship with this woman. Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me. Afte...

Why did he start playing games? How should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy on tinder and we started talking and hit it off right away... turns out we have tons of mutual friends. He was nothing but reliable and up for texting for hours. I found it nice that he even called me as most guys just text these ...

Should I apologise to the ex for my wrongdoing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I broke up with my ex 7 months ago because we fought too often. We had a brief period of no contact, but eventually he started talking to me again about once a week. We decided to give things another go about 2 weeks ago, but I bought up old issues ...

I can't get over the breakup and the nasty comments I've heard since.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - I have seeing this guy for 3.5 years. We met on the job and I thought he was a good man, come to find out that he is insecure, low self esteem and a big flirt. At first he said he was not looking for a serious relationship but over the yrs he f...

How do I get over losing my best friend? He's rejected me and moved on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - I don’t know how to deal with the rejection of my best friend. He and I were best friends from 13 until 22. I have always been a good friend to him, been there for him, run to him when he has needed me, and even when he has closed the door on me wh...

I suspect my husband of cheating but can't confront him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi, where do I start! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 children. Over the last 3 years I've found several occasions where my husband had been trying to get the attention of other women by both texting and facebook. I'm ...

I gave my ex another chance, reunited and I am pregnant - now I find out he cheated and lied. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi To cut a long story short. I've been with my partner for nearly two years. A little less than a year into the relationship my partner treated me real bad. I don't want to go into too much detail but it left me devastated. We was on and off from...

Tired of husbands childish traits. How should I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Sometimes I really dislike, maybe to the point of hate, my husband. Most of the time he's a great guy. But he has some childish traits that can go beyond irritating. He likes to push buttons and tease to the point where I get genuinely angry,...

Stuck in a bad marriage. What am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, I'm a mother of 3 at the age of 27. I'm tired of my husband anymore, it seems that he don't want us, me and my kids.. he always tells me that I'm useless and also he is not a hardworking type of guy..he can't even feed us 3 times a ...

Taken advantage of in business with friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi all, I have a problem with a friend that I have known since I was 12 yrs old. Recently she opened a shop and as I have a manufacturing business she asked me if I had any excess stock that she could put in her store on consignment. For those w...

10 days and I haven't heard from him. Will I hear from him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - So I started talking to this guy on an app called Tinder and he was super cute and sweet and we talked for about 2 weeks and were talking about maybe dating and how much we liked each other already without even meeting. And then we went on two dates ...

Is she just too independent? She doesn't seem to care about me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Is it Ok to want to be alone all the time? I have a friend (a friendship only) who loves her own company, which us fine, we all do at times.. (she lives alone as do I) but its to the point now where she really geniunely likes being al...

I want to just spend time with my boyfriend and not do other things. I know this isn't healthy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - So I'm in a relatively new relationship. Met him in May, began dating in August and have officially been in a relationship since November. Here's the thing I completely adore him! I was with my ex for 6 years and during the majority of that ...

I read my boyfriend's journal didn't like what I read but now I want to read it again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I'm usually not a snoop, I trusted my boyfriend when we were together, but I did something I'm ashamed of. I read his journal, and I didn't like what I read. It basically said his was unhappy with our relationship among other things, but nothing ...

I'm confused ! everytime I tell him about a guy he get mad & not talk to me for days !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi, i've a littel problem that i Really wanna share... So, i've known this guy since september at the day of his birthday, he send me a friend request on facebook and ince that we became closer and closer, he is the rock, he saved me a lot of t...

Confused about my boyfriend's intentions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend, our relationship started before 5 months, I never new him, we met on the whatsapp. He proposed me within 6 days, without any meeting, now we just met at once in 5 months and had sex 1 time. Till now he didn't proposed for marriage...

Intimacy in the relationship has declined. Is it the beginning of the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Will this relationship work? I feel his feelings for me are over. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, 4 of those years we were happy I remember him being in love with me. During our 4th year I got pregnant with a baby girl, no...

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). ...

I know I'm just being jealous and my friend is just having fun but I feel like I'm being cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last night my friend and I went out on the town, I dressed up, put on a nice dress, did my makeup properly and for once made an effort. My friend came out in jeans and a t-shirt. She's put her boyfriend back in the dating zone (he still loves ...

How normal is anxiety in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I'm worried that my anxiety isn't the 'normal' everyday anxiety. This is because when it comes to relationships, I freak very easily, for example, I've seen this guy twice so far and tonight he wants to go out again. I'm currently feeling very sic...

We're not together anymore but we still act like a couple and have sex... it's starting to get to me. Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last month my boyfriend decided that we "take a break" (or in other words: break up) and we've been together for maybe more than three years, but we've known each other much longer than that because we originally were best friends. Him and I have b...

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...

When we argue my girlfriend holds her education over my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - Thanks for the responses in advance. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 4 years now. We live together. She is ready to graduate with her masters degree and I have recently graduated with my bachelors (I was not accepted...

My girlfriend's ex boyfriend bothers her and it's starting to bother me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and her ex boyfriend don't get along very well now. They broke up last summer and she and I started dating a few months ago. They still talk and he is really a dick to her. He says some really mean stuff sometimes, but I don't know the ...

I feel his loyalty lies with his friends! Any one else in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is the most caring and thoughtful person when it comes to just us - however this soon changes when his friends are involved. I made a huge effort with them including them on my nights out, letting them stay at my house, c...

If I'm the only woman he ever wants to have sex with then why is he imagining doing it with other girls, maybe even ones he knows?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I know this was a silly thing to do, but yesterday I looked at my boyfriend's search history when he was out. We've been together almost 2 years now and he wants to marry me, have kids with me and I know he's the one I want to be with for the rest ...

I'd do anything for this guy even though he hates me and probably was never even a true friend to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Ok so I've been struggling with this for a few years now I and just want your guys opinions. I was a freshman in high school I didn't have many friends and was really quiet. Well when I met...this guy I immediately wanted to get to know him. This ...

Should I move in with a friend to get away from troubled family situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in ...

What can I do? My new teacher does not like my family. He used to teach my sister.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I went to meet my teachers for my classes and when I did I found out that one of my teachers used to teach my sister. I know he hates my family. What do I do?...

Is this a guy thing? Some he met online, some in real life or through gaming. Should it bother me that they flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3737 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - My problem may sound ridiculous to most, but I'm really hoping some can understand or relate. I'm having problems with my boyfriend and his female friends who he talks to on Facebook. About half of them he knows in real life, and half of them he ...

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude w...

What takes away attraction and charm suddenly when you actually want to take things forward!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Hello cupid I have read a lot here where people mention they really hit it off until suddenly the girl or the guy becomes distant after two three months. Okay my question is that I understand when there is mystery,we are attracted to the unknown...

Did he settle for me initially because he couldn't get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - Hello I would like an opinion If anyone has the time? I need to know If I am just plain insecure and low seld esteem or If I have reason! I'll try keep to the point. Got with my boyfriend 2 years ago, when we first got together he was texting ...

Worried that my insecurities will ruin my happiness and relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I'm so worried all the time when it comes to my relationship. I've been with my lovely, sweet, thoughtful boyfriend for a year and a half. We are living together for a year - it felt right as we had known each other a year before dating and we both ...

I've become pregnant and BF and his family have ADHD/ADD running in it. Will my baby also have it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I was dating a guy for nearly a year. He is a good person but he had ADHD and ADD, which was very stressful for me. It could no longer cope with it and it had to end. Let me explain, his condition is quite extreme. He had been diagnosed since he...

Is my boyfriend insecure or just clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about two years, and at first things were great, we got on really well, had mutual interests and everything seemed great. As of late however, he has become more and more clingy and moody. He was studying abroad ...

My boss is not as friendly as he used to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - I'll keep this brief. I started working for this company about 9 months ago. A friend of mine is the executive there so he helped me out. The boss of my department showed me around the first day, normally it's another person that performs the tour...

Should I keep on pursuing her and what can I do to make things in forward direction ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

26 January 2014 (M) - Hello cupid I have been pursuing a girl for three months and I seem to like her. I have started to see a pattern where I have to always initiate the conversation and when I do, we seem to talk for quite a long time (in person or text)! If I don't,...

How do I confront my housemate about his ridiculous obsession with my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really appreciate the opportunity to speak to someone about my worries, i have never openly discussed my problems with an agony aunt before. One of my housemates, currently a student, has an unnatural and exaggerated attrac...

We hooked up, I fell for him and now he's dating someone else. I'm having a hard time hiding my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with a situation with a guy. I've got myself stuck. At the end of last year I had a fling with a boy who was part of my friendship group. He was much younger than me, so when it started I didn't take it seriousl...

Fallen for my best friend, now he is being stubborn and inflexible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - I have known my best male friend for about 6 years. During this time he's been my rock through ups and downs including tumultuous relationships. I live in a different country from where I grew up (where he lives) a lot. I have often sensed that he ...

I don't like how this girl affects me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

24 January 2014 (M) - I don't like how much this girl affects me. I met her in October of 2012, and still cannot stop getting that tight throbbing in chest when I see her or someone mentions her. When we met, I was depressed. She saw the cuts on my wrist and showed m...

Is his contact with the girl from the AA meetings violating their open relationship rules?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Ok- I am posting for my best friend because it is an issue she is struggling with and came to me for help/to talk. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her. She is engaged and living with her fiance. They are in an open relationship and have been to...

Should I invite my husband's sister to our son's party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Hi, all! I need some advice. Our eldest son is turning 4, and his party is this weekend. My husband doesnt get along with his older sister, at all. Every time they are at an event together, they end up in a terrible argument. I will admit she isnt ...

My husband told me he doesn't find my body attractive! What now?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - *Sorry if it is lengthy** I am in desperate need of advice. To be blunt to start out with, my husband reluctantly told me that he doesn’t find my body to be attractive. I am 24 years old, about to turn 25 next month. My husband is 28 going to...