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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I not be cold hearted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4122 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hi, Just wondering if anyone has any advice on how i can change from being cold hearted. I know im like this from being messed around by men (aswell as seeing me father treat my mother badly from a young age) and it stops me from developing...

Ex-boyfriend of 9 years screwed up. Separated for a year but he wants to win my heart again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I'm at a crossroads. I've reciently broken up with my boyfriend of 9 years. At the time, I was very unsure about the future of our relationship. To make a long story short, during the last 4 years of our relationship, he had become a complet...

Dating -- When should I pose the question of exclusivity to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I'm a 27 f currently dating this guy I met nearly a month and a half ago on an online dating site. Everything so far has been great. Although he's a couple of years younger than me (24), it feels as though we have a lot in common in terms of ...

My parents wouldn't approve of my older boyfriend coming to see me. So how can we arrange things?

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9 January 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend lives in a different city and he wants to come and see me but he's a few years older then me and my parents don't know about him and if they find out i won't be able to speak to him anymore, so i need an excuse to be free for a day ...

What do I say to bring this guy back around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4126 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I met a guy online, we clicked, hung out a few times - then got into some huge fight .. nasty words were exchanged even at one point! And we stopped speaking ( he didn't trust me and I didn't trust him but no one cheated or anything as we were ...

I gave my b/f alot of money not expecting it back but I feel selfish because he still hasn't even gotten me a christmas gift. Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Around Christmas time, things were pretty rough for my boyfriend of 2 years; he had just recently gotten into a new career after being unemployed for several months, and was in desperate need of money in order to put a down payment on a car/car ...

I've known him for approx. 3 months, we don't have any mutual friends -- should I continue to pursue this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I met him over a camp of sorts, where students across schools came together to discuss about local issues and give opinions on them. It spanned over a week or so, whereby only on the last 3 days, we actually got to know each other, and interacted. ...

A needy, clingy woman got my man. How come this happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I am so through with relationships and men. I am an independent woman, smart, beautiful and keeps myself busy never clingy. Met a good guy and helped him, even when he didn't have a job and no money, but now he's run off with a clingy girl. What ...

Friendly or Flirting? What are the signs a guy is genuinely flirting, and not just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Are these signs of flirting? 1. Staring or gazing at you. 2. Complimenting a woman on how she looks such as "Wow, you are beautiful," "I've been watching you--I see you and you are such a feminine woman," "You are one of the few people who ma...

I think he's suffered a lot of abuse. How can I calm down my aggressive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend just under a year. He's had a pretty unfortunate life up till this point and I suppose you could say suffered a lot of abuse from a young age (though I don't know any details as I avoid asking him about it)....

Am I not good enough for him? I'm pregnant but all he does is talk to his ex. Am I crazy wanting him to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I am currently pregnant and since I've gotten pregnant all he does is talk to his exs. I feel like I am not good enough for him and that he is looking for someone else. I don't wanna lose h...

Could I be bi-sexual? Can open-minded be considered a sexuality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - I've questioned what my sexuality or how to define my sexuality ever since I was a child. It's probably been about 13 to 15 years long I have questioned this. Can open-minded be considered a sexuality? I grew up keeping to myself, and really tryin...

I cheated and fell in love. Is this new guy the 'one'? Should I dump my Bf of 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Hi, I live in Europe and I come to NYC 2-3 times a year for holidays, Christmas etc. My whole family lives here (parents and sisters). My friend came here once with me, and now he says that he doesn't feel like it because he feels like there is...

Still in contact with his ex! Am I overreacting? Should I let it go? I am quite convinced he is serious about us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I have had a beautiful relationship. We we met while we both were in London due to our work responsiblities. The four months we were together it was nothing less than heaven. He had to move to US after that and I had to return to India.Two days...

Should I give her time? She broke up with me because she says my actions are like a kid, and she is more free.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she needs space and broke up with me. She told me that she needs some time. It started when our friend texted her if I told my sister where i am because she seems surprised that I did no tell her that me and my girlfrien...

I'm a mess. What can I do? I've been in love with my Gf for a long time. But I've fallen for a second girl at college and now this second girl is pregnant.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Guys, I'm in a pickle. A very large pickle. I've been dating my very lovely and intelligent girlfriend for six years, since we were 14. Before I continue, I need you all to know that I really, absolutely and unabashedly love my girlfriend with all...

My Bf talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I feel that my bf of 3 years talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me, other times he never calls, ignores me and bullies me. I have already given him a lot of money for this student loan. I don't have any proof for this ...

Should I be reading books on how to interact with women or are there other successful strategies? I'm a virgin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

9 January 2013 (?) - Is it worth reading books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss or similar pick up methods with women? I'm a virgin who has only had one girlfriend. I am going back to college in two weeks and want to be able to get girls interested in me because my co...

Do I choose my boyfriend, or my home country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - This is about the choices I have. My boyfriend has decided to live in another country, as he's found there some really good educational and professional opportunities. I am still a student myself, went to university overseas, but before we got to...

I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...