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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend wants to get married and we love each other a lot, but I can't help dwelling on my past mistakes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we went out and bought an engagement ring recently which we are both thrilled about. My problem is, I am disgusted at my past- who I have slept with, mistakes I have made, and subsequently...

She gets so drunk, she's always talking to her exes, and I can't help but wonder: Is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 months has been drinking a lot lately. Whenever she gets drunk she calls all her exes. I work in a remote location for 2 weeks at a time and every night I call she's so drunk. I call and she's always talking to an ex. When I...

My girl walks all over me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend never seems to stick to commitments with me when we plan to see each other, i'm always asking her "when is it best to see you" i'm always having to ask when i can see her next, and more often then not she never sticks to the plans and ...

Little things make my husband snap and become verbally abusive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - My husband has an anger management problem -- over the smallest thing he flares up and becomes verbally abusive, never accepting what he has done wrong. I can't handle it anymore -- what do I do?...

My husband lied about ogling other women and now I wonder: is he lying about other important issues?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - When I met my husband I was honest and told him I couldn't handle a relationship with a guy who ogles other women. It wasn't until I was pregnant that he admitted he had lied and had been doing it A LOT! But then he told me he had changed. I forgav...

I'm paranoid that every girl I date will cheat on me...how do I stop thinking this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - i have just been dumped by my girlfriend and she says she needs me to prove to her that i can change. i am very paranoid over things, i admit there is no reason to be paranoid over this girl cheating on me. i have been hurt by every girlfriend i've ...

I got beaten up by an ex bf and it's affected me..I can't trust anyone. Will I ever be able to have a happy relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - OK, this is a hard topic for me to put, there isn't really a catorgory for it. I don't know where to start but i dated one of my friends earlier this year as a rebound from my ex who im still not over, my friend suddenly changed dramatically and ...

My bf of 4 years doesn't give me what I want..do I give him an ultimatum or start seeing another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Ive been dating one guy for 4yrs. One year we actually lived together, but it drove me crazy; the lies, the kids arguing, ..... Now we live apart but still see each other almost every day. My kids love him. I love him. But he is not giving me ...

I pay his cell phone bill and he uses it to phone other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 yrs. Really started off strange but we're still together or should I say I am still together. Newest problem comes in, I pay his cell phone bill because one, it's in my name. But I recently found ...

Did expressing my love for him scare him off? We spoke again but he still seems distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Okay. I was the one who told her boyfriend that she loved him but didn't get the same in return. Well, just a small update. I talked to him last night. I gave in and called him first but he did call me back again last night. Anyway, I told him ...

She's unsure of her feelings for me. It's very confusing as to whether she wants to date or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I have know this girl for nearly 2 years. At first it was just a really close friendship but after a while i wanted more than that. I got feelings for her that i have never had for anybody else before. When i first told her about these feelings she ...

I'm worried my online friend will return to his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - hi i met someone online, 5 years ago but that time we couldnt meet cuss he wasnt ready for a true relation yet. so he moved on and met his gf, but we carried on chatting as friends.but i also had a bf but we broke up. when we were chatting he told ...

He hated me being friends with my ex. Now I find that he has initiated contact with his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I got divorced in August. Wasn't much of my choice, he didn't love me anymore. I started dating my boyfriend from high school. Here we are 4 1/2 months later. I am now trying to be friends with my x. Boyfriend doesn't like this. Well, my ...

What on earth is my guy playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Hey ok this may not sound big at all. I've bin with this guy for 9 months and things were going great...obviously they've kinda settled down now but n e way. Hes bin acting really weird with me. Before you think anything....im not clingy...dont call ...

I'm not sure about my feelings towards my baby's father

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Feelings for my babies father. I started dating a guy about 2 years ago when I was on the rebound from splitting up from another partner. Things moved very quickly and within three months I was pregnant and he was talking about marriage and I p...

Does she like me in the way that I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - hi, please can you answer my question. I went to a party and i was with a girl nearly all night. all we really did was cuddle alot (and i mean alot),sit next to each other with our arms around each other while she rests her head on my shoulder. and ...

I get so jealous that I'm afraid of losing him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - ok i shall start with my relationship with my boyfriend.I don't know what really happen to me.Starting of our relationship is good.But for not long i started to get jealousy and hot-temper.My jealousy is really high.Is like when he never sms(phone ...

I really like her but how do I convince her not to worry about the age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - ok so im an 18 year old male and I really really like an older girl. In fact shes 23.....I can't seem to think that there is this chemistry between us but this age thing seems a "taboo" to her. WE get along great we are the best of friends and I ...

I left my girlfriend but now she has kept all my stuff!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I had been in a four year stormy but loving relationship, which she broke up a few weeks ago after a minor silly row,and i moved back to my house, i found out it was just an excuse to get me out the house so she could give her brother somewhere to ...

My boyfriend is insanely jealous... Is there a solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over two years. For the first year we lived near each other and now he lives three hours away. We are both in our thirties. Our problem is this: we argue constantly often times blowing up into huge ...

My husband, who I've known for 7 years, suddenly starts talking of drugs and orgies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've known the man I married for the past 7 years. We got married last year and I thought we were doing just great. Suddenly, he's talking about having mutiple sex partners with me taking part in the orgy. He's suddenly become interested in taking ...

Should we break up or stick it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Broken Heart wants to know I have been dating my guy for 2 years and things have slowly been getting bad I love him deeply but things got so bad I dealt with my problems wrong and I strayed and ever since then he has treated me like I am a peic...

How do I realise my dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - I recently asked for help about how I had aspirations and feelings/dreams that I would be an actor, rich..etc.. and that I felt that I could make it happen. But so far, I still have the feelings, but I dont have the means - I dont know how to begin. ...

I feel so alone as if no one cares...how can I stop being so sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - Please help, i am highly annoyed. I am 22, a male, and far too sensitive for my own good, I get hurt and offended quickly and take way too many things to heart, I take things personally and any little thing gets me down. when im feeling down and I ...

He cheated on me and I got pregnant by someone else...but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - i`ve been dating this guy for about a year until he cheated on me,when i called to confronthim about it he said i should believe what i want,and so i left him.try to get over him i had a fling with my ex(the one befor him).we then made-up and thats ...

I've tried to leave him but he always has a reason for me to stay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 years. for the last year and a half i've been trying to leave him for various reasons (unfaithfulness,backstabbing,lying,etc). every time i tell him this, he has a better reason why we should try and work it ...

He does not respond to me at all...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am 30 and married for 3 years without children. My marriage was nothing I asked for as I did not love my husband initially but the love grew from his fondness and care for me. However now, he does not love me anymore. I say that because everytime ...

My partner seems doesn't listen to me, and spends most of his time at the pub or on the computer...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - This Christmas has been terrible. Christmas day my partner just seemed to spend half the day yelling at my oldest son(he's 5) and my partner could not seem to understand that it was him and not my son who was ruining the day. My partner and I th...

How do I tell him that I love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Quite simply... i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months... how do i phrase to tell him i love him and in what way do i do it. I know he cares for me greatly. However in the past with guys when i've told them i love them its as if i've asked ...

How do I make things go back to the way they were?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hey...i just want people to tell me what they honestly think... I love my boyfriend so much (we're 26/25) and we have been together for 18 months. However over the last 2 months he hasn't made an effort to contact me...i am always the instigat...

Why does he say I should be grateful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hi, When I have a grievance against something my boyfriend has done or said, he'll say 'you could have it worse, you know. You could be with someone that lies to you and cheats on you.' He'll say that to just about anything I complain abou...

Should I ignore the fact that he's racist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hello There is this guy I know and I am beginning to really like him. We talk all the time and he's intelligent, funny and has shown interest in me. He has even made hints that he would want to go out with me. Well, here is the problem. The oth...

I interfered in my best friend's life..now she doesn't trust me! Help-what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hey...i don't know whats wrong with me? Sorry i think this is going to be a long one!.... My friend and i have been 'best' friends since we started high school, basically 5 years. Out of the two of us i have always gotten the most attention from peo...

My girlfriend's been acting weird and abusive, then announced she's pregnant... but it's not mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

25 December 2005 (M) - Hi all, I am a guy who is experiencing a terrible time in my life right now. My 'girlfriend' and I have been having problems as of late. Basically here is what is going on. The girlfriend and I fell into bliss love and sex and have been...

Can there be love for me after he spread nasty rumors about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - can there be love for me after he spread nasty lieful rumors about me? ...

He promised to get rid of the other gf...but now he acts like he doesn't care! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - hi! i just wrote a few days ago. I just want to tell the whole story. My ex-bf and i, we've been together for almost 5 years. just a few mos ago we broke up. he cheated on me and he says that the reason why he did that is my attitude, im a nagger, ...

I'm pregnant with his child. He left me for his ex..how do I win him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - im 32 was dating a 44 year old man. i became pregnant with his baby. it caused a fight. destructively i got drunk and arrested.65 days in jail, he breaks down starts drinking again then goes back to his ex. now im back and seeing him. he says he ...

He wants me..he doesn't want me! He keeps changing his mind..what's going on with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

23 December 2005 (?) - Hi Im a student and I was having a long distance relationship with a guy from back home for a couple of months. When I came back from uni I was really pleased because I would be able to see him more. I saw him the day after I got back. We ha...

I love him but he wants to know one minute and then not the next

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - i'm hopelessly inlove with a boy in school !!! one day i told him i'm inlove with him and he replied to me that it's just okey. and then few days later i offered him a snack after school he gladly received it then the second time i gave him food he ...

In the military and my husband has had an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - My husband has had an affair with his boss in the military which is highly inappropriate. I am also in the military and have threatened with formal action due to my anger. He was on course for 8 weeks with his boss and rang me and told me my ...

I want him back but he didn't give me a straight answer...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - im 17 and a month ago things got hectic in my life. i made the mistake of breaking up with my bf of nearly a year. i told him i wanted him back and that i still love him but he didnt giv me a straight answer. what do i do?...

He doesn't trust me...should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - My current boyfriend does not trust me, i have doen nothing to cause this distrust, he sectretly checks my phone for text messages or calls that i have both recieved and made to male friends, yesterday he asked to use my phone and secretly erased a ...

Can I trust her or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - my and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months now. she is 20, i'm 26. from time to time, one of her ex's will be in or around town and try to contact her through a friend to talk or hang out. she seems quite eager to do these things and...

She cheated on me...do we stand a chance now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - Hi, About two years ago I was in a lesbian relationship, but we split up because she cheated on me. It was a drunken one night stand that ended up going further because she thought I wouldn't forgive her. We were together for nearly 2 years. ...

I cheated on him four years ago and he can't forget what I did

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - I am 22 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We first started dating when I was going to be a freshmen in college. So we started dating a few weeks before I went away to college. Well,I went and he stayed home but we were ...

She had sex with my ex best friend...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - I met my girl friend through my Xbest friend and he told me before hand he had sex with her. I was ok with it and we started a relationship. After 1 1/2 years together my girlfriend she left me for him. during the time he was seeing her It was unkn...

Been thru a lot with my ex-then he dumped for another woman. Now he wants her to meet our kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years, we have two children together. we've been through so much together he's been in prison and we lost a child. he cheated on me 4 times (that i found out about). About 2 months ago he started staying out ...

A guy who texts me has a girlfriend...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy who is a friend of a friend and he asked for my number from our mutual friend who gave it to him without my consent,however he started texting and calling me we got to know eachother and hes an okay guy...after about a few weeks i ...

I treated her so badly...but I desperately want her forgiveness

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - Hi, please am so sad i need help.Try not to judge me when you read my story, my mind is already doing that.i have been under depression but i know its no excuse.here it goes. I have been dating this girl for 6years now. I did promise to marry...

She's in contact with ex-lovers-I no longer feel safe in this relationship. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - i have been living with a 50 year old lady that i knew for the past 6 years. we believe we are soul mates and plan to get engaged and eventualy married. i have however over the past 6 months become aware that she is in touch with many of her ex ...