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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

One drunken kiss--do I tell my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Please give me some advice guys on this dilemma I face, I cant talk to anyone in real life about this, so you guys are my only hope. So my fiance and I are together six years, engaged four. We got engaged very young, and we were dealing ...

How can I tell online date not to be so clingy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - hi ,im planning on meeting my online date this weekend we get on and everything has been going good , the only thing thats 'doing my head in' is he messages me to say morning and then couple of messages through the day and a chat at night then its ...

I'm a parent myself but my parents are keeping me trapped and treat me like a child

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - My parents have always treated me like a child and now that I'm an adult with my own child, they've gotten even worse! When friends (the ones I have left), friends I'm trying to make (doesn't work), or guys I try to talk to see this, they laugh in ...

I don't like the way he treated me. Does he not have a conscience? Or did he just never care? Or is he trying to get over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - 1997- 1998: Was in David's school. He was my school mate. Wasn’t really his friend but just a classmate. Sept 2014: Started working at a local Retail store Pharmacy. Saw David there. We chatted and exchanged numbers but he was getting over a break ...

Help me with my craziness! Its like I enjoy being angry at my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - Hi guys :) I am just wanting a bit of advice about overcoming my Craziness. Recently I have been feeling more and more upset with Some things that my boyfriend does. Little things will upset me or I ll get in my head about a certain things. At the t...

My neighbor and I hooked up 4 times and then broke things off. Now I feel like I need to move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - ok so my neighbor is a 28 single, bachelor, and i'm a 28 single, bachelorrette.. who both work full time...one night he came over to hang out with me, we played video games, talked and had wine..prior to that, we had gone out on one date...I really ...

We were taking it slow and then there was a complete 180, what do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - About 2 years ago a friend of mine showed me the instagram of a friend. She commented on a picture of us together and inquired who I was. I could tell from her pictures that she was gorgeous and outgoing. Real life of the party type of girl. Well...

My fiance is a sex addict and it feels like our relationship is just about sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together a year. We have always enjoyed sex and have it quite frequently, 4 to 6 times a week. The thing is though I feel as though my sex drive is going down and I don't want it as much and his is going up and always ...

My girlfriend knows our relationship is one sided but does nothing to change it. Should I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Okay so this is a short question. I do everything for my girlfriend. I cook for her, drive her, buy her things, etc and I feel she does little in return. On a few occasions she has even said I know I do nothing to contribute, does that bother you? I ...

How do I get over him cheating? And to add to my woes he got into a better university than me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - So its been 6 months since my ex cheated on me at a party and I found out by looking at his phone he didnt regret when I said I wanted to talk about it he left and I never saw him other than at school. I went to the same school he did because ...

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. ...

Should I be concerned that my Bf is asking for ''space'' when it's all been going so well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - My question: Should I be concerned about my boyfriend asking for space when everything has been going so well? Also, did I respond in a good way when he asked for space? Background information: I have been in a LDR for a few months with a ma...

I can be argumentative when provoked, but I know that I'm not a cruel person that deserves to be bullied. Am I being too sensitive about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have a group of friends who I consider myself very close to, which consists of 2 boys, 2 girls (including me). Both boys are culprits of teasing, but one especially, let's call him Jason, tends to go way overboard. Every time I say something, it's ...

Frenemies or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I hope all are enjoying summer and thank all who respond to my question. So some background.A couple of weeks ago I brought two friends and a woman I met recently to a girls night out.It was a good time and we decided to meet again last week....

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who ...

I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all beca...

What's an assertive, direct, funny response to their hot and cold dating behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 July 2015 (M) - A recurring situation is I'll go on a date with anothe gay guy. thing seem to go well. They'll send me a thankyou message after, and continue small talk here and there. I'm pretty direct and will try to lock off a second date, thats when they st...

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

What choices are there for me to consider? I don't want my son subjected to all this tension any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 July 2015 (M) - So I am in a situation where my one and a half year old son, fiancee, and myself are living together with her mom and dad's house so we can save money. Of course it has turned into a complete disaster. My fiancee and I now argue over things like...

I really dislike my rude in-laws

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, This is more family relationship advice needed. Basically, I am really struggling to get along with my in-laws. Every single one of them are just horrible people. My husbands mother is not involved because she abandoned him when h...

How do you stop making the same mistakes and actually be a better person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - How do you stop making the same mistakes and actually be a better person? I can get so over emotional when I am angry and I literally can say the most hurtful things to the people that I care about the MOST. It's actually disgusting the t...

A request to watch over someone has turned into a big family feud!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Okay so this is twisted and I'm stressing over it a lot. There's this guy who happens to be my aunt's husband's nephew. I met him a few months back and liked him. I hit him up and we started talking, but then I got caught and my mom and aunt were ...

Standing up for yourself in a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

28 July 2015 (M) - First of all, I want to start off by saying that I have nothing against men and women who engage in their fantasies whether it's open marriages, candaulism, hotwifing, polyamory or swinging, it's all fine by me as long as it is a shared fantasy,...

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back ...

Is this history repeating? Could my current GF be similar to my ex? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now.. we are planning a baby and to buy a house together. Sometimes we have blazing rows which out me in bad form. Last blazing row we had ... I started thinking about my ex. Just curiosit...

My fiance disrespected my family. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I have cried my eyes out tonight. My fiance of 3 years disrespected me and my family. I'm in disbelief and denial. Here is the story. We are in LDR right now, sometimes the frustration is too much and mostly from his part. He has done a lot for m...

I can't stand living at home any more but my mother wants me to continue living at home. How can I stand up to her reasoning on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - I am 23, just graduated from college, and looking for a new job as a registered nurse. I have had a few interviews, and have a good feeling about some of them. However, some of them are quite far from where I live now, yet my mom is against me movi...

My obsessing/infatuation is making me miserable. How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

26 July 2015 (M) - I have a problem with infatuation/obsession that is making me miserable. Every time I meet a girl that I like it's like a thunder bolt hits me. From the first date I become completely infatuated and can't stop thinking about the person. I am afr...

I made a comment about a person and my friend came back on me saying things that really hurt!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I am friends with this girl and we were out together the other day, and I said a remark about a random stranger saying that she is fat, she doesn't need any more chocolate (because she was buying so many bags) and now my friend has had a go at me ...

I don't feel I owe him an "official" break up. My friend says I left my bf for minor reasons. Did I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it immature to leave a long term boyfriend for minor reasons? My bf has never spent any of his birthdays with me for the almost six years we've been together. It too four years for me to meet his mum and I've never been invited to family ...

My fiance promised we'd all move in to his house together. I can't pay the costs and he won't pay. Do I walk away now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - I've been with my partner for 6 years. We got engaged last year. My son and I live with my dad after the death of my mum last year. The plan was to move in with my partner once an extension on the house has been completed as it is currently too ...

2 years together and a child, but boyfriend feels he has to move in but doesn't want to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - hi really hope someone can give me some good advice I have been with my boyfriend 2 years we have a 7 month old son it is a happy relationship lately he has mentioned moving in together which would be nice but we were talking last night and he ...

My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says ...

I'm not sure that my boyfriend is ready to propose marriage and it makes my heart heavy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please bare with me, i'll try to make this as clear and as short as possible. My boyfriend has been talking about proposing for sometime now. We live in a conservative culture where it has to be official and have his pa...

I'm not sure who I'm meant to be and meeting my real birth mother didn't help things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I have been adopted and I'm in care at the moment I have struggled for the past year with my identity and not really knowing who I'm meant to be, if that makes sense. It saw my birth mum a few months ago and it really hit me and I'm sort of really ...

Does my boyfriend have 2 phones linked to facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Ok I was with my guy quite recently and I noticed his phone went off - he was out of the room so I didn't answer it but I saw the number. Didn't think anything of it - a few days later, I was gong through my phone and I thought 'I wonder who that ...

Just started dating, communication is all one way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

22 July 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. Last Tuesday I went out on a first date. I've known her for 4 years because she works in a coffee shop in a city I pass through for work reasons about once every 3 weeks. Over the years we have always got along and ha...

My fiance is fine one minute and shouting me at the next. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - My fiance always seems to be fine one minute and the next he's shouting at me for nothing. We've been together 3 years and have 2 children. He makes me feel very unloved sometimes. We don't argue much because I sense his moods and try and keep ...

Cousin issues. Should I just leave her alone, because she is family? Or reach out to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Ok so my cousin and I are on very bad terms right now. We are both females. To make a very long story short, I invited her over my house that night so that we can have a little sleep over or whatever. But someone facetimed me and while I was ...

I have self confidence issues. Why wouldn't my boyfriend defend me when nasty remarks were said?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I have almost zero confidence when it comes to my body. I'm a size 16, and due to being bullied as a child due to my weight I have never had any confidence with guys. I have had boyfriends in the past, but I had been single for nearly two years...

He says it's not him. Yet the swinger's site show he's a member. What can I do? I don't want to lose our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - hey everyone, I really need some advice! Me and my partner have been together for 5.5 years, we were childhood sweethearts and got together at 16! Our relationship has always been good, we are both very laid back and therefore we don't t...

We broke up. Why is he so keen on me talking to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - He knew he wanted to break up with me but requested a break. I ended up breaking up with him and he did not put up a fight. This was in may. He keeps coming back and at first I just said I do not want to be friends. I do not want to talk. Leave ...

Do I leave him....or stay? Or breakup and choose the other boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend started to like someone else and he told me and I've been so hurt and the question is so we stay together? But there's more... We keep almost breaking up then seconds later we tell each other we miss each other. He loves me and he's sto...

I feel he's not the man I thought he was. Should I still travel to meet up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - So I have been talking to a guy I met on a date site for 3 years now. We live over 2000 miles apart. We always tried to make plans to finally see one another in person but they never came through for one reason or another. He skyped with me once and ...

Do I tell my husband about what happened on my night out? Or keep it a secret? Am I being contradictory?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - This post seems a bit contradictory to be frank but I need someone to see from my point and I don’t want to be blasted for it either. I will try keep it to points and cut it down as much as I can. I rewind 10 years maybe... My husband was my t...

Now my Bf doesn't want to talk. My parents don't want me to date. Any solutions to my dating problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, so my boyfriend and I want to hang out.. The problem is that my parents are really old fashioned and don't approve of me having a boyfriend.. So I have hide it from them and when I hang out I have to add some story to my plans to hang...

My relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and extremely unhappy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I think my relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and unhappy and just out right not myself anymore. I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and things were great in the beginning. I thought we had the same vision in l...

Why can't I just do what any normal person would do and throw him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My partner of 5 year, we've been seeing each other for 8 years and living together for 5 starting chatting with a girl on Twitter I. February. He's 58 and she's 27. I found out by accident in March and it had already got very deep between them. I ...

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

Is this rebound sex for an ex-lover or something else? I want to stop seeing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - SO I have this situation that is a little bit odd, not wanting to be judged, just trying to understand from other people's points of view: SO the back story goes something like this: Six years ago I had a sexual relationship with this guy while my...