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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Got family problems going on and me and my boyfriend are fighting constantly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy since Febuary 27th 2011; I have known him for a long time... I do love him. I feel so lost with out him. In a way I depend on him alot. But we are constantly fighting. I can not stand it at all. I have so much going on, w...

Does my mum have the right to take away my computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I'm 19, I've completed a year of university and have recently decided to take a gap year and earn money because I'm not sure if higher education is for me. My mum is threatening to take away my laptop (which she gave to me when I started uni) ...

My boyfriend is 22 years older than I am and I lied to my parents about his age!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. I am a South African Indian and he is a White man. I just got divorced from an Indian guy that was the apple of my parents eye. They did not know he treated me badly. After my decision to leave ...

How do I politely tell my man to man up, and how do I tell my future mother-in-law, politely, to stay out of our affairs and not to interfere in our plans?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some advice on how to deal with a domineering future mother-in-law. I have been in a relationship with my guy for the past 5 years, who just graduated and is now working. It is not my intention to marry now as I am still ...

Why can't I leave my boyfriend when he doesn't even care about us anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I'm 26. been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been thru the death of my son, thru drug habits and have come out together quite alright. He has been there for me at my lowest point of my life ever. I feel like this is something I cannot let him ...

He doesn't want to break up but keeps on cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me, is over friendly with all his gal pals, always hugging them, getting drunk with them, calling them sweet names, always wanting to be with them, sharing everything with them. He has cheated on me with some ...

Why I am still stuggling to get over strange ex-girlfriend?

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31 August 2011 (M) - Is it possible that a girl spent 2 years with you and still not sure about her feelings for you? I was a in LDR with a girl who belonged to rich family but I was from middle class. Whenever, we would meet she would sit down on distance from me. She ...

He has only made love to me twice in 5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last 9 years after moving from the UK to Canada to be with him. I love him more than anything, but there is a problem with our relationship in the bedroom department. He has only made love to me twice in ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

My boyfriend called me a whore, but he's the one who wants to mess around.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - hi everyone. I really need som help. I dont know wgat to do anymore. My boyfriend and I have been together for the last 5 years, but now he hates me.. He calls me dirty names and accuses me of cheating. All the time. He says that he wants to play ...

I couldn't take back my ex, and now I wished I had!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, right now I have no idea what to do. Anyone that can give me words of comfort, advice or anything would help me so much. I will try to explain what has happened as best I can and show how i feel as much as possible. Basically, it ...

What is he playing at? Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - What is he playing at? should I just move on? There's this guy that I really like. We're chatting and getting to eachother at the moment. But he's putting me off him.. He's playing hard to get, I really hate it cos I like him a lot. We ...

I would love to make my boyfriend happy but it's just so much effort and I get nothing out of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and love him so much and still find him very attractive, but when it comes to sex i just cant be bothered.... When we first got together we were doing it all the time but its faded to only about once eve...

Why would she come after me and at the moment when I reciprocate a little she gives me a cold shower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - What's your view on this woman's behaviour? Here's the story: I have a female colleague about my age. For the last 6 months she's been passing by my office often, smiling, being flirty, offering to make me a coffee, and all that. I perceived her as ...

He wants me to have sex with someone else because he has no sex drive, and he wants to fool around with a man again as he is bisexual! How do I cope with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I'm in need of some serious advice. So lately my husband's sex drive has plummeted and our sex life hasn't been that great because along with his sex drive his stamina has plummeted as well. Well he sat me down two days ago and said that he knows he ...

Married woman feeling very guilty over feelings for a married man, how do I get rid of these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - i have a male friend who is married and we have been friends for over 4years. I am married also, happily, and that is why i am very confused as to why i'm having such feelings for this man. We have never done or said anything inappropriate or menti...

Has he fallen out of love with me? Is he just putting up with this because its easier than breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend over 6 years now, hes 28 im 24 we have lived together for a year. He has become distant, doesnt make much effort these days, i also found a text on his phone saying to his friend 'Any excuse to get away from the missus ...

I cant stop sleeping around when I'm drunk!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have a very embaressing problem. I cant stop sleeping around when Im drunk. In the past month, Ive gone out a couple of times and got absolutely plastered, pulled some bloke and took him back to mine. I have sex with them then I kick them out. In ...

How am I ever going to trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I recently asked what I should do regarding my partner of 5yrs who was texting another girls for sex first of all thanks to every one who helped. but now my new thing is I've agreed to stay together but can't stop thinking about it how am I going to ...

She wants an abortion but I disagree! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Ok so I don't know where to start.. I recently found out that the girl I've been seeing is pregnant with my child. The problem is she does not want to keep the child she wants to get an abortion and I strongly disagree with her! What can I do for ...

How can I just forget about the chemistry I have with my boyfriend's friend? Why is he telling me he wants me one minute and then saying its a joke the next minute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - hello again, another dilema in my life. Basically, my boyfriends friend and I have gotten rather close, started with banter saying how we are secretly together and just telling each other how sexy and hot we are all for a joke. Weeks went by, and ...

I don't even know how to react! After 7 years part of me wants to move on, but then another part of me cant let go.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Bear with me this is a long one. Alright so 7 years ago a friend of mine introduced me to this girl over the phone while I was in summer vacation in my home town, we immediately hit it off and kept in touch through the phone, a few days later I...

All I want is to feel like he wants to talk to me. . . is that so much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I'm trying to keep this as concise as possible, but there's a chance I'll ramble on, so if this seems too long, feel free to ignore it entirely. I won't be hurt. This June, I went to a camp at Stanford. I met a guy there. We spent three weeks hang...

How can I show my boyfriend that his violence toward me is wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, Please help! My boyfriend seems to think there is nothing wrong (technically) with pushing/shoving me and grabbing things out of my hands if he is angry. He also does this motion where he makes a fist and comes at me as though he will ...

My boyfriend is unappreciative of all the things I did for his birthday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys, Am I a doormat? Twas my bf's birthday over the weekend, really annoyed that he wasn't happy with anything. I organised a party and was given out too because he said he didnt want one. Then I was given out too for inviting the wrong people...

Confused and heartbroken are an understatement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am not entirely sure what my question is. but I would love some advice..actually really need some advice. Anyway 3 years ago my friend introduced me to a friend of hers online, I never met him but we'd talk often over msn etc. He was looki...

We used to be in love but now its all going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Alright, so I'm having soo many problems with my boyfriend right now. I'm bored of our sex and he can't really give me an orgasm anymore. I asked him if we could try a threesome and he got really really pissed. He asked who I'd choose and I told him ...

How do you just 'relax' in a relationship? I'm afraid of scaring him off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I'm afraid I'm going to ruin this 10 month old relationship with my projecting and second-guessing. I'm a viscerally emotional person--I tried antidepressants for 12 years and they just make me flat, so I refuse to go that route again. These ...

Is she trying to brush me off or maybe she's playing hard to get?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I've written various questions of a theme about a married woman at work to whom I am very attracted, and her attempts to brush me off, ignore me etc (successfully i might add) I had a fairly off the wall thought in relation to this...

This guy doesn't like the way I dress and makes me feel weird. Should I date him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy I met in a Bar, just for four or five times, he seems polite and hasn't asked me for getting off or sex, though he behaves weird and avoids contact like me touching his arm or thinks like that when we are close. He has told ...

My FWB started liking another guy so I downplayed my feelings for her, now she seems to be falling for the other guy even more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - i have a sex partner we've been having sex maybe just over a month now.. but i feel like our sex has been going down a hill lately.. how do u spice things up? and.. i am falling for her but she told me she likes this other guy who she just m...

He wants me to be normal with her so her husband doesn't find out about their relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - me and my partner just had newborn baby (4 weeks) his cousin wife come down to help me i just had a gut feeling that some thing was going on i walked in the living room and they were kissing hes apoligized but doesnt know why he did it and now he ...

What help is available to give us some support? My Step son is terrorising the family with his behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - This is very long but there is no way to shorten it. I have been in this relationship with my GF for 3 1/2 years now. She has both a daughter (8yrs) and a son(11yrs). My relationship with the daughter couldn't be better. It's the step son. H...

My family still treats me like I'm a little kid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I'm sick and tired Of being treated like a little kid when in fact I'm Turning 20 in less than a weeks time! My family has double Standards for everyone in the family whilst my sister was out abroad living in another country doing as she pleased a...

Boyfriend moved away for college... Drama... HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years and have been best friends for 5 years, so we are very close and very much in love, mutually. Just two weeks ago he went off to college. He now lives 6 hours away, so we realize we won't be...

Do I ask my co-worker if she wants to be left alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - I was just wondering how best, you ask a female work colleague if she would like to be left alone? Dont get me wrong, it is not like I am harrassing her, however lately sensed that on the occasions when I have tried to strike up a conversation, ie...

In a relationship with a partner sending nude photos to others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am wondering what someone say about this situation. If you are in a relationship with someone, a long term relationship, is it ok for one of those people to send nude pictures of themself to other random people online, in hopes of getting some ...

He will not share his feelings with me any more. Does he really still care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - hi i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and i believe he stopped caring about me and i dont know how to make him understand how hurt i am and i truely love him with all my heart. i put up everything of me into this relationship .... but the thing is im a...

My BF and I have a few issues. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - hey, im a 17 year old female and have been seeing an 18 year old guy. hes extremely physically attractive and we get along quite well, except for a few issues: #1: he can get very very jealous and wants to know where i am at all times. #2: he wa...

I feel like I'm losing my mind because of my cheating boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy 8 months ago, things went really fast and I fell so in love with him and unfortunately still am despite the hurt he gave me. After a month of being with him I discovered he lied about a few things and I made it clear that I wan...

Its hard to fix a problem when we can't talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Me and my man have been together for 8 years. I've been posting different questions/problems to figure out some sort of clarity on what I need to do. He has 3 kids I have 2. Currently we live long distance. We have a huge communication problem. ...

He doesn't seem to accept any share of the responsibility for our communication issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hey guys, hope you can help me out. I'm involved in a LDR with a man who lives 5 hours away, we love each other very much but have recently been going through a bad patch. Me and him are pretty much opposites, so we don't always understand ...

He says they're only text messages, but they're about trying to meet up for sex with another woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I seen some text messages on my partners phone which indicate he trying to meet someone for sex but she turns him down when I confront him he pleads with me and begs me to stay saying its only messages and he regrets it. Now we been together 5 yrs ...

Three questions for men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Three Questions to guys : 1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how? 2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile? 3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer ...

Now that he's got new friends, he's not talking to me enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay so let me start this off by saying for the last few years my boyfriend hasn't really had any friends, and has basically only had me to hang out with. Anyway, he moved away for school a few days ago and is having a great time with all his new...

My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

How do I tell her I am truly really faithful ? And avoid her getting mad at me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfrien...

The one that got away. Did he care? What could I do to get him back, if ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So I’m sure we all have a story about someone we loved and it didn’t happen or wasn’t meant to be for circumstances beyond our control but for me, I messed up a good thing completely. So it’s the same old story girl meets boy, girl likes boy like...