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30-35,
*driana3318
writes:I haven't met this guy, hes 20, Im 18..we don't know each other that well. We briefly talked on the phone one night for like 10 min because he was at my friends place and he wanted to help me out with this family issue i called my friend for, he overheard it and asked to talk with me.A few days later, he found and added me on Facebook. I thanked him for his help on the phone, and he said Im glad i could be of some help, gave me his number, said "if you ever need anything."I noticed that he only has 185 friends too... Which I thought was kinda weird, because he added me and seemed selective. My girl friend who I called wasn't even one of his friends nor does she have his #. A couple days later, I texted him and we had a convo for like 2 hours, just small talk. He asked about me problem a little later, how I was, said he was here for me, etc.Then yesterday (a few days later) I texted him at 1pm and our convo lasted until 1am. It was small talk at first, we joked around, he talked about himself quite a bit... Like his future plans and a little about his family. He asked me about my plans, etc. Our texts were spaced from 2-20 minutes at times. We stopped for an hour, then he asked me what I was up to for the night, and we continued texting. Also, just last night I posted a new Facebook pic, and he liked it(: Anyways, I want to hang out with him and actually see him, but I wish he would make more of a move... Do you think he just views this as a friendship? Or something more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2013): Hi Adriana ...... You mentioned u just met him n u don't him well...well i think just give yourself some time just get to know him better...don't rush, just rushing things in relationship doesn't work most of the time...n if u rush n God forbid if it doesn't work its u who will get hurt n if he views it as friendship u know how it ends ....just take time..as u spend ur time wit him who knows u will feel he is the one ...if u feel urself complete with him, he makes u happy n u know ur heart is screaming to u he is the one if u want to take it to long term relationship..u are totally yourself with him u don't pretend to be anyone then I wud tell u girl don't waste time just tell him wat u feel for him....at present don't rush or when time comes he might tell u wat he feels till then wait patiently... that's my advice, its ur wish to follow or not....bye Adriana .. take care
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