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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work ...

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing ...

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a ...

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

It's been two weeks. I haven't heard anything from him. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi cupid... I really like this guy. I don't know what else to do. When I first met him I was in relationship with my son's father, now we're not together but before that me and the guy used to text each other and my ex found the texts and text the ...

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, ...

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

Why would I want someone who treats me like garbage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - OK where to start six years ago I met again whit my high school friend, she was going threw a divorce I always liked her since high school but back then her boyfriend was my best friend and we ended up not talking anymore because of her, well the ...

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a ...

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by ...

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I hone...

She used to be a HE!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as ...

Please tell me what a player is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then ...

Does my girlfriend want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...

We broke up because he is playing around!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We broke up because he is playing around!! He told me he loved me and would never break up with me and leave me and he'll never love any another girl. I loved him so much but lately we've been fighting so much because he's lying to other girls and ...

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed ...

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...

How are you supposed to know who you can trust???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in ...

He's throwing his acted out fantasies at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, So my fiance and I were talking about fantasies. We've already had a 3some with another guy (he just touched me and I touched him no sex) and I said I'd really like to try with another woman or couple out of curiousity (again, no sex ...

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...

I can't believe he broke up with me because he was overworked. Is this something guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I got into a relationship (my first) last year and really clicked with the guy. I thought it was going great. Problem is he was a postgrad student with lots of work to do. We broke up after 5 months because he just couldn't physically handle a ...

He's fallen out with our daughter and now loves to walk around in the nude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this year, very happy mostly all of that time, except for the last 4 years, he's just turned 48, he had a big falling out with his daughter at that time, bacause she lied, and she also had a young ...

We had a big fall out and now he's sleeping on the couch and won't make up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a major boyfriend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell ...

Student/teacher porn

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I'd like some advice especially from you guys out there about my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years, he's a teacher. Recently, I found he'd downloaded loads of student-teacher style porn films from the internet. Some of them involve the ...

Does he just want to get in my pants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - im 20yrs old i felt for a guy in a relationship wth someone else..we met about five months ago...text eachother go on webcam...i just want to know if he really liked me? he didnt tell me about hes relationship i had to text him over and over and ...

I gossiped about his gay brother and now my husband is cold towards me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've been married for the past 2 years. We had an arranged marriage, so there are troubles in our relationship mostly because of our families and few trust issues too. Now after time, things have really improved between us and we two are sharing a ...

I want to be in a relationship but now quite sure how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My name is John, i'm 19 and i'm pretty much lonely. I used to date a lot of girls back when i was i n high school but since then i stopped dating because of something that is hard to explain. Let's say that i first meet this girl and we talk for a ...

We always fight but lately we haven't been and now I'm worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - ok i know this will sound really weird but here goes. My fiancee and i ALWAYS fight no joke but its been like completely fight free the last few weeks and im happy it has but it just kind of worries me because last time this happened it blew up ...

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

I've read enough Mills and Boon books to know that "love" doesn't actually exsist and I'm never gonna truly fall in love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I am very mature for my age. My boyfriend is 20 and he's been after me for 6 months, in the end I gave up and started to date him. The thing is, I still see him as a friend and when he tries to do coupley things I get annoyed....

I'm confused so feedback here would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I ...

How do I get her to respect my feelings more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend takes me for granted. And it's pretty much my fault. I have tried so hard to let her know how much I love her and I have stuck around when she has made some big mistakes. Now she knows that I won't leave. I mean, some day if things ...

I don't feel attractive to him at all. Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, he has always watched porn, no big deal but lately I haven't been getting any love. I know I am not his physical type. A lot of the stuff he looks at says escort on it. I don't think he has the time ...

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...

My husband is verbally abusive and has been physical lately too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for 15 years and we have an 11 year old daughter together, and he has 4 children from another marriage. We are not married, however he is verbally abusive and has been physical lately. It is hard for me to leave ...

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to ...

My girlfriend and I don't know how to resolve this difficult situation

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I just had a very interesting conversation with my gf. Lately I've been bothered by a lot of stuff in our relationship. Let me preface this by saying that I love her very much and vice versa. I grew up in a nice little white bread town where ...

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me ...

I don't know what wrong I have done

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys I wonder if you can help me work out this situation i'm in. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We don't get to see alot off each other as she works during the day and i work during the night. A few days ago i promised to pick her ...

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couc...

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a ...

What if he's the one I'm supposed to be with ???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm with my guy for 6 years.... love him to death. Perfect on paper and in person. Handsome, outgoing, sweet and would do anything for me. He's my best friend and we're getting married in 6 months. Our families and friends love us together and ...

How do I chose between the two women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - so I've been dating this girl, "K" for about 7 months now. i do love her, my first love. and she's in love with me. but I've lost interest since she never wants to come see me. it's been 6 months. (she lives in Brighton) it's heart breaking, and i ...

Can someone help me stay strong and keep my word...to leave this guy alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey aunts i finally did it...i broke it off with the committed guy...it's been two days and i almost fell in today but by the grace of God ive stayed strong and haven't contacted him... this is how i did it: i called him with the thought of us me...