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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm back with my ex but I'm not sure its a good thing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Has too much happened to try again? I've been in realationship with now ex bf for 5 months. He really swept me off my feet, we have fun and are into the same things. The relationship has been full on virtually from the beginning. I'm a lone paren...

Finding it hard to connect and be myself with my boyfriend. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I feel really insecure with my new boyfriend. I've had 3 boyfriends in my entire life, i'm 15 and will be 16 in less than a month. My first boyfriend lasted for 9 months, and unfortunely he was just a fool, but once again unforutn...

Guys: Is the amount of xx's in a text an indication of how much you like someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Silly question but I'm intrigued...GUYS Is the amount of x's in a text an indicator of how much he likes you?? This guy I'm texting at the moment usually puts 3 x's... then less often 2 x's and then less often 1x and the least often 4x's. IM...

When a relationship changes from LD to a regular relationship do you lose the excitement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a lovely guy for about 4 months now and I have fallen head over heels for him. He is so loving and caring and says I am the one thing that keeps him going. Up until now due to various issues such as work etc we h...

Just found out my boyfriend's ex is pregnant by him. Do I stay? Or go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months goin on six...and just the other night he found out from a girl he dated before me she is pregnant...he told that he don't want the baby momma and loves me. An sees us with a future he don't want me to go ...

Do you just know when you are with the right person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Is it true that you 'just know' when you are with the right person? I know I love my boyfriend a lot but I sometimes feel that there is something missing, that we are maybe too different and that I don't know if I can see myself with him long term. ...

My boyfriend and cousin had sexual banter on facebook. Should I say something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - got on my boyfrirends facebook and in his messages back and forth to my female cousin was dumb stuff like him flirting with her like she said i might stop by to see you next week when ill be in your area and he says you bringing the condoms or ...

BF asked me to tell his teenage daughter that she was dressed inappropriately but I don't feel it's my place! Thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone , I'm 25 my boyfriend is 37 and he has a 14 year old daughter. His childs mother lives in another state and his parents and himself raises her. His mom had a party for New Years and I went, I was extremely surprised when I saw his daug...

What did he mean when he told me not to get too attached?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I've liked the same guy for almost 3 years now. He's a good friend as well. Basically the whole time of when I've liked him he's had girlfriends too though. Recently he just split up with his girlfriend whom he has been going out for for almost 2...

Why does my BF go quiet for a few days after we've had sex? Does this mean he only contacts me when he's horny?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2.5 years now and he has a habit which upsets me quite a bit. A lot of the time when we have sex he goes very quiet for a couple of days afterwards. He will text me regularly and call every night beforehand ...

Girlfriend cheated on me but I want her back! How can I persuade her I won't hold this against her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for last four years with my girl. We did everything except sexual intercourse. Recently, when she was drunk, some random guy took her from bar and it seems he had sexual intercourse with her. Now she feels that she is ...

My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...

Why is my boyfriend so convinced that my parents don't like him? How can I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 25 and he is convinced my parents don't like him. This is not true - I have obviously spoken to them about him many times and they think he is great and said they have never seen me so happy. Based on past boyfriends they would ...

My relationship doesn't seem to be moving forwards. I don't want to push him but should I keep on waiting for him to decide what he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since. But I am looking to ...

My BF is going through a rough time and is homeless. How can I comfort him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So this guy I've been seeing for a while is going through a bit of a rough time. Long story short, he's basically homeless right now, and it particularly sucks because he's very new to the area and he considered the people he lived with family. ...

He blames me for everything. Any advice on how to alleviate the tension and reduce the stress in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says that I don't take responsibility for anything and that I blame him for everything. I personally feel the oppposite. He refuses to see when something IS his fault and immediately jumps on the "Oh, so I'm the bad guy" train. ...

Why isn't this a relationship for him? I'm not a cheap bit on the side!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - hi cupids, need a little help. my OH and i have been together for a few months and im having concerns already. hes a nice guy but i feel like hes hiding me from his life a bit. we both have kids and have met eachothers kids but were not in a ...

I'm worried my feelings may be part of a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - So iv known this girl for about 2 years and she lives not long away from me but last night I spoke to her for hours ( well ...all night... :L ) ... When she laughs I can't help but smile and imagine a gorgeous smile to go with it ... The problem is ...

I want sex more than my girlfriend and she told me I can have a F buddy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - i'm in a relationship with a girl i love.my problem is i want sex too much.we do everything everywhere and have sex once everyday for at least two hours. sumtimes i have to masterbate a couple of times around this.she recently told me she wont say ...

I'm still having trouble accepting my boyfriend's past

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I've been with a great guy for the last year...but I'm still having trouble accepting his past. He's the only guy I've even slept (or done anything sexual) with, but he has 4 exes that he's been with. I think about it everyday, wondering if he ...

How can I get my fat girlfriend to lose weight?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - MOD NOTE: This was original poster's chosen title... Hi all Ive been with my OH (other half) for nearly 4 years now - when we first met she was 196lbs at 5ft 10 and it didnt bother me much. I was still attracted. Now, she is 219lbs! and thou...

Am I completely ruining my life? Do I need to stop drinking? Get help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - So I've recently been doing a great job at ruining my life. After a horrific break-up with a recent ex, (we'll call him M) I've just managed to make a balls of my life at every open opportunity. After the relationship ended I was feeling quite fr...

Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...

Do white girls expect boys to propose first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I want to know whether my Co-worker loves me.I am a south Asian.she is a white girl.Do white girls expect boys to propose first?Or am I mistaking her friendship towards me.But I heard once she was singing my name with hers.I never had a girl ...

I didn't give her the attention she wanted but now I'm not sure I can forget her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4123 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I am a south Asian man.Our family values are bit different.for example our family or few family members might be financially depended on us.Usually Indian men does not like his wife or GF get closer to other men.I like a white girl.But it was too ...

After 3 dates and a kiss he panicked. I don't want to lose him so what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - thank you for taking your time to read this.I am 24 years old and could do with some advice. I came out of a very messy controlling relationship 9 months ago after i left him i took this time to really focus on myself.i am notorious for messed u...

Dream trip with my boyfriend ended badly. He wants to move back to his hometown and I can never see myself living there!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Dear all, Hoping for some advice. I've been with my partner for two years. We met in London, my home town, and live there together. I'm 35 and he's 33. This Christmas, we planned what was supposed to be a 'holiday of a lifetime' to Mexico City...

My boyfriend is hiding something from his past and won't talk to me about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - hii, im in relationship from 2 years ..My boyfriend is hiding something about his past... not regarding any relationship..its regarding his friends he had.. its 1st time v r being in relationship with each other.... but something which bothers hi...

How do I move forward knowing he has feelings for a close friend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have recently entered into a relationship been dating a few months and just had the couple talk a few days ago . Already having a few problems . When we were dating I kissed another guy when on vacation when it was New Year's Eve . When asked I ...

I had an abusive ex but my current boyfriend is lovely. Why then, do I feel so overwhelmed when he says something nice or has an emotional moment with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I was single for a year, my last relationship my ex was emotionally abusive to me, i was a scared of him, i was not allowed to have friends or go out.we worked at the same place and he would pick my shifts so they were with his. He would put me down ...

I have a boyfriend but I've been obsessing over this co-worker in my head. Is it because I miss "the chase"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for the last six years. We pretty much became adults together; we started dating after high school, went through college at the same time, and started our careers at the same time. We've shared everything together, ...

Am I over thinking this? Or is this something that everyone else would be worried about too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - Hey everyone! I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, we are both 18 and I have some worries. My girlfriend likes to go out and have fun, go clubbing, go to party's and what not and I really do get worried when she is out clubbing...

Do you think he just views this as a friendship? Or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I haven't met this guy, hes 20, Im 18..we don't know each other that well. We briefly talked on the phone one night for like 10 min because he was at my friends place and he wanted to help me out with this family issue i called my friend for, he ...

Girlfriend went off of her medication and changed. Now I feel needy like I need medication!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

7 January 2013 (M) - I was introduced to this woman 4 months ago and we instantly hit it off. Our conversations were long and in depth. There was a connection I have never felt with anyone before.. physically, spiritually, emotionally and we both made a comment that it ...