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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't stop flirting and sleeping with men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 21 yrs old and have 2 beutifull children with my boyfriend of 5 yrs who i love dearly and who dearly loves me, but I cant stop flirting and sleeping with other men. I flirt all the time online as i cant sleep with the men online, but if i go ...

I've had fictitious allegations made about me at work! Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am totally devastated as a work colleague, who I thought I got on well with, has suddenly reported me to management insinuating some serious allegations about me that have supposedly occurred when this individual and I have been alone together. ...

Why won't he be honest about watching porn, and share it with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Okay I'll try to make a long story short. I'm in my early 20's bf is in his mid 40's He "has" ed BUT when we first meet he COULDN'T keep his hands off of me. Now 3 years later he watches porn. Unlike many women I don't mind it, I watch it too BUT...

I want to know where our relationship is going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - ive been seeing this guy for two years and our relationship is okay for the most part when I asked where was I in his life he replied and said that i'm what he wants and needs but he is afraid of losing control instead of being happy if left me more ...

He never says he misses me or that he loves me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Cupid, I really need your help! I feel so silly writing on here, but I figure it's the easiest way. If I ask my friends what they think, I know how they'll respond and it's safer to get an unbiast opinion... Anyways..I've been going out with t...

Fiance wants to go away with another man to meet his parents

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I am in a unique relationship as I am living with my fiance and our baby girl (6 weeks) and my fiance's bestfriend. A gay male. Now when I met my fiance she was living with this man, her gay friend. They met in the gay bar scene and are really c...

It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone...

A forced kiss has led us to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for a year, and then he moved across the country to go to school. (He's 2 years older than me, but just one year older in school.) We continued to date long distance for the school year, with me going to visit him at Christmastime, and ...

14 years down the drain because she's confused?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hello. I've been with my partner for 14 years and it has been fantastic. We both met after having broken hearts and have become each others soul mate, best friend, etc. We always say that we were brought together by fate. We have rarely argued an...

My teacher thinks I like him and now he's avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have a new teacher this year who is 24 and has a very friendly open personality. The type that is often more of your friends and discusses DS games. Up until a few weeks ago he has always being nice to me, since then he has been very distant, bu...

Misunderstanding between me and a friend keeps getting worse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi i was really good friends with this boy in my class and we used to have fun hanging out tgether. We were reasonably close for about a month but then suddenly on monday, i went to school and i felt like he was cold shouldering me. I thought ...

My g/f thinks I"m having a gay affair with one of her friends! I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm 23, been with my girlfriend since second year of university (Nov. 2005), and our relationship's been mostly good. Yes, we've had arguments, like every couple do, but usually silly ones. However, my girlfriend has recently started ...

G/f says that I'm not your call girl..I get no affection from her at all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I am 21. I and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now. I always try to make her happy by cracking jokes, make her laugh. In our 1st 6 months, she completely ignored me as if we were just friends and took more interest in other guys. But ...

Boyfriend becoming more and more aggressive with me, is it because he's using steroids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) - so i will be 16 in less than a month and my boyfriend is about to be 19 in about 2 months. we have been together for a total of 3 months now, but we had been hanging out as friends for the last year. now that we have been together, he is more and ...

B/f asked me to get rid of phone numbers but then sends a text from the old number? Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I wonder if you guys can help me handle a problem I have got. During the course of our 2 year relationship, my boyfriend has had 3 mobile phones which is not a problem as we keep our old phones (I have had 2) in case our new ones go wrong which ...

B/f keeps telling me to move out when he knows I don't have enough money, treats me badly so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - All my weekend are a mess ,i have been having piece jobs for six months and this time I have got a jb which recently started .I also do massage at home well it is not busy am still looking for clients by advertising. My problem is I moved in with ...

Boyfriend's a jerk, cheated on me 4 X already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - this might be hard to explain but i need people's opinions and advice. i had been seeing this guy for 5 month and in that time he cheated on me 4 times and had "pictures" of another girl on his phone. but recently we decided to put the past behind ...

I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...

Is he bored now that the chase is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone sorry if this is long and confusing! Ive been seeing a guy for the last two months, in the beginning he was very keen and had been chasing me for quite a while, texting me all the time wanting to hang out and chatting on msn oft...

My girlfriend is going out clubbing without me, how do I feel comfortable about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Friday night My girlfriend is going out this Friday night and I am beginning to feel anxious. I just need someone to talk to about it to as I get a bit paranoid. Basically she will be going out after work at about half 9 with her friends in...

Is this rock bottom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - ok so first off I dated a girl for a while bout a year. I thought I was in love. in fact I knew I loved her. she told me she loved me. we didn't get to see each other so I arranged to take a trip to cali. about two weeks before we left i was at work ...

My girlfriend never tells me she loves me and calls me homie! Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Okay I have a Problem with my LDR relationship and need some advice. Alright well My girlfriend of 2 months (we were friends before hand for about 5 months) Never tells me that she loves me while talking over skype as we do. She will type it to me ...

I'm worried that he doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating a very nice man for 2 months. I have worried that he doesn't seem to have feelings for me--at least not on the level that I'm feeling. I talked to him about this on Saturday. He said he has been told by others that he is ...

How do I deal with my girlfriends strict parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been talking for about seven months now. her parents are really strict so we like never get to be together. i met her mother not so long ago, she seemed to like me! but its her step dad that is really strict. i want to ...

Why does he want me back when he clearly couldnt accept me the way I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My ex bf just told me he wants me back, but he is the one who broke up with me in the first place. During out relationship he was always pointing out all the things that he didnt like in me, such as my values and beleiefs and just generally my per...

Should I leave him and start my life over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Please help. I am so confused. I don't know what to do now. I date with this guy for 2 years now. He is 8 years older then me and he said I am his first girlfriend. He said he use to date before but nobody take him serious. He is kind of plain (ugly ...

Was she just behaving like this because she had just woken up? I don't know why she is treating me this way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - hey my girlfriend treats me really bad when i try to help her still or at an time tonight i woke up and said i love you to her quietly so she wouldnt wake up but she did, and she was wearing some hair curlers or something. it one became ...

He masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. I don't know whether there is something wrong with me because I know he masturbates to pictures of other women and it bothers me. I've talked to him about it before but he just tells me that ...

If she really does love me surely she would be telling me more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - i told my girlfriend i loved her a couple of nights ago in bed. She replyed " do you? I love you 2". she said she had been thinking it for a while. i was thinking maybe it was too early to tell her as wev only been together about a month and a ha...

Who do I choose: boyfriend of 1 month who makes sense, or risk a new exciting connection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, so here's my problem. I've been dating this guy for a month now who i'd had a crush on for 5 months before we started dating. It's been really great but now i've moved back to college which is about two hours away. I know its not that far of a ...

Visions of girlfriend's past come into my head and I can't deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Im on the verge of not being able to be with my girlfriend anymore because of her past. I can honestly say im depressed. Its come to a point where every time I look at her visions of her past come into my head and they will not go away. I...

How do I become more selfless in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year and a half. We are in our mid-twenties, and we have talked often about getting engaged soon and getting married. In other words, we're in a pretty serious and committed relationship. We have b...

I'm pregnant, lost my job, and feel like my life's spinning out of control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Help me I don't know what to do. My lifes spinning out of control in a downword spiral. I just lost my job on friday. I'm pregnant. My fiance don't want to move in with my family because he can't stand them. But it would be the best choice cause if ...

All of a sudden my b/f is easily upset -- why is he acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. We're a perfect match, or says his friends and mine. Lately he hasn't been being himself. He seems mad and upset. And, he seems to get mad at me really easily (Example; For bringing up a ...