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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I forget aout my old best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm Charlotte. OK, so I started to be best ever friends with someone. We were so close and told each other everything but we kept arguing. Every week it would be something new. But when we made up it was fantastic. The first few arguments, we ...

How do I get back the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

5 September 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid (I guess it's an appropriate why to start), I have been going through quite a bit of distress and frustration the last 2 months or so. I never thought I would turn to a service like this for advice or answers but I've come to the poin...

How can I have a relationship where I won't get hurt and abandoned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - This is kinda long, so I hope you all have the patience to read it. I'm not good at shortening things and this kinda takes place in a lot of time. Flash back to about 8 years ago when I was around 4 or 5. We lived in a city in Utah called Orem...

G/f spends weekends with her daughter & ex at his place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (M) - What I am troubled with is my girl friend seeing her daughter on the weekends. Kind of a long story,but her x husband has custody and she has visitation's on the weekends. Well, She has to have him X pick her up, She has no D.L because she is ...

I'm married and my ex keeps coming around trying to get back with me

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5 September 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now, and life has been good, yes, it has its ups and downs, but on the whole, it's been good. However, for the past 4 weeks my ex has been coming round, demanding to see his son, so I've allowed him...

Since I found out I was pregnant he's changed...should I have an abortion so things get back to the way they were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - how do i remain happy about being prego when he is so unhappy. he said that he will be okay just take time but i feel him slipping away from me. we dont talk like we use to we dont smile are snuggle. im wonder if i should kill my first child. like ...

I thought our relationship was great...so why did he end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - Last week, what I thought was a perfect relationship ended. My bf and I have been together for over three yrs. things have always been good, we lived together for a short while and I was even pregnant with his baby (unfortunately I lost him). We are ...

I love my boyfriend, but I don't know if he loves me, one minute he's happy with me, and the next angry with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, deeply, but I don't think he loves me. You see, we've been together for 3 years already, and things were going great until a few weeks ago. I don't know why. I mean we have had issues, because he's ...

Simple question: how can one end a relationship without the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - how can u breakup with somebody without it hurting you or the other person ...

Is he trying strange tactics to get me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - Ok, I have this small problem and I have posted other questions on this site and it has always helped me. I was seeing someone for 4 years. I ended it with him 3 weeks ago because we went on holiday and it was good but when we returned, he was...

My boyfriend has wandering eyes. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - It has already been two years since i last wrote about my bf wandering eyes problem. Yes, two years had passed and my bf is still staring at girls when i'm just right beside him. i have spoken to him many many times regarding this problem. each ...

Is it a bad sign if your boyfriend has pictures of his ex but not you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - Is it a bad sign that I am not in a good relationship if the guy I have been dating for almost 4 months still has pictures of his ex on his computer and facebook but none of me anywhere? I can deal with him having pictures of her on his computer but ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

5 September 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We ...

FAMILY FUED!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - So here's the story, my cousin is a pathological liar, emotionally retarded and cannot keep her pants buttoned and male genetailia out of her mouth, she passes out blow jobs like hand shakes, basically we've never got along, im a pretty good girl, ...

Should I let it go because he strikes me as emotionally unavailable like my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - I was married for 18 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable. I don't think he was even capable of any depth of feeling or love. I have been divorced for four years now, and it has been lonely. I met a man four weeks ago who I thought ...

What should I do? My relationship is plagued by my love for my old bestfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (M) - Hi i don't really know how to start this but ill start here. I used to have this really good friend (best friend) who was a girl. We used to hangout all the time and each time would be amazing. I often thought of it as love at the time. Well one day ...

I got angry at my girlfriend who was nearly raped, now she won't see me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

5 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend was lucky enough to escape from being raped by someone that she knew but not very close. She didn't want to talk about it or pursue the matter further then. After sometime, the guy who tried to rape her was disturbing her by coming t...

Still so confused - fix me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - Here I am again - Another Holiday weekend and I am still reeling about the guy who I was seeing for four years and who found someone else when my mother was dying. It has been four months and it is still like a fresh wound. I know we were ...