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writes:Somebody please help me, right now i am so stuck and i dont know what to do. I have this boyfriend of mine whom we have been together for at least four months now. My inner voice is telling me that he loves me and cares about me.Everybody know that love at early stage is so nice. My problem is He always looks at me for the long time, in fact he will look at my face for at least 30 minutes if i dont stop him. when i ask he will not reply. why is he looking at me like that, am i ugly? am i surprising? WHY! Reply to this Question
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reader, MissWright  +, writes (10 September 2009):
aww it sounds like he is just feeling lucky yo have you, my boyfriend does it to me quite often with a dopey look on his face then after about half an hour of staring he will say "i love you " it doesnt mean he thinks your ugly at all, probly the exact opposite, your in an exciting stage of your relationshipenjoy it :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):
Most common if he is older than you but you didnt mention it so I'll assume not.
Three possibilities:
- he is tripping from drugs and therefor his mind wanders
- he is feeling unsure about the relationship and his looking for flaws in your face that would reinforce his uncertainty
- he is planning some sort of rage-a-thon is enjoys keeping himself of the edge
Best way to tell is ask him if he has any sort of music going through his head.
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reader, Advice Gem +, writes (10 September 2009):
He is probably in love with you. Oh its so lovely. Trust me he would not stare at you if you were ugly. He must be in ore of how beautiful you are to him and I imagine it feels very special, just enjoys it.Go for it
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