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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can't make friends or make any impact on anyone. No-one cares for me as I do them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem with making friends with people. I get nervous around people and don't know what to talk about. I don't do much minus work and sleep and it takes a second to say I went shopping at the weekend or went to church. Peopl...

Why do people resort to lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hello dear cupid, a quick question - why do people resort to lying? why are some people complusive liars? And even when you know the truth and they know you know the truth, they still lie and try wriggle their way out of it, even if it makes th...

Girlfriend always thinks I'm going to repeat what I've done in the past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - I need help me and my gf are going through a major fight she thinks I will never change when I already have she dwells in the past thinking I will lie to her and cheat on her when I won't I love her to death I would do anything for her I never want ...

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentin...

How do I stop from always fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - DEAR CUPID and everyone else, I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and things are going great I love him with everything but he sometimes does alot of stupid things that really irk me for example he was suppose to meet me and said he was ...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

I allowed an out of town friend to stay at my house and now my boyfriend doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My friends, am back again yet with another issue, what happened last saturday is something i did without thinking and i didnt now the outcome,we were having drinks with my boyfriend and two of his friends and one of his friend brought another ...

B/f has no understanding of my feelings! I don't want to be with a man like that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and i know that he loves me too with all his heart but my problem is he cant understand me! my feelings(emotional),why i sometimes cry w/out reason,when i say nothing,when I'm in silence..everything! he cant understand ...

Guy I like broke up with me after seeing blood from my period during sex. What can I do??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I had a huge crush on somebody that I met 3 years ago. He was so cute and from another state. From the first time we met, we knew exactly that we were attracted to each other. He stayed at the hotel and we exchanged our cell phone numbers. The sex ...

My wife implicitly condones an affair. Instead of elated, I am mortified!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 20 years. In that time our sex life has been meager. Lately, if we have sex once per year we are doing good. My wife and I have started (for the fourth time - this happens every years or so) to talk about the proble...

I want to grow old with my ex but not with all these lies inbetween us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Alright well im lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year. this is the most longest and serious relationship ive been in. im 17 and shes 20 (but doesnt act like it). And well when we first met we were oh so very madly in ...

Should I let my baby's daddy back into our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hi everybody,please help!My boyfriend abandoned me since i was one month pregnant. Now my baby is 9 months and he does not know the baby. It's been two months since he is back in my life(not in my son's life),I have been trying to learn more from ...

AM I OVER REACTING, OR AM I RIGHT TO BE WORRIED?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - My partner of 5 years child and ex husband are going overseas for 4 weeks. For the first time ever she has gone over twice this week to iron his clothes as she want to help them prepare. she and her ex after years of not really getting on , now ...

Family chains are weighing me down. I want to break them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I am a delimma..and living like this just makes my life that much more miserable..I want to wake up everyday feeling good about what I am doing but I don't,its more like a burden something I am forced to do..I am currently in med scho...

Does anyone have any advice for me until my doctor clears me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I was raped two years ago, and the guy gave me HPV. I have been cleared of the virus, but I still have cancer cells that my doctor is trying to remove. He just performed a procedure where the cells were frozen. He has instructed me not to have sex ...

Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always ...

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

I have noticed some changes in her, what could be the reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I met her in the internet since 10 months ago , we live so far away from each others , we clicked so fast , and we felt we should meet up , prior to that we felt love but we wanted to see if that's real or not , we met after 3 months of chatting in ...

Should I accept these gig tickets from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 1.5 years, we live close and spend about 5 days a week together. For the first 6 to 8 months of the relationship it was very difficult mainly because I found she used to bring up her ex everyday, obviou...

My girlfriend is becoming more and more distant, does she still love me? Does she not want to be with me because of my illness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hello everyone Thank you for takeing the time to read this. A lot has happend these last few months, i got diognosed with skitophenia (sorry still cant spell it) lost my viginity with my girlfreind. Been hospitalised three times for epi...

Unwaranted feelings of infidelity....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I'm in a committed relationship and I've always been in faithful. I've always been a person who is against infidelity and never understood why anyone would do that. But lately I've been wanted to cheat, and i cant understand why. Help please!...

He thought he had found proof that I was bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) - My fiance asked if he could play with my ipod at work (he likes this bird game and scrabble lol) I told him it was fine with me,he took it to work and then 5 hrs later He is saying "we need to talk" I texted him "why?" and he told me he found a half ...

I always said I wouldn't and then I did, and I would do it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long response but please bear with me. So here's the situation, me and my friend recently met this guy. In our town he is very well know as being quite the eligible bachelor. He is everything a girl could ask for (he ...

So confused if I still love him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a full 7 months now and we will be going on out 8th, its not crazy long but I knew when we first got involved in about 3 months time that I loved or love him but I am realizing that now I am feeling not so sure ...

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i ...

Do women give men too much leeway in relationships? And too readily take him back after break-ups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Simple question for ladies and gentlemen....Do women tend to give men too much leeway in relationships? Do women take men back too often, too soon, too much after they have been done wrong?...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

My affair ended abruptly and the lady just disappeared without saying a word.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hi! I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. I have been married for almost 6 1/2 years now and had been having problems with my marriage. I have been working so hard in communicating with my wife what the problems are but she just doesn't...

I feel I should also sleep with someone else while I'm single to get this out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Im a in a real bad moral situation that i cannot seem to make a decision on. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl who i love dearly. We started growing distant and she broke up with me on the day my dog died. It was a real heartache and i asked ...

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, ...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who ...

Please helppp! should I try to save my relationship or ended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is 36 years old and I'm 20. At the Beginning of our relationship everything was perfect, we used to go out to dinner, watch movies, go for walks at the park. We had our issues along in the ...

Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counsell...

What am I to make of his confusing approach to sex and our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - ok here goes this might sound strange but it sounds strange to me too. sorry. ok i have a bf of 10 months, we are both going through rather difficult stages, i have family and work proplems and he has financial proplems and we are both pretty s...

He doesn't treat me that well, but I'm still so drawn to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi there everyone, I have a question for all of you and any help will really be appreciated. Last year me and A were together for about 10 months on and off he even lived with me at one point but we both had our problems both drink and mental ...

Is he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I feel like there is a need for a background but I'll try to be brief. Thank you for helping me! My boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 (we're both from Latin America, attending colleg...

Do I have to meet him? Is it possible that he is still in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - please help me, this is the scenario: my ex-bf and i been together for almost 6yrs until he went to dubai for work. we had long distance relationship for more than a year until his american citizen old classmate who was in USA pop into his ...

Should I be worried by his behaviour when he is back in his home town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about three months now. We're in a long distance relationship but we see each other fairly often, usually for weekends. I have just spent two weeks with him (he came to my town and lived in my apartment for that ...

Any chance that he’ll come back around? What did I do wrong in the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Two years ago I started dating a man who is a single father. I have no children. He has full custody of his now 16yr old daughter and one year ago, found out he is also the father of a two year old son. (The mother located him 1.5yrs after the child ...

My confidence has gone after dating a man way out of my league!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so here is my dilemma. I am 33, I am ok looking, not ugly and some may say pretty, but not anything special just your average girl in the looks department. I would say a 5/6 out of 10. I have happened to meet a man who is 30 and who is drop dea...

Is he starting arguments to break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have had a couple of questions with some really fantastic answers which have been really helpful, with a difficult relationship there are a lot of questions which spring to mind, I've just had lunch with my partner of four years, he consistantly ...

Are his friends more important or am I over reacting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hello, Where do I even start? me and my bf have been going out for 9 months. he has just moved flat and now stays with two guys from his uni - one guy of which, i have a dislike towards sometimes as my bf has ditched me before for him and also...

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Or leave and face being on my own?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hiya!! I know you get a lot of these, but I would appreciate advice on my boyfriend. He is 26, lives and works in London and is the nicest bloke I have ever dated. He is caring, loving, would never raise a hand to me and has acccepted me wit...

Cheating on my girlfriend was a mistake, but this other woman wont leave me alone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I decided to stop masturbating then I started cheating on my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend of 3 years now she lives far away from me and we cannot have sex as often as we want. There is a girl next door whom I slept with two times, this new girl ...

Should I get back with my ex? She left me for her ex, but he beat her up so she wants to come back to me again!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - So my ex gf, who dumped me to get back with her ex boyfriend who hits her, wants to get back together. Im the complete opposite of her ex, hes a badboy kind of guy who doesnt do shit with his life, while i on the other hand, work two dead end jobs ...

My best friend's wife hates me when there is nothing romantic about my relationship with her husband! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - ok i have a male best friend i mean we are even closer then best friends more like brother and sister hes 9 years older then me. he calls himself my gaurdian angel and thats what he is. he helps me i help him. anyways hes married and has 2 kids. in ...

Why is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous about his ex's? How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Dear all, Myy BF of a few months has recently started trying to make me jealous about his ex , and the mother of his kids. ( they are apart). I am not sure why he is doing this , as things have been very good between us for the last few weeks, ...

The girl next door.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Got myself into a BIG TIME JAM! even by my standards, I started seeing my next door neighbor, well, Ive just recently started to find out she thinks more of her then she will ever think of me, and my gut is just telling me to jump ship, well easier ...

Still living with my ex and he is acting like we are still together! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me in January. We still live together due to financial reasons, and have agreed to stay in our current place until our lease is up at the end of the year. I have moved into the spare bedroom and we live as roommates now. ...