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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm scared my boss will retaliate if I start dating my supervisor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - At my job, I have several admirers but its ok since they are for the most part gentlemen and dont harass me or anything. Now, one of my supervisors "Joe" has liked me from day one. We have a crazy-cool rapport but he has told me straight-up that we ...

When do these things calm down and do relationships like this tend to last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - How long do relationships tend to take to calm down? Alot of people say people that focus everything on their new gf/bf and spend all their time with them have an unhealthy relationship as they are isolated from friends. I do believe this is ...

What does our star alignment say about us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - A few months ago a man asked me out. I originally said yes but when I found out how old he was I said we could be friends. I am ten years older than he is. We have since started dating and the relationship is going well. I still worry about the age ...

I lied to my GF about how old I was when I lost my virginity. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - Basically me and this girl have been having sex and now are getting more serious. She asked me when i lost my virginity and because I was embarrassed i lied and said when I was 19 when really i had lost my virginity at the age of 23 with my ex girlf...

If I make another attempt at conversation, would it just be desperate? Or should I ignore it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Recently I asked to meet up with an old friend from high school that I used to have a crush on, pretty sure he felt the same at the time. I have known him for about 5+ years, but we lost touch after h.s.(have not really talked in a couple of years) ...

He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...

I believe it's just lunch. But why not tell his partner that he goes to lunch with women sometimes? Is it cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Ok, this is my question. If a man that you are in a serious relationship with does not tell you that he is having lunch dates with different women (strickly as friends) is that cheating? He always mentions his lunch dates with men, but for some ...

I am attractive to men so why don't they ever approach me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Please don't take this in a wrong way and call me conceited and superficial,I'm putting the problem as it is.. I am 23 year old woman, and by god's grace I have the charm, personality, the beauty.. I can walk into a room and have men look at me, ...

Does my BF have to wear a condom? I'm on the pill, and neither of us has STIs.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we've talked about having sex when I stay at his at end of this month. Thing is, he doesnt want to use a condom. He has been checked and has no std's and neither do I. I'm also on the pill. Is it ok ...

Are his reasons for keeping it casual and unofficial valid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a little over 6 months. We were boyfriend and girlfriend until the end of November when he broke up with me. He said he wanted to break up because he's too stressed because he got fired from his job and he needed t...

My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...

My family disapprove. I broke up with him. He said he will wait for me. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I am a teacher by profession. I met a guy through facebook. he is 28 and a MBA. He has a good job. We started chatting and after 6 months we met each other and realised we love each other. We both live in India we belong to the same religion an...

The psychic has poisoned me against my lover, and I'm a believer in self-fulfilling prophecies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I am perfectly, ecstatically happy with my boyfriend. We've been together for eight months, and have learned how to open up, how to love, how to communicate, so many "how"s, and we absolutely adore each other. We're compatible emotionally, ...

Where would I find more information on how to french kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Okay , one day my boyfriend and i tried to make out for the first time and it was going well until he stuck his tongue in my mouth and I got so nervous and pushed him away . What do I do ? How do you French kiss ? I'm so nervous and when we see e...

Broke up with him due to his halitosis and very bad personal hygeine. Can or should or how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hi, So I have this issue with this guy I dated almost four years ago. See I broke up with him because he had bad breath and is hygiene was not the best in the world. We stayed for him again but I don't want to say anything because I'm not sure if ...

I do not like the fact that my B/f was previously engaged and shared so many great memories with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend who was with a woman for 7 years they were engaged (I do not know for how long). Anyways, their relationship was mainly long distance with her in Europe and him in the U.S. He would basically fly to Europe to be with her multiple ...

Rebound. Do I find a way to stop loving him? Or do I hold on and suffer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I was a friend to my ex for a year before he discovered that his wife had betrayed him and they proceeded very quickly to end the marriage. Of course, he ran to me as a shoulder to cry on and, slowly, things developed into more after the divorce....

Can a relationship work when age, tastes and especially nationality are so different and the language between you both is limited?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I have a thing for my work mate and things have happened between us in the past, a kiss here and there, flirting ect. But we have a lot of differences between us, he is almost 28 and I'm just 22, things like our music taste is completely differen...

I am genuinely not physically happy, but my partner gives me everything else I need. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - I am genuinely not physically happy, but she gives me every thing else I need. Security, love, and compassion are what she encompasses, but she lacks the intimacy and sexual fulfillment that I long for. I honestly don't know what happened, I mean I ...