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Archived questions from: October, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm tired of playing games. Should I end it with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

31 October 2020 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to meet up for halloweeen and she said we can’t this year because of COVID-19. It’s Halloween, I am working and she has just told me that she won’t be around evening as she is going out. I’m stuck with work (as she told me ...

Always the rebound girl, never the girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1272 days ago

29 October 2020 (F) - Why am I always the rebound girl and never the girlfriend?! I don't know what it is about me but I always seem to attract or I'm attracted to emotionally unavailable guys and it makes me want to hit my head against the wall. I've never been in a ...

My former superior made work hellish. I’m out of her oversight now but am wondering if I can stay at the company. Your advice, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1275 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles. Would love to hear your feedback and insights on this one. I have been employed at this company for more than a year now. I was instrumental in launching a major product and major partnership last year thereby generating the ...

I befriended a co-worker who has many issues and I don’t know how to end the friendship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

27 October 2020 (F) - I need help, I seem to have got myself into a horrible situation. First thing is first I would like to acknowledge my own short coming and my responsibility here. I started a new job with an office of 25-30 women in one big room. I'm not much for...

My boyfriend is quite narcissistic! How do I respond to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1279 days ago

25 October 2020 (F) - Hello, I feel like my boyfriend is narcissistic and I'm getting tired of his behaviors. Lately, when I talk to him about my day, he interjects with how he's doing. Sometimes, he'll only respond in texts with one word answers like "Okay" or "Cool"...

What is a nice gesture to re-ignite the spark?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1278 days ago

24 October 2020 (M) - How can you re ignite a spark in a relationship. Ladies what would be a nice gesture or action after busy week of work. Can you guys give me ideas? Doesn’t have to be sexual as No point for the whole build up if she can only last 15 minutes in be...

My boyfriend has a very strange relationship with his mother! Am I overthinking or shoul I run?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1263 days ago

24 October 2020 (F) - Help! I have almost been dating a guy for a year. He has a very strange relationship with his Mom. She’s very possessive over him. He lives in a mother in law apartment with his Parents. He makes sexual jokes with his Mom. Once I was down stairs ...

How to deal with a pregnant friend who is constantly seeking attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1269 days ago

24 October 2020 (F) - How to deal with a pregnant friend who is constantly seeking attention? Hi aunts and uncles, I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with a friend who's been constantly seeking attention and her recent pregnancy has made it even worse...

Was he my friend or was I played?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1280 days ago

22 October 2020 (F) - Can someone please help, as my head is in a mess. I’ve being friends with a guy for the past year. I met him through work and we really got on well. We don’t work together all the time just occasionally. The past couple of months we’ve being mess...

Girlfriend upset because I like instagram photos of fitness women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1281 days ago

20 October 2020 (M) - Hi, This may seem small but hear me out. Been with my gf for 6 months now. The other day she asks me why I like all these Instagram posts of fitness girls/insta models etc etc. She says I like alot of them and it upsets her. We follo...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I still like girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1284 days ago

19 October 2020 (F) - I am a christian and I'm in a long term relationship and feel really disconnected sexually since I have a secret and it's gotten to the point where every time we sleep together, I need to fantasize about the opposite sex or I can't even get aroused ...

How would other have handled the relationship I was in?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1281 days ago

19 October 2020 (F) - I have the highest respect for the aunts on this website. So any tough love is more than welcome. A year back I met a guy who works in retail. Three years younger than me. I have a STD. He doesn't. So it seemed like a fairy tale. He earns mu...

My girlfriend is happy with sex every 3 months. I want more!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1259 days ago

18 October 2020 (M) - Hello, in my early sixties, my girlfriend couple years younger, well it happened agin tonight, i wanted to make love, she just said go to sleep, only once in three months, she says i should be slowing down, been together three years, i still ...

My long term boyfriend ghosted me, had a fling and now has come back telling me he loves me. Should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1287 days ago

16 October 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Long story short. My boyfriend of 5 yrs left me back in July. We were having some problems at the time except we always used to work them out. But that day, he just gave up on me and ghosted me. I couldn't even get him to talk ...

He has ptsd how can we make things work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1284 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi. Me and a friend decided to have a relationship 3 years ago. its been a bit rocky from after 2 month of dating things were always on and off with him and after a couple of years he started opening up about his past things I didn't know of and ...

Dealing with my friend’s relationship drama is becoming draining

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I’m having an issue with one of my friends which is causing me quite a bit of stress that I’d like your advice on. I love her to bits but she’s always acted like a doormat. It’s almost like she takes pride in being that way, ...

New GF enjoys strip clubs and looking at other men whilst in a relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

15 October 2020 (M) - My new gf of 6 months told me that her and her friends have been to a few male strip clubs and that she enjoys them and would continue to do so. She also said that she enjoys looking at other men and does it even more so when she's in a relation...

Old friend has been talking behind my back and is ignoring me. I don't know why and it's making me feel sick with anxiety

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

14 October 2020 (M) - I recently met up with an old uni friend who I hadn't seen for over a year. He took a picture of us together and sent it to a group chat. It turns out that 3 out of a group of 4 of us from uni had set up a group but I hadn't been invited to it. He ...

I feel numb and can't get into relationships until they have ended. Am I depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1288 days ago

14 October 2020 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles I’m in a rut in my life and need some help. Bit of a backstory I grew up as a child and in my teens around abusive relationships. My mom and dad divorced when I was young and my dad use to beat my mom. My mom then...

Weird Friendship Got A Whole Lot Weirder

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1280 days ago

13 October 2020 (M) - Hi Cupids and Aunts, I am here with another of my relationship issues. I've known this woman(whoms I shall call B.) for over 20 years now: I don't know what I am to her but she's always been something between a good friend and a cousin to me. L...

I’ve been talking too much about politics and now I’ve upset a friend! How to make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

12 October 2020 (F) - My best friend just started dating this guy and he seems to be actually a really nice person. Only unusual part is that he's a real live Republican (guns, God Bless the USA, etc) and we're all raving mad Democrats (including my best friend). All ...

How do you interact with people who put you off make excuses and only want to spend time with you if all their other options fall through?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1293 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I work full time self employed. I can easily arrange a social life and time for other things whenever I want if I think it is worth it and I have enough notice. Because I work by appointment with people I need notice and to put ...

What does it mean to reparent yourself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

7 October 2020 (F) - What to people mean by reparenting and how do you go about doing that? I am a 24 year old female still living in my parents home. Growing up, my father was an alcoholic and verbally abused me and my mother. My mother was also belittling me. There ...

My boyfriend is ill with the virus and I haven't heard from him. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1294 days ago

5 October 2020 (F) - My boyfriend has covid and is quarantined alone, at first he was asymptomatic but symptoms started to come and hes been feeling really bad. I know hes been sleeping most the day but wevejust been FaceTiming at night. Tuesday we got in a small ...

I don’t think my boyfriend needs me and I feel lonely in my relationship. Is he with me for the sake of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

4 October 2020 (F) - I keep pushing my boyfriend away and it’s because I know he doesn’t need me. Is he just with me for the sake of it? We’ve been going out for about 15 months now..he’s 6 years older than me and the first year or so was amazing...we wer...

My friend is a user. She asks me to do things that she won't do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

3 October 2020 (F) - I have a friend who's asking me to do stuff she herself doesn't want to do. At first I didn't realize what was going on, because she found ways to present things in another light. Instead of saying to others (I am not the only one) the truth,...

I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....

What would you do if a video game or game on their phone came ahead of you in their lives?!?!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

2 October 2020 (F) - Well tomorrow is me and my guys 8 year dating anniversary. And I won’t lie, most of the relationship has been a very bumpy road. After he proposed to me is when he chose to go behind my back and start talking to other women and even sneaking out ...